Getting To Know Him Strategies

• av98m

  29 Jan 07, 23:13

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  hey.. builds character
  
  

  After over 10 years, I want to stop building already can or not. Very tiring leh.
• stellazio

  29 Jan 07, 23:14

  i just realized, the bear and av make real good buddy builders..
• the Bear

  29 Jan 07, 23:15

  av's the buddy builder...
  
  you're the soapy understudy of kopi right?
  
  i'm just the injured dreamer
• av98m

  29 Jan 07, 23:16

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  i just realized, the bear and av make real good buddy builders..

  *sprays insecticide*
• the Bear

  29 Jan 07, 23:21

  the Churrascaria makan session
  
  i'll invite some people i know..
  
  and some i don't
• tare

  29 Jan 07, 23:23

  Originally posted by av98m:

  Well ok, then you have a point.
  
  But I'd still like to try a different approach. The old one sure hasn't gotten me anywhere so far, other than lots of heartache.

  it's stupidity to keep doing the same thing and expect a diff result... so get smart!
• av98m

  29 Jan 07, 23:23

  I think the cat did not expect this thread to blow up to 7 pages and 100+ posts.
  
  Too bad, I have a lot of emotional baggage to offload
• av98m

  29 Jan 07, 23:25

  Originally posted by tare:

  it's stupidity to keep doing the same thing and expect a diff result... so get smart!

  yah lor. have to stop banging head against the same brick wall
• the Bear

  29 Jan 07, 23:26

  but in matters of the heart, logic takes a back seat
• av98m

  29 Jan 07, 23:29

  Screw this, I'm never going to get anywhere being me, so I'm just going to have to be someone else.
• the Bear

  29 Jan 07, 23:30

  the buddy builder casanova!
  
  can we watch? can we? can we?
• stellazio

  29 Jan 07, 23:30

  Originally posted by av98m:

  Screw this, I'm never going to get anywhere being me, so I'm just going to have to be someone else.

  but it gets tiring after awhile trying to be someone who is not you.
• av98m

  29 Jan 07, 23:31

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  but it gets tiring after awhile trying to be someone who is not you.

  right now, I'm a lot more tired being me
• stellazio

  29 Jan 07, 23:33

  Originally posted by av98m:

  right now, I'm a lot more tired being me

  did u try the SDU?
• av98m

  29 Jan 07, 23:34

  Originally posted by stellazio:

  did u try the SDU?

  See, I don't believe in that.
  
  But now, I'm going to force myself to explore even that option
  
  Baiscally, I'm going to try to do all those things that I once told myself I'd never do.
• hisoka

  29 Jan 07, 23:40

  i got invitation for free memebr for SDU should i join? got good pple inside or not?
• viciouskitty74

  30 Jan 07, 08:10

  Bear,
  
  Did you manage to ask Jo for her Church?
• viciouskitty74

  30 Jan 07, 08:28

  And oh for heavens sake.
  
  You boys are lovely. Stop trying to invoke pity with the rest of the ladies here.
  
  Met av, met bear. Both are top rate men in their own right. If I describe them as slabs of beef, both are in the top grade chunks of meat that requires slow charcoal grill fire to bring out their ultimate meaty taste.
  
  They just like to wallow in their self proclaimed pathetic lives.
  
  When they are actually disgustingly selfish self centred fellas waiting for the sky to open up and females are dropped straight into their laps with them sitting just coincidently with a solomiser who can declare them men & wives instantly.
  
  av, dont change. you are every girls dream, you just have to let the girl of your dream knows you. Just a matter of finding your perfect gal and she will find it perfect too. Heck....I find you perfect, except I am too old and jaded and used and errrr......ruined to ever consider ruining you for your perfect gal.
  
  bear, &*&#^% %$$#@ stop parading your available backside that balantantly with me. I might just really clobber you with my trenchon/maglite with safari holder and drag you into a cave somewhere when I seriously lost inhibition/controls thru alcohol. (right.....I will need to jump onto a table to do that...bear is too tall to clobber his head properly...might clobber his back instead and knock his disc out of alignment again if I do it from ground level.) Incapacitate bear.....hmmmmm.....good idea tooo.....He cannot run...he cannot do anything but lie there on the floor for my evil deeds....hmmmmm.
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 08:31

  grrrr...
  
  i asked Jo about going to the potluck but she had prior engagements...
  
  oh well.. another time
  
  church, well, not yet...
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 08:45

  altogether now!
  
  getting to know you
  getting to know all about you
  getting to like you
  getting to hope you like me
  getting to know you
  putting it my way
  but nicely
  you are precisely
  my cup of tea
  
• viciouskitty74

  30 Jan 07, 08:50

  frankly speaking, av is really the kind that I usually go for....to conquer & destroy.
  
  MY little red book already has 2 of his kind of guys in it.
  
  It would really be worse karma if I goes to ruin little av.
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 08:51

  i think he wants to be "ruined"
• SevenEleven

  30 Jan 07, 08:53

  av should learn to love the majong aunties
  
• the Bear

  30 Jan 07, 08:55

  wot?
  
  you want av to make a move on his mother's kakis?
• SevenEleven

  30 Jan 07, 08:56

  bear is such a straight forward person. have bear read this book "how to win friends and influence people" by dale ...."