Compatibilities
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So you are into Foodism lahOriginally posted by tare:i love ti kar... so cannot date muslim
i love beef tendon... so cannot date buddhist...
okie indirectly religion is very impt lah....
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I definitely cannot date a Muslim because I'm not going to convert to Islam.Originally posted by tare:i love ti kar... so cannot date muslim
i love beef tendon... so cannot date buddhist...
okie indirectly religion is very impt lah....
And oh, I definitely love my pork.
Y'know, tare, I never thought of religion in terms of food abstinence but now that you mention it, I guess I can only date from a smaller pool! -
Originally posted by SydneyLibrarian:I have a confession to make
One of my requirements for my guy was that he had to be IT literate. Very IT literate, come to think of it! Else, next time, how to get the best deals for computers, electronics, etc? And, I can't stand teaching someone how to use basic IT. I'm too impatient!
So my guy needed to be IT-literate, else... forget it! I'm not even dating him! Yeah, I remember you telling me that when we were... very much younger. Ah well, congrats, you got what you wished for! Hehehe! 
I love guys who are into their gadgets and machines.
Stereo sound systems, computers, mobiles... stuff like that. I don't wanna marry a Dinosaur who isn't saavy.
Oh, somehow, guys who are very into their sound systems and game machines, oooooohhhhh... Make space! Missy fainting!! -
Originally posted by sillyme:So you are into Foodism lah
Foodism, the Singaporean Religion!
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and alcholism....Originally posted by sillyme:So you are into Foodism lah -
Yup, yup.. there's something sooo masculine & sexy about them!Originally posted by Rhonda: Yeah, I remember you telling me that when we were... very much younger. Ah well, congrats, you got what you wished for! Hehehe!
I love guys who are into their gadgets and machines. Stereo sound systems, computers, mobiles... stuff like that. I don't wanna marry a Dinosaur who isn't saavy.
Oh, somehow, guys who are very into their sound systems and game machines, oooooohhhhh... Make space! Missy fainting!! 
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tat's why i prefer chineseOriginally posted by Rhonda:I definitely cannot date a Muslim because I'm not going to convert to Islam. And oh, I definitely love my pork.
Y'know, tare, I never thought of religion in terms of food abstinence but now that you mention it, I guess I can only date from a smaller pool! -
Eh... I think of the alcoholic patients with Liver Ascites where a needle has to be inserted on the side of their abnormally blown-up abdomen to drain excess fluid...Originally posted by tare:and alcholism....
Then I think of the patients in the ICU on Liver Dialysis...
No thank you! If he drinks way too much for his own good, thanks but no thanks!
Basically, smokers and drinkers and clubbers, nope. -
Someone needs to be the designated driverOriginally posted by tare:and alcholism....
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pls pass those to meOriginally posted by Rhonda:Basically, smokers and drinkers and clubbers, nope. -
As long as he is not muslim, hindu, Singh, marmons, church leaders, cultist or whatever that believes that I must convert.
As long as he is above 33 years old, has a stable income & isnt living with his parents. And he must be financially sound to support a family should I be needed to be a stay at home housewife in any country.
As long as he has his own commitments and isnt demanding that I spent my waking hours having QUALITY TIME WITH HIM AND HIM ONLY.
And no smoker please, Cigars on a once a week basis, I can accept.
Can dance at least salsa? -
Hmm... seems like no men in Club 30 actually meet your criteria.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:As long as he is not muslim, hindu, Singh, marmons, church leaders, cultist or whatever that believes that I must convert.
As long as he is above 33 years old, has a stable income & isnt living with his parents. And he must be financially sound to support a family should I be needed to be a stay at home housewife in any country.
As long as he has his own commitments and isnt demanding that I spent my waking hours having QUALITY TIME WITH HIM AND HIM ONLY.
And no smoker please, Cigars on a once a week basis, I can accept.
Can dance at least salsa? -
omgg.. i so agree with chocoOriginally posted by choco B:You'll be fine as long as you don't expect the other half to accompany you outdoors / indoors. During the courtship phase they'll be all - "OK, good to try new things! " After that it'll be - "spare me please, you go ahead, we meet at home after " .
It's important to be understanding and tolerant of each other's natures. You can expect some change in your partner but seldom a 180 degree transformation.
That's why they say, one person alone will not fulfill all your needs. -
I'm nodding to all the criteria till the last Salsa requirement
Hon men who dance and Love to dance are such a rare find Must really treasure once you find one .Originally posted by viciouskitty74:As long as he is not muslim, hindu, Singh, marmons, church leaders, cultist or whatever that believes that I must convert.
As long as he is above 33 years old, has a stable income & isnt living with his parents. And he must be financially sound to support a family should I be needed to be a stay at home housewife in any country.
As long as he has his own commitments and isnt demanding that I spent my waking hours having QUALITY TIME WITH HIM AND HIM ONLY.
And no smoker please, Cigars on a once a week basis, I can accept.
Can dance at least salsa? -
Errmmmm.....I havnt met much single above 33 years old men from club 30s or even sgforums.Originally posted by Rhonda:Hmm... seems like no men in Club 30 actually meet your criteria.
Sooooo......generally speaking.....not even sgforum can meet my criteria -
Sigh....those I known are either married, old folks or too young.Originally posted by choco B:Hon men who dance and Love to dance are such a rare find Must really treasure once you find one .
I wouldnt mind to adapt to my some of my SO's hobbies. But at least he can adapt to one of mine? Dancing? Since its suppose to be a partner sport.
Of cos.....if he dont mind me being held closely by other males everytime at the dancefloor....thats is another story liao. -
Suggest you dance as much as you can while singleOriginally posted by viciouskitty74:I wouldnt mind to adapt to my some of my SO's hobbies. But at least he can adapt to one of mine? Dancing? Since its suppose to be a partner sport.
Of cos.....if he dont mind me being held closely by other males everytime at the dancefloor....thats is another story liao. -
Haha...that's me you are describing, but I have a simple solution...hire a cleanerOriginally posted by Rhonda:Surely religion won't be the only deal breaker?
Know what I fear? That I'll end up with someone who's a neat freak! I'm the sort who can leave most of the housework until the weekends and I do have my 'organised mess' so I think if I end up with someone who's always crying out for the house to be tidier, neater, cleaner, etc etc, we'll sooner or later dig each other's eyes out in a mortal combat! -
hummm this topic v interesting... it's one of those questions that i ask myself whenever i think about getting married.
TX and I have been together for more than 3years. We got almost nothing in common.
He likes injury-prone sports while i prefer to lounge. He is not adventurous abt food while i love to try new stuff. He loves noisy music. I get a headache from noisy music. He sees it as his responsibility to accompany me everywhere. I wanna go shopping on my own (so he dun know how much i spend ) He did not attend church. I'm moderately happy clappy He likes to do things according to plans. I like to be spontaneous and often change my mind. He tends to 'look for trouble' while i'm some-what peace loving.
seriously i dun know how we managed to stick together for so long. Maybe it's a lot of giving and accomodating (he gives & accomodate to me ). Maybe we are still in the honeymoon stage. Maybe his mom loves me so it's safe for him to marry me . Maybe.. or just maybe, love conquers all
gimme 80yrs and i'll get back to you abt my answer... -
I am buddhist. But I eat beef leh.
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