Originally posted by KumSioJui:
wah thanx for your reply again, can see you are quite a kuai ger ha from your reply.
I asked this question because I seriously wanted to know and I'm sure some forumers of both sexes also want to know also.
Actually I think is easy to hide behind a monitor but meeting up some ppl can suddenly get very cold feet, myself included. After all it was the anonimity that brought us all to forums, at least for my case initially it was so.
Oh btw I'm also quite kong bak pau type ... kekekeke
I know what you're saying.
In our minds an image forms when we PM here and there, or post messages. Generally, the image is a good one, and more often then not, only when we meet do we realise that the person could be very very different from the image in our minds.
That has led to many disappointing meetings, when the guy/girl, sees that the person is not yandao/pretty, and decides to just walk off before even acknowledging her. Or acknowledge her, and bio her chio friend instead
That's why my advice to people who wants to meet up:-
1) Don't expect too much, keep your hopes low, so that when it dashes, it doesn't cause that much pain. (For those who go for looks)
2) Don't bring a chio friend along
3) Try to have a plan before meeting up, so even if you two get tongue-tied, you just have to proceed with the plan.
4) If you decide to chicken out at the last minute, send her a sms saying you can't make it, instead of just leaving her there.
P.S: Please take the above advice with a pinch of salt, everything differs for everyone. ~