Should i forget her, or go after her?
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Hi,
I need some opinions.. i had this argument with a girl that i was very close to last weekend. She's never been the best kind of girl to me, in the sense that she's quite aloof and she doesnt show it eventhough she says that she likes me and is willing to try things out.
Shes claims that she finds it hard to express herself with me and yet she tells me she has alot of other commitments and that she has ALOT of friends around her.
I got pissed off cause she eventhough ive been trying to voice out my concern about her not being responsive enough to me, she still didnt respond and she could still do things like answer phone calls and smses while i was already quite emotional that night!!!
The next few days i realised i was wrong for throwing my temper and i tried alot to call her n everything but until now she has not replied or called me back.
What should i do ???
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hey! hmm. . .
age group?
diff age calls for diff solutions u know. . . -
does she does deepthroats? if she doesn't tell her to GTFO
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Originally posted by The Showstopper:
does she does deepthroats? if she doesn't tell her to GTFO
Don be so mean la.
Aniwae ts, i cant comment much , but u both seems erm. . . . immature? -
Originally posted by Danields05:
Hi,
I need some opinions.. i had this argument with a girl that i was very close to last weekend. She's never been the best kind of girl to me, in the sense that she's quite aloof and she doesnt show it eventhough she says that she likes me and is willing to try things out.
Shes claims that she finds it hard to express herself with me and yet she tells me she has alot of other commitments and that she has ALOT of friends around her.
I got pissed off cause she eventhough ive been trying to voice out my concern about her not being responsive enough to me, she still didnt respond and she could still do things like answer phone calls and smses while i was already quite emotional that night!!!
The next few days i realised i was wrong for throwing my temper and i tried alot to call her n everything but until now she has not replied or called me back.
What should i do ???
she's just NOT that into u...
read her signal... she's dumping u... -
not together can get dumped?
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If she's not your girlfriend then u can't expect her to response to your every call or sms. Even if she's your girlfriend, she has her life to live. She's not your maid or salve that have to be around upon your calling.
There are many ways to show concerns and even if you show, not everyone needs to appreciate. Perhaps you should show to someone who's more appreciative of your concerns?
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is her english name start with S and surname is Ng?
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Your just a high maintainence needy lover.
So what if she likes you and is willing to go out with you.? The way you keep seeking her out is suffocating her. She still needs her space man.
Do you expect her to neglect her social life just to "chill" with you. Think about it this way, if things don't work out with you. She would have lost all her friends and you. -
Originally posted by ItsJustNC:
Your just a high maintainence needy lover.
So what if she likes you and is willing to go out with you.? The way you keep seeking her out is suffocating her. She still needs her space man.
Do you expect her to neglect her social life just to "chill" with you. Think about it this way, if things don't work out with you. She would have lost all her friends and you.gals like her are hard to please, perhaps u shld move on
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just chill, homes... he he
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Originally posted by candiz:
gals like her are hard to please, perhaps u shld move on
Life wouldn't be fun if it was too easy wouldn't it.?
But that is beside the point. The point is, it is whether the happiness makes the trouble all worth while.? Otherwise, everyone should just date hookers.? But the fact remains that love out of lust, never last. -
aiya.. girls are hard to please, but impress by pleasing them. u will stand out from others.
its ok for her to socialise i guess. she has her own life as well. u too can socialise more like her. its ok to socialise and commit to a relationship concurrently.
but if u really need some1 that really cares for u and be there for u as and when u want. maybe she isnt the 1 u looking for.
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haha.
gina pis.
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ask urself if u still want her back?do u dude?
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Aiyah small case lar how old are you ? i rem i used to chase 1 ger when i was in my ite days . She from another ITE i used to call her to tok almost everynite n she will always pick up my calls . But when my exams come near i stop calling her to focus on my exams . When i finish my exam n realised that i left 5 days to enjoy before going for army , i tried to call her to tell her . But by then she refused to pick up my call liao . So in the end i go to army with a broken heart thinking of her . Until now i am single while she already have a bf with car . While i only have my " hokkien car " .
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hmm.. this gal.. sounds like me.. except that i m not aloof, nor do i hv that many commitments :p
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Where did TS go? he didn't reply to any of us yet?
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Well we'r both in our lower 20s .. n i knew her for very very long.. years
n we had something going on a few yrs ago but i didnt pursue n she gave up on me..
i went back to her recently and he had alot of good things going but its just that i felt she was not responding as much eventho she said she'd try
i think ur right, maybe im asking for too much ..but its been days and ive decided to give myself and her some space.. i dont know if she'll talk to me again now .. she might even have given up on this =(
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zzz TS wadever happened to you
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Originally posted by Danields05:
Well we'r both in our lower 20s .. n i knew her for very very long.. years
n we had something going on a few yrs ago but i didnt pursue n she gave up on me..
i went back to her recently and he had alot of good things going but its just that i felt she was not responding as much eventho she said she'd try
i think ur right, maybe im asking for too much ..but its been days and ive decided to give myself and her some space.. i dont know if she'll talk to me again now .. she might even have given up on this =(
gosh u finally replied. keep distance for now. . . women usually tend to settle down very late in their years, , , i noe this not by experience, but by statistics. . . chill for now (: -
it hurts when i just think about it .. i dont know if i shud pursue this anymore ..
some of my friends say i shud move on n i deserve better, but i just keep thinking of it and what could have been... i know i overdid it and its my fault and i so want to make things right! =(
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Originally posted by Danields05:
it hurts when i just think about it .. i dont know if i shud pursue this anymore ..
some of my friends say i shud move on n i deserve better, but i just keep thinking of it and what could have been... i know i overdid it and its my fault and i so want to make things right! =(
stop blaming urself!
from wad im reading, i don see anything tads of your fault leh. . .
consult in ur close friend? they should noe u better. -
Originally posted by Danields05:
it hurts when i just think about it .. i dont know if i shud pursue this anymore ..
some of my friends say i shud move on n i deserve better, but i just keep thinking of it and what could have been... i know i overdid it and its my fault and i so want to make things right! =(
is her english name starts with S and surname is Lee?