Rent a gf....

• hisoka

  9 Feb 07, 10:44

  Originally posted by tare:

  when they noe my age and status, they might nag u to death

  they might just be too happy that he got a pretty gf and is not gay
• av98m

  9 Feb 07, 10:46

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  they might just be too happy that he got a pretty gf and is not gay

  For once I agree with hisk
• InnoHippo

  9 Feb 07, 11:15

  Originally posted by av98m:

  they dun need to know. its just for CNY
  
  

  there is a lot of stuff that kaypohs dont need to know ......
  
  but they will keep asking and asking and asking ......
• the Bear

  9 Feb 07, 11:16

  all you have to be is to be hostile and rude to them once...
• laurence82

  9 Feb 07, 11:17

  
  how come everyone is affected by relatives one huh?
  
  my relatives usually ask some of these questions, but never to the point i feel compelled to bring home a gf or do any other funny stuff
  
  
• hisoka

  9 Feb 07, 11:18

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  how come everyone is affected by relatives one huh?
  
  my relatives usually ask some of these questions, but never to the point i feel compelled to bring home a gf or do any other funny stuff
  
  

  i just tell them no girl has chased me yet and put on a sad face. then they don't ask anymore
• InnoHippo

  9 Feb 07, 11:21

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  how come everyone is affected by relatives one huh?
  
  my relatives usually ask some of these questions, but never to the point i feel compelled to bring home a gf or do any other funny stuff
  
  

  becos they knew u more keen in boys
• laurence82

  9 Feb 07, 11:22

  Originally posted by InnoHippo:

  becos they knew u more keen in boys

  .................................................
• the Bear

  9 Feb 07, 11:22

  you are still young... the pressure they feel they must inflict on you will increase proportionally to your age
  
  

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  how come everyone is affected by relatives one huh?
  
  my relatives usually ask some of these questions, but never to the point i feel compelled to bring home a gf or do any other funny stuff
  
  

• av98m

  9 Feb 07, 11:22

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  how come everyone is affected by relatives one huh?
  
  my relatives usually ask some of these questions, but never to the point i feel compelled to bring home a gf or do any other funny stuff
  
  

  Wait till you hit the big 30
• laurence82

  9 Feb 07, 11:26

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  you are still young... the pressure they feel they must inflict on you will increase proportionally to your age
  
  

  hmm, looking at my older cousins, they also didnt say or do much to them
  
  
• choco B

  9 Feb 07, 11:26

  You have nice relatives
  

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  hmm, looking at my older cousins, they also didnt say or do much to them

• laurence82

  9 Feb 07, 11:27

  Originally posted by av98m:

  Wait till you hit the big 30

  i think the only one nagging would be my mom, not my relatives, not even my dad
  
  and not only ur mum, my friends' mums also ask their sons if they are gay
  
  
• the Bear

  9 Feb 07, 11:30

  i'm waiting for a certain obnoxious aunt to bug me about this one day... i'm going to reply "your effing gay son is married... so what's your point?"
  
  
• hisoka

  9 Feb 07, 11:32

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  i'm waiting for a certain obnoxious aunt to bug me about this one day... i'm going to reply "your effing gay son is married... so what's your point?"
  
  

  well you could wait for funerals and ask them when's their turn
• honeymouse

  9 Feb 07, 11:32

  Originally posted by laurence82:

  how come everyone is affected by relatives one huh?
  
  

  Otherwise they will run out of things to do and say to you.
  
  Before you get a gf/bf, they will ask, "When are you going to bring home a gf/bf?"
  
  After you have a gf/bf, they will ask, "So when are you getting married?"
  
  After you get married, they will ask, "When are you planning to have children?"
  
  etc....
  
  It is not going to end so you either just ignore them or fall for the pressure?
• the Bear

  9 Feb 07, 11:37

  one of my rude replies to these questions was "don't you have anything more imaginative to say or are you that much of a busybody?"
  
  yes i am terrible but i felt that enough was enough.. even if i was seeing someone or anything, it's none of their business because deep in my heart i know they don't know anything and they care even less..
  
  i've even told them off curtly for trying to dig information from my folks..
  
  it wasn't the normal small talk but it was like interrogation..
  
  

  Originally posted by honeymouse:

  Otherwise they will run out of things to do and say to you.
  
  Before you get a gf/bf, they will ask, "When are you going to bring home a gf/bf?"
  
  After you have a gf/bf, they will ask, "So when are you getting married?"
  
  After you get married, they will ask, "When are you planning to have children?"
  
  etc....
  
  It is not going to end so you either just ignore them or fall for the pressure?

• tare

  9 Feb 07, 11:37

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  they might just be too happy that he got a pretty gf and is not gay

  so old liao... not productive de.... whr will be happy?
• hisoka

  9 Feb 07, 11:40

  Originally posted by tare:

  so old liao... not productive de.... whr will be happy?

  still can lah don't look that old mah. (okz i admit i dunno how old are you so can't be sure )
  
  anyway with the costs and stresses of the place + the predicted bad weather, maybe not being productive is a good thing
• av98m

  9 Feb 07, 11:41

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  well you could wait for funerals and ask them when's their turn

  oooohhh I like this
• choco B

  9 Feb 07, 11:42

  Do rude replies work?
  Or do the relatives come back for more?
• av98m

  9 Feb 07, 11:43

  Originally posted by tare:

  so old liao... not productive de.... whr will be happy?

  you where got old?
• honeymouse

  9 Feb 07, 11:43

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  one of my rude replies to these questions was "don't you have anything more imaginative to say or are you that much of a busybody?"
  
  yes i am terrible but i felt that enough was enough.. even if i was seeing someone or anything, it's none of their business because deep in my heart i know they don't know anything and they care even less..
  
  i've even told them off curtly for trying to dig information from my folks..
  
  it wasn't the normal small talk but it was like interrogation..
  
  

  That's just plain rude of your relatives to do so.
  
  
• laurence82

  9 Feb 07, 11:43

  Originally posted by choco B:

  Do rude replies work?
  Or do the relatives come back for more?

  I would get into unwanted brawl with my dad if i am rude to the relatives
  
  
• tare

  9 Feb 07, 11:45

  Originally posted by honeymouse:

  Otherwise they will run out of things to do and say to you.
  
  Before you get a gf/bf, they will ask, "When are you going to bring home a gf/bf?"
  
  After you have a gf/bf, they will ask, "So when are you getting married?"
  
  After you get married, they will ask, "When are you planning to have children?"
  
  etc....
  
  It is not going to end so you either just ignore them or fall for the pressure?

  wonder why they nvr ask, "so when are you getting divorced?"