Reflections

• Callan

  4 Mar 09, 01:23

  I thank life for allowing me to get to know so many beautiful and wonderful women in my short life thus far. Because it allowed me to understand that I'm better off alone. It's not the women's fault that my life is such but my own's.

  There are no women who are made to suit us men, for when you love, you love her everything. But for men like me who are perfectionists, it makes us ponder and wonder why the curse of man is to love imperfection despite his intelligence.

  I do not hate women but in fact still very much love them so, for when I'm in the chase, I'm always charming and suave just so I can impress these sirens. It's when I'm bound by the chains of the curse, that my wings are nipped. My perfectionist side emerges in a few months and allow for no misgivings on my side in a r/s. The stress and pressure overshadows the smiles and pleasure. I become serious and often a stranger to be with. My smile is but a weak twitch of my lips, for I'm thinking all the time, on how to be better than yesterday so that she will love me more. I'm no longer spontenous and become apprehensive to every idea fearing that it might turn out a disaster. I strive hard to please my woman in every single way, hoping that she will be happy with my every action, only to forget that what she loved me for, was for the one I was previously. I attempt to fulfill every role she needs me to be in her life, only to realise that all these are a novelty to her. What she needs me to be, is just me.

  Thus is the curse of a man like me, charming and suave I might seem, but really just full of sadness and insecurities. So women are better off without me, just like me without them. For I'm only my best when I try not to be.

• oldbreadstinks

  4 Mar 09, 01:53

  wtf?

• mancha

  4 Mar 09, 02:05

  Familarity breeds contempt.

• Bak la va

  4 Mar 09, 12:39

  Originally posted by Callan:

  I thank life for allowing me to get to know so many beautiful and wonderful women in my short life thus far. Because it allowed me to understand that I'm better off alone. It's not the women's fault that my life is such but my own's.

  There are no women who are made to suit us men, for when you love, you love her everything. But for men like me who are perfectionists, it makes us ponder and wonder why the curse of man is to love imperfection despite his intelligence.

  I do not hate women but in fact still very much love them so, for when I'm in the chase, I'm always charming and suave just so I can impress these sirens. It's when I'm bound by the chains of the curse, that my wings are nipped. My perfectionist side emerges in a few months and allow for no misgivings on my side in a r/s. The stress and pressure overshadows the smiles and pleasure. I become serious and often a stranger to be with. My smile is but a weak twitch of my lips, for I'm thinking all the time, on how to be better than yesterday so that she will love me more. I'm no longer spontenous and become apprehensive to every idea fearing that it might turn out a disaster. I strive hard to please my woman in every single way, hoping that she will be happy with my every action, only to forget that what she loved me for, was for the one I was previously. I attempt to fulfill every role she needs me to be in her life, only to realise that all these are a novelty to her. What she needs me to be, is just me.

  Thus is the curse of a man like me, charming and suave I might seem, but really just full of sadness and insecurities. So women are better off without me, just like me without them. For I'm only my best when I try not to be.

  Why u start to write essay again?

• QX179R

  4 Mar 09, 12:40

  at least got paragraph..

  some write essay bo para one..

• JJxJJ

  4 Mar 09, 12:42

  Originally posted by Bak la va:

  Why u start to write essay again?

  isn't that what a reflection is supposed to be like?

• Bak la va

  4 Mar 09, 12:49

  This essay reminds me of one of my childhood incident..... We seldom have sweets or snacks in our home as we are not well off to do so..... Therefore, when it comes to CNY, and we will go to our relatives' home, pick those favourite sweets n chocolate to put inside our mini handbag to bring home....

  So when we reach home, we will "bao bei" our mini handbag n put it under our pillow...... So our friends start to come n share our sweets n chocolate....... In the end, all our favourite sweets n chocolate being thrown away n get ourselves a canning session from mama....

   

  Sometimes when we over protective someone or something, that does not help the situation. We should "yi ping chang xin qiu mian du shuo you de shi". But not all of us can do that......... Sign.....

• ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~

  4 Mar 09, 15:09

  Callan... U're an intelligient man... The problem with intelligient man is that they think too much...

   

  and U sound like a virgo -___-

• soleachip

  4 Mar 09, 15:13

  what else do we not know about callan?

• Midlusionz

  4 Mar 09, 15:19

  /sayang bakbak

  Next time i meet u i bring u go candy shop ok?

• Bak la va

  4 Mar 09, 16:00

  Originally posted by Midlusionz:

  /sayang bakbak

  Next time i meet u i bring u go candy shop ok?

  
  MidL......... i like to eat chocolate!!!!

• Midlusionz

  4 Mar 09, 16:05

  Noted

• gigabyte14

  4 Mar 09, 16:06

  eh?

• Callan

  4 Mar 09, 21:45

  Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:

  Callan... U're an intelligient man... The problem with intelligient man is that they think too much...

   

  and U sound like a virgo -___-

  
  I'm actually scorpio.
• Fantagf

  4 Mar 09, 21:46

  OMG, oh my goodness, gracious, goodness!   It is women again for Callan.

  Sorry, callan, will finish reading your thread another day.

• Callan

  4 Mar 09, 22:58

  Originally posted by Fantagf:

  OMG, oh my goodness, gracious, goodness!   It is women again for Callan.

  Sorry, callan, will finish reading your thread another day.

  Is it really that long?

  I cut down alot already.

• rlsh07

  4 Mar 09, 23:04

  hmm.. 

• XxYaNxX

  5 Mar 09, 20:51

  Originally posted by Callan:

  I thank life for allowing me to get to know so many beautiful and wonderful women in my short life thus far. Because it allowed me to understand that I'm better off alone. It's not the women's fault that my life is such but my own's.

  There are no women who are made to suit us men, for when you love, you love her everything. But for men like me who are perfectionists, it makes us ponder and wonder why the curse of man is to love imperfection despite his intelligence.

  I do not hate women but in fact still very much love them so, for when I'm in the chase, I'm always charming and suave just so I can impress these sirens. It's when I'm bound by the chains of the curse, that my wings are nipped. My perfectionist side emerges in a few months and allow for no misgivings on my side in a r/s. The stress and pressure overshadows the smiles and pleasure. I become serious and often a stranger to be with. My smile is but a weak twitch of my lips, for I'm thinking all the time, on how to be better than yesterday so that she will love me more. I'm no longer spontenous and become apprehensive to every idea fearing that it might turn out a disaster. I strive hard to please my woman in every single way, hoping that she will be happy with my every action, only to forget that what she loved me for, was for the one I was previously. I attempt to fulfill every role she needs me to be in her life, only to realise that all these are a novelty to her. What she needs me to be, is just me.

  Thus is the curse of a man like me, charming and suave I might seem, but really just full of sadness and insecurities. So women are better off without me, just like me without them. For I'm only my best when I try not to be.

  Self pity ?

• Callan

  6 Mar 09, 00:08

  Originally posted by XxYaNxX:

  Self pity ?

  Please read the Name of the topic, it is call self reflection.