"I was only seventeen, when she looked at me that way ... "
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i found 2..Originally posted by elindra:
I just did a search with my real name for fun.
So far I managed to find one other person in SG with my name (and surname) and she is working with PSA
1 is 1 year my junior.. given name and surname same
the other is dunno what madam the links all sports related.. -
I can't find myself on the www though except when you type in 'elindra'Originally posted by shinta:i found 2..
1 is 1 year my junior.. given name and surname same
the other is dunno what madam the links all sports related.. -
managed to dig out her current email address .... (I love google ...
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should I ... or should I just let old ghosts rest ? ....
she'll probably think I'm a psycho or something, to be contacting her after nearly 10 years eh ? ... besides, I don't think she'll even remember me ...
*sigh .....
ignorance is bliss eh ......
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the world v small, one of my first crush-ees ends up being my fren's colleague and my fren called me almost immediately to tell me about it. she even emailed the person and ask if the person still remembers me. OMGGG i was like "darling it's been 14yrs, i'm so over XXX oready "
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Are you nuts? Why would I want to do that? *goes off and googles names of ex's*
every tried googling around to find out how some crushee/lover/ex is doing now ? ...
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I can't find her.
I still can't find her.
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Search turned up nothing. Which is a good thing.
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look up google advanced search operators ...Originally posted by CoolMyth:I can't find her.
I still can't find her.
if she's does anything on the net at all, you'll find her ....
but be very sure that finding her is what you want though ... -
I attended the wedding dinner of one ex and last time we spoke, he's a dad with a toddler liao. We don't talk often but when we do, we're like old pals.
I try not to meet face-to-face and keep to emails and phone calls because once, when we did meet with friends and he sent me back home afterwards, he drove me up to Kent Ridge Park and we had a long chat that night and then he started to flirt with me and I was 
ok, time to really go home liao! 
I was invited to the church wedding of my first real love too. But that was kinda a bit too weird to attend because we had 'unfinished business' and I guess deep inside, there are still... sentiments...
As for other ex's, I either never developed really strong feelings for them / don't care two hoots about them / have moved on already.
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Oh my gosh! I did a google search and found my first love! He's conducting some church courses for Youths now. Wonder if he finally gave up his legal profession to work in church full-time or if he's just volunteering part-time.
I saw the names of a few other peeps I knew from College or in Church in that list too!
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OK... here's more... he has a son who will be three years old next year.
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Originally posted by Rhonda:Oh my gosh! I did a google search and found my first love! He's conducting some church courses for Youths now. Wonder if he finally gave up his legal profession to work in church full-time or if he's just volunteering part-time.
I saw the names of a few other peeps I knew from College or in Church in that list too!
Whoa...
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it's sort of bittersweet to know how that person is doing now isn't it ? ... -
It sure is...Originally posted by Fatum: ....
it's sort of bittersweet to know how that person is doing now isn't it ? ... Kinda makes me wanna grab a high stool and drag it over to a window / balcony and sit there with a cold cocktail, staring out at... nothing...
Tis bitter and tis sweet, really... -
I think this is an apt song for this thread
Memories,
Like the corners of my mind
Misty water-colored memories
Of the way we were
Scattered pictures,
Of the smiles we left behind
Smiles we gave to one another
For the way we were
Can it be that it was all so simple then?
Or has time re-written every line?
If we had the chance to do it all again
Tell me, would we? could we?
Memories, may be beautiful and yet
What's too painful to remember
We simply choose to forget
So it's the laughter
We will remember
Whenever we remember...
The way we were...
The way we were... -
Beautiful lyrics to a beautiful song...
And sometimes, one just can't help thinking, if one can go back in time and have a fresh start, then, would we? Could we?
And life goes on... -
wahhhhh
wait i go find one also! -
it's best to let old ghosts lie I guess ....Originally posted by Rhonda:Beautiful lyrics to a beautiful song...
And sometimes, one just can't help thinking, if one can go back in time and have a fresh start, then, would we? Could we?
And life goes on...
some things are never meant to be ... dwelling on the what-ifs in our lives gets us nowhere, neh ? ....
I savour the memories, but don't question the what-ifs ... for that's already past ...
I'm glad she's done well for herself though ... she's done ads for levis and lancome, in the states, no less ...
but who knows ... New York has always been on my "to visit" list ... and the little patisserie named "Serendipity" has been on my list since the movie namesake came out ...
the romantic in us is always the last to die ... heeee .... -
Haiz...reading this thread sure brings back a lot of memories too.
dunno suddenly this old song that i used to like popped out in head...thot might share it wif ya guys...seems apt to me.
I will remember you
Will you remember me?
DonÂ’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
Remember the good times that we had?
I let them slip away from us when things got bad
How clearly I first saw you smilinÂ’ in the sun
Wanna feel your warmth upon me, I wanna be the one
I will remember you
Will you remember me?
DonÂ’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
IÂ’m so tired but I canÂ’t sleep
StandinÂ’ on the edge of something much too deep
ItÂ’s funny how we feel so much but we cannot say a word
We are screaming inside, but we canÂ’t be heard
But I will remember you
Will you remember me?
DonÂ’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
IÂ’m so afraid to love you, but more afraid to loose
Clinging to a past that doesnÂ’t let me choose
Once there was a darkness, deep and endless night
You gave me everything you had, oh you gave me light
And I will remember you
Will you remember me?
DonÂ’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
And I will remember you
Will you remember me?
DonÂ’t let your life pass you by
Weep not for the memories
Weep not for the memories
Haiz.... -
well, let it be...
how to move forward when you keep looking back?
Lot's wife tells us a lot about this...
she was just 17
you know what i mean
and the way she looked
was way beyond compare
oh i'll never dance with another
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Aiyah, this Fatum~~~~~started this and then I went to goggle for, not exes ah, but guys who told me (much later) that they liked me but didn't dare approach me!!!!!
WTH, you like me, you approach me lah!!! Wasted the chance and all that "what ifs"!!!!
Anyways, I couldn't find them lah! -
Confiding......
I told someone I liked him. I was as aggressive like any male buaya.
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Were you tactful in addition to being aggressive? That might have made a difference.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Confiding......
I told someone I liked him. I was as aggressive like any male buaya.
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*pats pats*Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Confiding......
I told someone I liked him. I was as aggressive like any male buaya.
He rejected me.
Some guys prefer to be the pursuer. Perhaps you may wanna "study" your "victims" first before making your move. Whether to be the pursuer or pursuee.
Well, having said that, even females are like that. If a guy is aggressive, I "run away" too!
Slow and steady, my friend, slow and steady~~~~enjoy the friendship first and see where it takes you! -
woah, when i was 17, i wsted half of the year nuaing.
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Good thing is if you've found the one, you won't feel so nostalgic that much anymore na.
occasional musing yeah, like just now I was packing my old cards and letters and came across some... ... quite funny and amused cos.. well despite all that's been written we move on... it is nice to know and remember that once you did evoke such feelings in someone but no deep nostalgia.