woman to avoid for dating
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How many of these women have you dated?
1)CRY-BABY
HER MOTTO: “Waaaa!”
The Trap: She makes you feel so guilty that you make promises you can’t keep just to stop her
crying. She knows the power of tears. Unfortunately, so do you.
The Solution: Wait her out. They are only tears, not bullets. Let her wail all she wants, you’re
there while she’s wearing herself out. Being compassionate means being there for her, not caving
in to what she wants. Making promises you can’t keep doesn’t make you a better man.
Being yourself, even if she disapproves, and still being there for her is strong, manly stuff.
2)OLD YELLER
HER MOTTO: “Fuck you!”
The Trap: You live in fear of her rages. Or, you shout back and have useless fights with her.
The Solution: Don’t fight back. Don’t feed the fire. Understand what she’s saying. Tell her
you see she is angry. Slow things down. Make specific requests of her – pin her down on one
thing at a time and make specific small promises you can keep.
3)THE ILLOGICAL MANIPULATOR
HER MOTTO: “I’ll be irrational and drive you nuts, then accuse you of
being irrational and therefore WRONG.”
The Trap: You argue with her crazy, illogical arguments, then to go insane—which she then
uses as proof that you must be wrong.
The Solution: She needs to be right, so tell her when she’s right—even if it kills you.
Arguing with her point-for-point is useless; she isn’t logical. She uses what she calls ‘logic’
to wear you down. Her goal? To make you flip out or give up. Admit that you are irrational
by saying, “Sorry, but that’s just the way I feel.” That gets you out of her accusation that you
are ‘irrational.’ Keep staying with what you want; keep the mantra, “This is the way I feel,
what can we do about it?” Eventually she’ll calm down. But logic and rationality never works
here – only clear, simple persistence. She needs to be right and in control. Give her that as
much as you can while maintaining clarity about what you want.
4)THE SHAMING FEMINIST
HER MOTTO: “This is what men have been doing to women for thousands
of years!”
The Trap: You’ll feel guilty and ashamed about being a guy, and do whatever she wants to get
her to back off.
The Solution: Refuse to feel ashamed of what other men might have done to other women.
Be proud of being a man. Remember how noble men are. Don’t argue on her terms—keep
bringing the conversation back to specific events between the two of you – not some historical
smorgasbord of male crimes that you had nothing to do with.
5)THE VICTIM
HER MOTTO: “You just don’t understand how hard it is to be me!”
The Trap: She whines more than is humanly possible. She can’t see that she is totally committed
to being helpless. You try to help and suddenly you ‘don’t understand’ and ‘aren’t on her
side’. After all, the universe is against her.
The Solution: Don’t try to fix her problems. Let her learn her own lessons and realize that
there is nothing you can do to make her handle things ‘the right way’, which is how you
would handle them.
6)THE BEDTIME BRAWLER
HER MOTTO: “Are you asleep? There’s something we need to talk
about...[fill in the blank]”
The Trap: Ending up in a horrible, middle-of-the-night fight.
The Solution: Listen without fixing. Apologize if appropriate. Put her off ‘til later. Give in
on small stuff. Make promises you can keep. Show “emotional vulnerability,” and ask to be
held without talking.
12 Types Of Women To Avoid
1- Miss Feminist
This woman postulates that all the ills of society are orchestrated by men and the best
thing a man can do to improve himself is cut off his testicles and grow a pair of ovaries.
She believes that women are angelic creatures who would make the world a utopia if only the
male "patriarchy" would allow them to. Any woman who promotes these absurdities lives in a
fantasy world and will have no problem at all treating a man in a way that she would never
herself abide by. You can easily identify her by her incessant mantra,
"All men think with their penises." Avoid her at all costs.
2- Miss Take
She's out for your money — pure and simple. Miss Take is the ultimate in high
maintenance. She expects a man to finance her entire life just because she is biologically
female. To her, a man should pay for drinks, dinners, trips, flowers, and jewelry, while she
feels absolutely no guilt or compulsion to reciprocate.
She is nothing but a whitewashed prostitute. Miss Take thinks her vagina is plated with gold and
is worth a million dollars. She is greed personified. Since she has no concept of someone
else's feelings, her only interest is in getting what she wants.
