How do you avoid.....
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visiting relatives during Chinese new year???
mi really dun feel like it... but by not going means a sign of disrespect but then it's not that I disrespect them.
Just dun wanna go.Anyway??
Pretend to be recalled???
their all time fave phrase:
hey gal/boy *** **** >yr name<
hw old are ya??
are ya married?? gt bf/gf??
when are ya getting married or ROM??
why no bf/gf???
where's yr gf/bf?? why nv bring him/her along
.......all sort of qns will be asked how u all ans ??? -
just go loh, out of respect to parents
not bombarded by any ques cos i m only a care-ler-fare
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i dun avoid...
i go visiting, get the ang pao, smile like idiot, then sit at one corner and conc on eating, watching tv, tok on fone/sms.....
if i relli buay tahan, i jus say i got to go another house for visiting and byebye~
maybe this yr i'll bring my laptop -
x2... but i dun leave the place after dinner.... so try not to go too early...Originally posted by FireIce:i dun avoid...
i go visiting, get the ang pao, smile like idiot, then sit at one corner and conc on eating, watching tv, tok on fone/sms.....
if i relli buay tahan, i jus say i got to go another house for visiting and byebye~
maybe this yr i'll bring my laptop -
lol me also go there queue up for ang boh then watch tv eat like hell then drink like hell then after tat ask parents faster go to another place...lol...
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yeah........
cny is comin soon.......
got ang bao -
eat CNY snack n drink loh.
most of the time just go there n talk to my cousins.
the qns posted by the elders are always the same.
so sian that I don't bother explaining liao
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i just keep nodding my head and smiling whenever those questions come up. or i will say,"I dunno" or it is too early for me to think about that and said I want to concentrate on my studies. They never fail to have this look of admiration whenever i gave that answer. and then they never ask me again.
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they will confirm ask like....
where are u studying now?
are u fine?
got gal/boy friend? -
they will confirm wun ask those last two questions again, otherwise I will just give them this "duh..din I tell you earlier?" look to shut them up.Originally posted by CyanSupra:they will confirm ask like....
where are u studying now?
are u fine?
got gal/boy friend?
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i will always be ask this question ........ from small to nw ... -_-''
y still so fat ... dont want to jian fei ?? -
Originally posted by meltz:i will always be ask this question ........ from small to nw ... -_-''
y still so fat ... dont want to jian fei ?? -
oh yea, i hate this question. when I went back last year, everyone made that comment to me, about how I have put on soooo much weight after I went to US. i tried to shrug it off but these people are too dense to see that I am hurt. And the worst thing is my parents also made the same comment and agreed with my other relatives who said dat about me. Another reason why I avoid going home this year.Originally posted by meltz:i will always be ask this question ........ from small to nw ... -_-''
y still so fat ... dont want to jian fei ??
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i know hw u feel.......... those relative juz dont know hw to shut upOriginally posted by icyprincess:oh yea, i hate this question. when I went back last year, everyone made that comment to me, about how I have put on soooo much weight after I went to US. i tried to shrug it off but these people are too dense to see that I am hurt. And the worst thing is my parents also made the same comment and agreed with my other relatives who said dat about me. Another reason why I avoid going home this year.
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even my frens oso kept commenting about my body size. dats why i rather be here, when ppl make less comment abt my body and dun care if I am fat or thin. I am not fat, I think I am just a little bit on the chubby side compared to my matchstick-thin frens back home and they are expecting me to be like that...dunno wats wrong wif ppl...Originally posted by meltz:i know hw u feel.......... those relative juz dont know hw to shut up
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don't give a hoot what they said lah.Originally posted by icyprincess:even my frens oso kept commenting about my body size. dats why i rather be here, when ppl make less comment abt my body and dun care if I am fat or thin. I am not fat, I think I am just a little bit on the chubby side compared to my matchstick-thin frens back home and they are expecting me to be like that...dunno wats wrong wif ppl...
i.c.y
the mouths are on their faces, their thoughts in their minds n their xiao ren xin in their bodies, why give them a chance to influence u.
there is no way to satisfy every1, might as well don't bother about what they want, it is what u want that's count. -
it bothers me dat they are encouraging girls to be anorexic back home.Originally posted by Kenashi:don't give a hoot what they said lah.
the mouths are on their faces, their thoughts in their minds n their xiao ren xin in their bodies, why give them a chance to influence u.
there is no way to satisfy every1, might as well don't bother about what they want, it is what u want that's count.
i.c.y