Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 40th Edition
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yeah it's hard when my mindset of a kid = financial liabilityOriginally posted by sillyme:That's quite a few.
Nobody can decide except the both of you. More importantly you're the one carrying the baby. Hard to weigh the costs and rewards hor? Maybe with some planning, some of the problems can be resolved.
Fortunately for me, my girlfriend and I want to have children and will start soon after our wedding
Plus I think a dog give you more love back and less headaches though it can't talk -
I believe all the concerns you listed above can be overcome.Originally posted by elindra:Actually for me it's more psychological then financial
I'm dead afraid of pain
I'm grossed out by anything unsanitary (yes a drooling kid grosses me out)
I'm afraid I'll be fat n ugly
The thought of having to clean the house more then what we do now is
No one to look after the kid
I'll have to shop less and buy less expensive stuff
And I'm afraid that Mr Pinky Bear will focus more attention on the kid then me
If your concern is mainly due to your dislike of kids, then you seriously need to think twice.
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WTF x 2Originally posted by Ferret:
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pinky bear is like me......Originally posted by elindra:Acck
Oh yeah not to mention a crying baby gives me more stress then anything else
i dun just get stress, i get a physical migraine and would require painkiller... -
they tried killing the ferret for 60 pages.Originally posted by av98m:WTF x 2
All failed.
muahahahahahahahaha -
Oh yeah after my bratty niecesOriginally posted by Wanda:I think my worst nightmare if I have a kid would be the kid turning out into a brat.... then I might as well kill myself.
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IP as in intellectual property?Originally posted by tare:as in my job?! nope... now i secretary in IP firm...
yes i shocked myself
Oh, I am not shocked at all....coz I myself am not doing what I was trained in, and i think it's a common thing nowadays.. -
My brother actually made a joke out of itOriginally posted by honeymouse:I believe all the concerns you listed above can be overcome.
If your concern is mainly due to your dislike of kids, then you seriously need to think twice.
He says I imagine sis having a kid
The kid calls "Mummy"
and you see sis walking away in the other direction -
those 300 CMIOriginally posted by Ferret:they tried killing the ferret for 60 pages.
All failed.
muahahahahahahahaha
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yup yup....Originally posted by Wanda:IP as in intellectual property?
Oh, I am not shocked at all....coz I myself am not doing what I was trained in, and i think it's a common thing nowadays..
frm design to admin quite drastic i guess; somemore in such a traditional environment.... esp for a person like me... -
actually i think for engineering, lifescience has the most girls liao.Originally posted by fudgester:Chemical Engin has the prettiest girls in my faculty.
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When SO and I leave the flat to go to work every morning, I'll say bye bye to our 2 foster cats, and I always think: Ahh...how nice if only kids can be as independent and left alone to their own devices at home, just like the cats. We just need to come back to feed them, clear the litter box, sayang them a bit that that about it!Originally posted by elindra:yeah it's hard when my mindset of a kid = financial liability
Plus I think a dog give you more love back and less headaches though it can't talk -
i was kinda worry abt bratty kids.... but my friends said ur dog u train so well-behaved, ur own kids will also be the same de lah....Originally posted by elindra:Oh yeah after my bratty nieces
I'm scarred for life
to a certain extent, yes it's how u train the kid frm young i guess..... just like "husband training"
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Do you know the reasons why you dislike kids so much? There must be reasons for it. Is it because of bad experience you had? Seeing your friends' kids etc.Originally posted by elindra:My brother actually made a joke out of it
He says I imagine sis having a kid
The kid calls "Mummy"
and you see sis walking away in the other direction
All kids are different and it all depends on upbring and discipline. Also, as a female, you'd have at least some kind of maternal instinct. May be you might react differently when you have your own kids one day.
Did Mr Pinky know you don't like kids before you were married? -
You're not at IPOS (old name), are you? Or would this be a legal firm specialising in IP?Originally posted by tare:yup yup....
frm design to admin quite drastic i guess; somemore in such a traditional environment.... esp for a person like me... -
Isn't mine betterOriginally posted by Wanda:When SO and I leave the flat to go to work every morning, I'll say bye bye to our 2 foster cats, and I always think: Ahh...how nice if only kids can be as independent and left alone to their own devices at home, just like the cats. We just need to come back to feed them, clear the litter box, sayang them a bit that that about it!
2 weeks 1 water change
1 feed a day
turtle greets me when I walk to the tank
Heck I don't even need to pet it -
have kids, and have our parents look after em in the day.
thats what i told my mother.
me: mum ni shi bu shi hen xiang bao sun zi
mum: dang ran xiang la, ni gen jiejie yi hou guai guai gei wo sen hor
me: ok, u help me to look after them?
mum: tang ku ku!
but i know she and my dad will. -
Ferrets Rulez.Originally posted by av98m:those 300 CMI
*presses laugh button*
Get used to it. -
I think I have seen too many brats for my own goodOriginally posted by honeymouse:Do you know the reasons why you dislike kids so much? There must be reasons for it. Is it because of bad experience you had? Seeing your friends' kids etc.
All kids are different and it all depends on upbring and discipline. Also, as a female, you'd have at least some kind of maternal instinct. May be you might react differently when you have your own kids one day.
Did Mr Pinky know you don't like kids before you were married?
Well my hubby is getting clucky and I'm not
So what do you think?
Yeah Mr Pinky Bear knew I don't like kids before we were married
I guess he thinks he can make me change my mind or an accident happens
PS. He was scared by my nieces too
Btw the worse thing is that they are twins so it's like 2 tiny devils on steroids -
Well, I do like to pat the cats, and having their warm furry bodies snuggle with me in bed...sometimes.Originally posted by elindra:Isn't mine better
2 weeks 1 water change
1 feed a day
turtle greets me when I walk to the tank
Heck I don't even need to pet it
I do like iguana though...i find them quite cute. -
If yr parents stay at home yeahOriginally posted by stellazio:have kids, and have our parents look after em in the day.
thats what i told my mother.
me: mum ni shi bu shi hen xiang bao sun zi
mum: dang ran xiang la, ni gen jiejie yi hou guai guai gei wo sen hor
me: ok, u help me to look after them?
mum: tang ku ku!
but i know she and my dad will.
Not if they work later then you sometimes -
my fav pet, would be a really smart african grey parrot. hopefuly as smart as einstein.
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Smart enough to poop on your head if you piss it offOriginally posted by stellazio:my fav pet, would be a really smart african grey parrot. hopefuly as smart as einstein. -
IPOS is not old name tat's the patent office.... i working at a legal firm doing IP de..Originally posted by Wanda:You're not at IPOS (old name), are you? Or would this be a legal firm specialising in IP? -
Funny thing is I'm ok with teenagers
If only kids came out as teenagers