Torn Between Two Lovers
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There's a chinese song called ai wo de ren he wo ai de ren also something like this
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This thing
Called love
I just
Can't handle it
This thing
Called love
I must
Get round to it
I ain't ready
Crazy li'l thing called love -
Guys,
I think we're all getting out of point here. Littlestream was asking if any of us have been torn between two guys before.
Well, not me.....I've never even had one guy before, not to mention two. -
Hee hee.........it's okay, Gentlerock. I noticed interesting posts and cute ones by dragg.
And some want to "snatch business"
I just think it will be a very painful thing to ai yi ke bu yin gai ai de ren. -
i don't think i would ever..
i can't even find the Mrs Bear, let alone two
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But isn't it so true?Originally posted by littlestream:Hee hee.........it's okay, Gentlerock. I noticed interesting posts and cute ones by dragg.
And some want to "snatch business"
I just think it will be a very painful thing to ai yi ke bu yin gai ai de ren.
I mean no one can fill up another fully (I don't mean sexually). And I guess its human nature to be a bit flirtatious (harmlessly or otherwise). And its also our nature never to be fully satisfied with what we have - the grass is always greener on the other side.
After the initial fire of romance dies, blindness turns into sight again. Another few months and they start running out of things to say. New temptations and opportunities present themselves. And they start to get a bit sian and wander off a bit.....mentally first, then emotionally and physically later.
For example: If our spouse is the goodie type, we tend to be appreciate and secure. But sometimes that lack of adventure is boring, which is when we start harbouring thoughts of outside fun....
Or: If our spouse is the fun type, we tend to have fun, but lack security. And at times when you crave for some seriousness, maturity and security,......blah blah blah.
Or: It could be just that some people have a special, unique way of touching us where no one else could. Could be in terms of some sensitivity, common sentiments, etc....
To cut an impossibly long story short, the problem is that no one person can provide from every angle. This leaves us wanting sometimes....
And a lot of attached/married people are now defying traditions, even in the most conservative of countries. Often, it ends up in being torn between two.
Fortunately, most fantasies are shot down by over-expectations by potential players. As they go into the game, they feel that reality is not as good as fantasised....and that makes the players look again at their own spouses with renewed appreciation (Am I being too abstract here?).
(Ok, now I'm waiting for some single kid to come along with his/her idealistic ideas like "if you don't wanna be faithful, then why get married?", blah blah blah....it always happens in this forum). -
I dont want to see you cry Silje Nergaard
There is no tender way to say it's the end
And so win or lose
I am forced to choose
Between a lover and a loving friend
Let me hear you say
How you curse the day
You opened up your heart to me
That you ever invited me in
Tell me I'm the loser and you win
I don't want to see you cry
I beg you try
Not to let the pain I'm causing reach your eyes
I don't want to see you cry
Aim your words like spears
Don't break me up by breaking down in tears
Hide your pain but when push comes to shove
Don't keep your pride
Locked deep inside
Rage against the dying of my love
Don't sigh my name
Give me all the blame
Call me heartless call me cruel
And accuse me of dealing in lies
Just don't let my leaving cloud your eyes
I don't want to see you cry
I beg you try
Not to let the pain I'm causing reach your eyes
I don't want to see you cry
Aim your words like spears
Don't break me up by breaking down in tears
Dreams come... dreams go
Some fade... some grow
Dream on, dream on
You've got to dream on
After I've gone
Another song on a similar theme where you got to choose between two people and have to finally tell one of them that sorry mate, its over.
No one likes to ever be put in the position that you fall out of love. And those who have never felt it before, the bewildering loss you feel when you actually realise you dont NEED this person in your life anymore... and worse, you don't actually WANT to spend ur lifetime with this person - when it isnt the result of quarrels, or arguments but just simply growing apart and changing.[/i] -
Another one that I like.
Talks about how we take our loved ones for granted until it's too late? We may love our loved ones but are too stingy to express it. The partner feels neglected and slowly the feelings fade. Now the guy realised it and explain. But was it enough? Was it too late?