And don't be fooled — some apparently very "nice" girls are the greediest of them all.
3- Miss Romance
This type of woman lives in a fantasy world of Lifetime Channel movies and romance novels. Every night she goes home alone to spend hours flipping through her bride magazines, imagining that, at any moment, Prince Charming will ride up on his white horse, sweep her off her feet, and offer her a problem-free existence for the rest of her life. The Miss Romances of the world have been coddled by parents and family, told they are "princesses," and have absolutely no idea that real life consists of paying bills and cleaning toilets. Miss Romance will expect to be taken care of, will be a dud in bed, and will, almost overnight, turn into a shrieking nag. Run.
4- Miss Elusive
This woman is closely allied to Miss Romance, but with a dark side. She is usually one of the "walking wounded" — someone who has been hurt in past relationships and so subconsciously avoids or sabotages new relationships in the present. Your association with her will be one of utter frustration, as first she shows great interest in you, but very quickly runs away — then repeats this cycle over and over again. Miss Elusive is the queen of mixed messages. She will flirt with you and date you, but you'll never get past "friend" status. What you will get is a million excuses for her unavailability, all calculated to deceive herself that she just doesn't have time for a relationship. Save yourself some heartache — don't get involved with her.
5- Miss Angry
Like Miss Feminists, Miss Angrys really don't like men. They scorn the male gender and can rattle off all the wrongs and misdeeds of every man they've ever encountered. To Miss Angry, there's no such thing as a nice guy — they're all "jerks," "creeps" and "pigs." Many of them have lots of simmering anger at men, which can explode at any moment like an erupting volcano. Unless you're into lots of drama and screaming, stay away.
6- Miss Insecure
This woman seems great at the start because she's very nice, accommodating and treats men well. But her inner insecurities don't take long to surface. Pretty soon she's calling you 10 times a day, asking to see "where the relationship is going," or because she "just wants to hear your voice." She needs constant reassurance that she's attractive, and worries incessantly about her makeup, hair and the alignment of her clothes. She's clingy, needy and compulsively agonizes that you're going to leave her at any moment for "someone better." This kind of thing can get really creepy really fast.
7- Miss Bitch
Miss Bitches are the sulkers, pouters and ball-busters of the female world. They are very unpleasant people who treat their fellow humans poorly, care only about themselves, and aren't concerned at all if they hurt you or anybody else. Most Miss Bitches qualify as Miss Takes, too. Miss Bitches are usually good-looking and well dressed, and you can easily identify them by the scowls on their faces as they imperiously strut through the world.
8- Miss Me
A close relative of Miss Bitch, Miss Me is entirely focused on herself. Miss Me needs to be the constant center of attention no matter what she does or where she goes. She is a selfish, self-indulgent, self-serving narcissist who was raised as "daddy's little girl," and expects the same from you. Unless you enjoy the company of spoiled brats, stay far, far away.
9- Miss Desperate
Whether it's her baby clock ticking or she's the last of her girlfriends to trap a man, Miss Desperate wants to get married — now. She doesn't care who the guy is or what he does — as long as he's got a penis she can drag him to the altar. Watch out for this one!
10- Miss Turncoat
She's a conniving little piece of work who's an expert at conning men. Miss Turncoat will tell you exactly what you want to hear until you're hooked deep into the relationship (or married)… and then the truth comes out. Overnight, your sweet little girl turns into a demanding, greedy, mercenary harpy who will browbeat you into submission if she doesn't get her way.
11- Miss Tease
Usually, you can spot Miss Teases a mile away because she flirts with anything in pants and flaunt her sexuality at every opportunity. Sometimes she sponges off older men; sometimes she's a ball-buster who enjoys getting men sexually excited and then walking away; and sometimes she just basks in her sexual power by attracting men like bees to honey. No matter how she operates, you can't trust her because she craves male attention and if somebody better comes along, she'll dump you in a heartbeat.
12- Miss Controlling
She is a subtly nasty one who will wind up directing every phase of your life. She will tell you what to wear, where to go, who to talk to, what friends you can have, what you can eat — everything. And if you try to stand up for yourself, she will cut off sex, cry, scream, pout, or use any other deceptive female tactic until you give in and succumb to her demands. -
7 different kind of girl we shall avoid such as PMS queen, Needee Nellie , the material girl , shopaholica ,the mom and psycho babbler.
