Originally posted by Fatum:I'm glad to say I've managed to "protect" every single one of them, not that there were many ....
save one .... she was a severely disabled, wheel chair bound paraplagic inmate at the red cross home for the disabled when I was in my teens .....
though I know she "crushes" just about every young male volunteer there, it really bites at your soul cos you know that her feelings for her "crushes" can never ever be requitted ... it's like an ironic and cruel twist of fate that heaven gave her a wrecked, twisted body but left her human urges intact .....
I still think of the inmates there sometimes ... I used to play chess with one, and I have never defeated him .... but it takes too much out of me to go there, though it's so near my house, over at hill view ....
but I digress ....
you think too much...
really...
Originally posted by av98m:
errmmm...so you actually do like her? as in there isn't anything about her that's a deal breaker for you?
it won't kill you to go out with her once and see how it goes from there I guess.
I did ... I met her at a mutual friend's ...she's the sort, if she didn't have her day job, can probably make an even better living being a model or starring in a TVB serial (yeah, she's not local)
but, perhaps yes ... maybe I'm fan jian .... cos perhaps I haven't let go of the torch I'm holding for someone who's told me "no" outright 4 times now .....
Originally posted by Fatum:I did ... I met her at a mutual friend's ...she's the sort, if she didn't have her day job, can probably make an even better living being a model or starring in a TVB serial (yeah, she's not local)
but, perhaps yes ... maybe I'm fan jian .... cos perhaps I haven't let go of the torch I'm holding for someone who's told me "no" outright 4 times now .....
well, if she has some kind of thing for fat balding guys you can intro her to me.
nah, just kidding!
haha. i know most of us don't agree with fatum. myself included. but i'm glad that people like him exist.
it's one of those things where sometimes i tell my dad 'i'm so glad that there are some people who actually really believe they can save the world...' and am not sarcastic about it.
Originally posted by udontknowme:haha. i know most of us don't agree with fatum. myself included. but i'm glad that people like him exist.
it's one of those things where sometimes i tell my dad 'i'm so glad that there are some people who actually really believe they can save the world...' and am not sarcastic about it.
yeah, I know what you mean.
tsk tsk tsk...
if gals old fat and ugly, u all hiam like wat... gals pretty and all, u all scare like wat...
wat do guys want, really?
Originally posted by tare:tsk tsk tsk...
if gals old fat and ugly, u all hiam like wat... gals pretty and all, u all scare like wat...
wat do guys want, really?
guys want what they can't have.
yes, men are pigs.
Originally posted by av98m:
well, if she has some kind of thing for fat balding guys you can intro her to me.
nah, just kidding!
well .... *ahem .....
if you don't mind someone who's 6 years older than you ..... sure ....
she dives too .... I told her to come to ADEX this weekend .... come along ....
Originally posted by tare:tsk tsk tsk...
if gals old fat and ugly, u all hiam like wat... gals pretty and all, u all scare like wat...
wat do guys want, really?
Booze, chips, and the EPL.
what i want i already have
Originally posted by Fatum:well .... *ahem .....
if you don't mind someone who's 6 years older than you ..... sure ....
she dives too .... I told her to come to ADEX this weekend .... come along ....
wait...so is THAT the problem for you?
Originally posted by fudgester:Booze, chips, and the EPL.
OORRRRRHHHH u miss out FS!!!!!!!!!!
wait u got drink de meh?! o.O
Originally posted by av98m:
wait...so is THAT the problem for you?
hmmm... sooooooo...
it comes down to the tadpole squad again?
Originally posted by fudgester:Booze, chips, and the EPL.
quoted for future reference and blackmail opportunities
Originally posted by av98m:
wait...so is THAT the problem for you?
jie di lian now IN thing okie.....
and anything less than 20 yrs diff (w/in legal boundaries) ish okie de
Originally posted by av98m:
wait...so is THAT the problem for you?
no .....
I've gone out with ladies with even bigger age gaps ....
thank goodness i let the younger boys im nice to know that i see them as 'the younger brother i never had'......
1. I don't drink
2. I don't like chips
3. I don't even follow the Barclays EPL.
That was all in jest!
can't they get rid of that darn green logo on the top? it damn irritating
but it can be bruising on your male ego ......
I'm still at the beginning stages of my career ......
it hurts when the other party has her own pad and drives a flash car .... my male ego's putting up a fierce fight ....
Originally posted by Fatum:I'm glad to say I've managed to "protect" every single one of them, not that there were many ....
I would say Fatum is an idealist
He envisions himself as the Prince Charming trying to save damsels in distress and when he gets his 'Princess' he takes it upon himself to treat her like one and gives himself additional pressure and stress to do so.
I guess it's nice to have idealists in this world but Fatum, some friendly uncalled for advice.
#1. Most girls are tougher than you think and really don't need you to save. They might act like damsels in distress but that's just a form of making use of their feminine wiles.
#2. It's good to treat yr girl well but not to the point of over-pampering her till she takes you for granted and it becomes a right. Also you have to know that you must have the energy and capital to keep up with what you do because the expectations are there already. And few can differentiate a privilage from a right!
ahh.. the ego thing...
it's one hell of a breaker for some.. look at what happened after that speech of Marcellus Wallace to Butch
Originally posted by SevenEleven:can't they get rid of that darn green logo on the top? it damn irritating
x10!!!
I HATE THAT BLOODY GREEN BANNER
Originally posted by elindra:
I would say Fatum is an idealistHe envisions himself as the Prince Charming trying to save damsels in distress and when he gets his 'Princess' he takes it upon himself to treat her like one and gives himself additional pressure and stress to do so.
I guess it's nice to have idealists in this world but Fatum, some friendly uncalled for advice.
#1. Most girls are tougher than you think and really don't need you to save. They might act like damsels in distress but that's just a form of making use of their feminine wiles.
#2. It's good to treat yr girl well but not to the point of over-pampering her till she takes you for granted and it becomes a right. Also you have to know that you must have the energy and capital to keep up with what you do because the expectations are there already. And few can differentiate a privilage from a right!
i tend to agree with pinky. the journey don't end after courtship
Originally posted by elindra:
I would say Fatum is an idealistHe envisions himself as the Prince Charming trying to save damsels in distress and when he gets his 'Princess' he takes it upon himself to treat her like one and gives himself additional pressure and stress to do so.
I guess it's nice to have idealists in this world but Fatum, some friendly uncalled for advice.
#1. Most girls are tougher than you think and really don't need you to save. They might act like damsels in distress but that's just a form of making use of their feminine wiles.
#2. It's good to treat yr girl well but not to the point of over-pampering her till she takes you for granted and it becomes a right. Also you have to know that you must have the energy and capital to keep up with what you do because the expectations are there already. And few can differentiate a privilage from a right!
I know what you mean ...
the irony is that you want to treat your sweetie like a princess but you don't want someone with princess attitudes ......
*hai .....