Originally posted by pigsticker:very hard lei... u need a talkative partner... then u need your partner to have the same interests as you...
i guess u probably dun value silence as much as i do... i like 心�相通
no leh, a topic gets more interesting if we have differing opinions. that way u can appreciate the beauty of his/her intelligence.
Originally posted by stellazio:no leh, a topic gets more interesting if we have differing opinions. that way u can appreciate the beauty of his/her intelligence.
i do not do well in groups though. i can only talk and be my real self if more chances to knoe you more on one -on -one ba
Originally posted by stellazio:no leh, a topic gets more interesting if we have differing opinions. that way u can appreciate the beauty of his/her intelligence.
same interest dun not mean same viewpoint mah...
e.g. we like soccer.. but we sar-pork different teams...
Originally posted by rlsh07:
i do not do well in groups though. i can only talk and be my real self if more chances to knoe you more on one -on -one ba
i noe.. someone discovered it accidentally...
Originally posted by pigsticker:same interest dun not mean same viewpoint mah...
e.g. we like soccer.. but we sar-pork different teams...
but if we have the same interests, then its boring! cause we wont get the chance to try and understand or dislike the other half's hobbies..
friendly quarrels/debates are interesting!
Originally posted by stellazio:but if we have the same interests, then its boring! cause we wont get the chance to try and understand or dislike the other half's hobbies..
friendly quarrels/debates are interesting!
but how are u going to debate when the other party has no interest and knowledge of your interests??
Originally posted by pigsticker:i noe.. someone discovered it accidentally...
who?
Originally posted by pigsticker:but how are u going to debate when the other party has no interest and knowledge of your interests??
they don't have to debate bout interests! i wouldn't like someone i like to be slanging at my fav team or supporting my most hated team u know?
Originally posted by stellazio:they don't have to debate bout interests! i wouldn't like someone i like to be slanging at my fav team or supporting my most hated team u know?
i dunno.. i always had this impression that when u tell your partner "my team won the EPL", then she goes like "okay...."
instant conversation killer....
Originally posted by rlsh07:
so u are very smart then?
no no.. not that i very smart.
but sometime it can be pretty taxing talking to someone who dont understand wad u saying half the time
Originally posted by pigsticker:
i dunno.. i always had this impression that when u tell your partner "my team won the EPL", then she goes like "okay...."
instant conversation killer....
i have enough football kakis to discuss football about. i don't need another one at home..
its just like "dear, i bought another bag today" and i will go "wtf"..instant death too.
Originally posted by pigsticker:
i dunno.. i always had this impression that when u tell your partner "my team won the EPL", then she goes like "okay...."
instant conversation killer....
Originally posted by ifish:
no no.. not that i very smart.but sometime it can be pretty taxing talking to someone who dont understand wad u saying half the time
yah i sometimes got that problem. hmm.. last time my ex keep listening to me talk talk talk. hahaha so funny now that i think abt it
Originally posted by stellazio:i have enough football kakis to discuss football about. i don't need another one at home..
its just like "dear, i bought another bag today" and i will go "wtf"..instant death too.
yah lah.. you get what i mean rite... need at least some common points then can maintain your flowing conversation.. unless your partner realli that kind of non-stop talking kind.. absolutely disastrous for me...
Originally posted by pigsticker:yah lah.. you get what i mean rite... need at least some common points then can maintain your flowing conversation.. unless your partner realli that kind of non-stop talking kind.. absolutely disastrous for me...
this kind also no good leh..
like only flow 1 way..
1. Must know how to take care of her body (slim, toned)
2. Not overly materialistic
3. Not possesive
if I were to have some specific requirements,
1. share some common goals, views and interests yet still maintain her own.
2. no need to be angelic, but down to earth, filial and kind would be good.
3. honestly, don't have to be extremely beautiful, as long as got "feel" and have own style.
4. to be the someone dependable on at certain times. Guys are humans too, we can be down and out at times so it would be most appreciated if she were to give wisdom during tough times.
but all these are IF I could choose to have.
The only thing for me is that I must be in love with her
Product must last for more than 20yrs under my rough, insensitive and careless care.
But... but... but... how will I know it will be more than 20 yrs ?
That is why I am still posting this here mah!!!
Originally posted by ispyyy:Product must last for more than 20yrs under my rough, insensitive and careless care.
But... but... but... how will I know it will be more than 20 yrs ?
That is why I am still posting this here mah!!!
i guess ur exam are done n over with...
It is gd to know wat u wan. But sometime, i find that ppl tend to fall in love with having none of wat they are seaching for. Sometime, attraction is abt wanting something u cant have or something u never desire in the 1st place.
Originally posted by EarlNeo:i guess ur exam are done n over with...
huh??? what exam ??? Life is like a string of examinations.
Never end... IT WILL NEVER END!!!
Just coming to SC to calm myself for a presentation later.
Talking things tat no1 understand ... hahahaaa...
Originally posted by EarlNeo:It is gd to know wat u wan. But sometime, i find that ppl tend to fall in love with having none of wat they are seaching for. Sometime, attraction is abt wanting something u cant have or something u never desire in the 1st place.
Most will not get what they want in reality...
We have only learnt that so called "attraction" from stories, movies and blah blah...
But in actual real life, "attraction" is more than that. You need more than a life to experience all of those... But I really cant be bothered to discover the term "attraction" ...
1. Respect my family
2. understanding
3. able to stand my temper
4. Jovial
Cup E, tattoos all over, violent, love me super madly, PhD level at least, +- 5 yrs my age, and most importantly love to joke.