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LOL
She's 1 all the way to 6!!!
and i know if she sees this, she will use number 3 and 5!
and...
She's the mom!
lol i am always the kid -.-"
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Joolead, I suggest you don't marry or have any girlfriend this will solve your problems
Yes, women are so damn nasty, worthless, evil, troublemakers to you. hahahahahhahaha! Where do u come from joolead, from the womb of pig???
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NICE THREAD ! lol
he he.. man..
I think i met most of em before... but lucky enough not to get too deeply involved with them all.. a few i already headache.. putting the fear in me until today.
But actually , u date long enough liaw, u can see the telltale signs la. Thats when u... stop dating liaw n.. disappear. LOL! Thats why dating is important.
Too fast too furious.. n u are gonna get it big time. hahaha
Too slow too laid back... n u get nothing.
Cant live with them.. cant live without em. But no woman is perfect la.. if she so perfect, competition is going to be damn fierce.. lol I not talking about ur normal fierce.. i talking about Wars being started over her.
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Joolead, with all you have listed you seems to sound a perfect man with no flaws.
I say again, don't marry and don't have any girlfriend this will solve your problems of worrying of having those gals you listed.
What is your motive of this thread? To put down the gals and make yourself look damn bloody good and perfect??
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I've encountered women who are a combination of miss elusive and miss angry. very scary stuff.
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
Joolead, I suggest you don't marry or have any girlfriend this will solve your problems
Yes, women are so damn nasty, worthless, evil, troublemakers to you. hahahahahhahaha! Where do u come from joolead, from the womb of pig???
chill lah....
title state: women to avoid.....
not saying all women are such as those listed.... + this isnt women bashing....
u can oso go list down men to avoid.... i am sure there is load and how to spot the telltale sign....
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i thought just need to avoid ho ching
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Originally posted by EarlNeo:
chill lah....
title state: women to avoid.....
not saying all women are such as those listed.... + this isnt women bashing....
u can oso go list down men to avoid.... i am sure there is load and how to spot the telltale sign....
I am not so bo liao to list down things like that about men unless i have good reason to do so.Tell TS no woman is perfect, if he wants someone perfect, ask him go marry God
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the title says: women to avoid.....
ho ching is a man
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Originally posted by av98m:
the title says: women to avoid.....
ho ching is a man
hahahahah! so do u mean that lhl married a man? but how ho jinx gave birth? -
2- Miss Take
She's out for your money — pure and simple. Miss Take is the ultimate in high
maintenance. She expects a man to finance her entire life just because she is biologically
female. To her, a man should pay for drinks, dinners, trips, flowers, and jewelry, while she
feels absolutely no guilt or compulsion to reciprocate.
She is nothing but a whitewashed prostitute. Miss Take thinks her vagina is plated with gold and
is worth a million dollars. She is greed personified. Since she has no concept of someone
else's feelings, her only interest is in getting what she wants.
And don't be fooled — some apparently very "nice" girls are the greediest of them all.wawa..
i realize i got lots of this kind of female friends....
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
hahahahah! so do u mean that lhl married a man? but how ho jinx gave birth?do you really want to know? do you?
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Originally posted by av98m:
do you really want to know? do you?
I rather not know. hahahhhahha
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Shopaholica.. xD
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Originally posted by BadzMaro:
Shopaholica.. xD
that one okie...
so long not using ur $$$
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lol. interesting.
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wahahahah, TS, you wait for parn to arrive here Okie
hahahha
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
wahahahah, TS, you wait for parn to arrive here Okie
hahahha
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parn, come come. This thread awaits you.
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THE ILLOGICAL MANIPULATOR
best in singapore, jb and some say batam.
What is wrong with posting this thread. go ahead and post about guys.
Miss Feminist
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
wahahahah, TS, you wait for parn to arrive here Okie
hahahha
Actually, now that you mention it, this thread does have its uses....... -
Originally posted by Pitot:
THE ILLOGICAL MANIPULATOR
best in singapore, jb and some say batam.
What is wrong with posting this thread. go ahead and post about guys.
Miss Feminist
Well, do u mean to initiate flaming?
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