Between love... and cold, hard cash.

• killstyle

  12 May 06, 22:01

  AND NOW YOU SEE WHY THOSE PINAYS MAIDS AND THAI AND PRC HOOKERS LIKE SINGAPOREANS MALES SO MUCH?? ESP THE OLD ONES??
  
  BECOS THEY SEE WE ARE DUMB!!!!
  
  WHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA
• Ferret

  12 May 06, 23:38

  Excuse me. It is very rude to type in full caps.
• the Bear

  12 May 06, 23:41

  just ignore
  
  
  
  he's disappeared anyway.. the thing about trolls is that if you don't feed them, they starve, shrivel up and die
  
  

  Originally posted by Ferret:

  Excuse me. It is very rude to type in full caps.

• shinta

  13 May 06, 00:27

  I was once in a relationship for almost 4 years... the last 2 years became boring and all that.. and thoughts of ending the r/s occured to me many times before..
  
  i only realised how much i loved that guy after we broke up. (he suggested it.. cos he's leaving the country in a year's time..)
  
  maybe she just need some time alone to sort out her thinking.. and not contact either guy.
  
  cos after some time by herself, chances are, she'd already figured out who she wanna be with. at least thats the case for me... after sometime to myself (the ex-bf went back to his hometown for 2 months..) i dun think i'd really wanted to break up the r/s
  
  and the stupid thing was.. just when i decided i wanna be the perfect gf... he told me let's break up cos of a comment made by my grandmother.
  
  oh well.
  
  happier now with Nel.. tho i'm not exactly happy in the company of someone..
• dinky1409

  13 May 06, 00:39

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  the objective, is to decide what makes u happier, and then work from that.

  I second this.
  The most important thing is being happy. In the long run, which is going to make her most happy? And that is up to each individual. However, everything has a price to pay and sacrifices are inevitable. Most of us can say that money is not everything, but that statement is not applicable to everyone. If she is the type of person who believes in true happiness in true love, then money is not everything. The younger guy is her man and she has to sacrifice the comfort life.
• BabyRS

  13 May 06, 01:07

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  so .... you friend's been living with this chap for four years for ..... money ? ...

  Well... perhaps there is some form of love, who knows? She can say she does love him, but I don't know if she knows what she truly feels.
  
  True, some things may be easier said than done and we may never know what we would do unless we are faced with the situation.
  
  But I think our basic characters remain. We may change and adapt to situations - but our personal limitations vary.