Maybe I didn't treat you
Quite as good as I should have
Maybe I didn't love you
Quite as often as I could have
Little things I should have said and done
I just never took the time
You were always on my mind
You were always on my mind
Maybe I didn't hold you
All those lonely, lonely times
And I guess I never told you
I'm so happy that you're mine
If I made you feel second best
Girl I'm so sorry I was blind
You were always on my mind
You were always on my mind
Tell me, tell me that your sweet love hasn't died
Give me, give me one more chance to keep you satisfied, satisfied
Little things I should have said and done
I just never took the time
You were always on my mind
You were always on my mind
You were always on my mind -
wah..
what can one do at times like this? -
wei, alex..........you meant which number?Originally posted by alexkusu:wah..
what can one do at times like this? -
Siao eh, I was thinking all these notti thoughts when I saw the title.Originally posted by littlestream:There are times when a woman has to say what's on her mind
Even though she knows how much it's gonna hurt
Before I say another word let me tell you, I love you
Let me hold you close and say these words as gently as I can
There's been another man that I've needed and I've loved
But that doesn't mean I love you less
And he knows he can't possess me and he knows he never will
There's just this empty place inside of me that only he can fill
[Chorus:]
Torn between two lovers, feelin' like a fool
Lovin' both of you is breakin' all the rules
Torn between two lovers, feelin' like a fool
Lovin' you both is breakin' all the rules
You mustn't think you've failed me
Just because there's someone else
You were the first real love I ever had
And all the things I ever said
I swear they still are true
For no one else can have the part of me I gave to you
[Chorus]
I couldn't really blame you if you turned and walked away
But with everything I feel inside, I'm asking you to stay
[Chorus]
Torn between two lovers
[Fade]
Feelin' like a fool
Lovin' both of you is breakin' all the rules
No, no......not me. I think this is a beautiful song and just heard it recently and thought I'll post it.
Anyone ever in similar situation? I just think it must be very painful.
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Alamak............you late liao lah. The latest song now si eh ley willie nelson eh lah.Originally posted by jetta:Siao eh, I was thinking all these notti thoughts when I saw the title.
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You wait. When you're attached, they'll come.Originally posted by the Bear:i don't think i would ever..
i can't even find the Mrs Bear, let alone two -
What about this:
Getting another guy to give her what her other half can't
ALL I WANNA DO IS MAKE LOVE TO YOU
HEART
(Robert John "Mutt" Lange)
It was a rainy night when he came into sight
Standing by the road, no umbrella, no coat
So I pulled up along side and I offered him a ride
He accepted with a smile so we drove for a while
I didn't ask him his name, this lonely boy in the rain
Fate tell me it's right, is this love at first sight
Please don't make it wrong, just stay for the night
All I wanna do is make love to you
Say you will you want me too
All I wanna do is make love to you
I've got lovin' arms to hold on to
So we found this hotel, it was a place I knew well
We made magic that night. Oh, he did everything right
He brought the woman out of me, so many times, easily
And in the morning when he woke all I left him was a note
I told him I am the flower you are the seed
We walked in the garden we planted a tree
Don't try to find me, please don't you dare
Just live in my memory, you'll always be there
All I wanna do is make love to you
One night of love was all we knew
All wanna do is make love to you
I've got lovin' arms to hold on to
Oh, oooh, we made love
Love like strangers
All night long
We made love
Then it happened one day, we came round the same way
You can imagine his surprise when he saw his own eyes
I said please, please understand
I'm in love with another man
And what he couldn't give me
was the one little thing that you can
All I wanna do is make love to you
One night of love was all we knew
All I want to do is make love to you
Come on, say you will, you want me too
All I wanna do is make love to you
One night of love was all we knew
All I want to do is make love to you
Say you will, you want me too
All night long ... -
i don't think so... coz i won't be looking anymore and my eyes and attention would be solely on Mrs Bear
Originally posted by jetta:You wait. When you're attached, they'll come. -
Didn't say that you'd be the one looking.Originally posted by the Bear:i don't think so... coz i won't be looking anymore and my eyes and attention would be solely on Mrs Bear -
hmm..im abit loss hereOriginally posted by littlestream:wei, alex..........you meant which number?
but i guess when we are young, we have the luxury to make more mistakes then when we are older -
He's more than a man
and this is more than love
the reason that the sky is blue
The coulds are rollin' in
because I'm gone again
and to him I just can't be true
And I know that he knows I'm unfaithful
and it kills him inside
To know that I am happy with some other guy
I can see him dying
I don't want to do this anymore
I don't want to be the reason why
Everytime I walk out the door
I see him die a little more inside
I don't want to hurt him anymore
I don't want to take away his life
I don't want to be... a murderer -
well, if they look at me and i am blind to them...Originally posted by jetta:Didn't say that you'd be the one looking.
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They all say that when they are young....
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young?
muahahahaha!
Originally posted by casino_king:They all say that when they are young.... -
OK younger
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Aiyoh, salah liao lah, casino. He is on the OTHER side of the spectrum.Originally posted by casino_king:OK younger