China Women Snatching bf/husband
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Hi,
I have numerous encounters in which many Singapore guys working in China, eventually leave their gf/wife for China Women. Many of them have chosen those from Shanghai, Suzhou, etc... We had a discussion among friends about how/why China Women are so good at it, and what is there in China Women that we don't have, we don't have any conclusion as yet. That is scary, as we don't know the enemy and this problem is real.
I have a friend's hubby who are also posted there, and once it crossed my mind that I should warn her, but I didn't. My friend just called me, hubby leaving her. This is so scary. Any one would like to share what they know about China Women, why are they so good in stealing heart, anyway to make the guys immune to them?
I think we need to know more about them.
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demand and supply....basic economics
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China gal??? ok lah...can be very fair and cute lor.. but.... tried one b4..... sianz 3/4 not dead fish lah.. but more like noisy fish lor.. so noisy ok. so turn off.......other that i know... look ok outside lor... guai guai, fair, understand......anyway.... u all treats ur bf or husband better lah... then they wont run away already lor... guys are not that greedy one u know...very easy to be happy one.....so most of the time.....the problem is with the sg gal that dun treats us good good and not the china gal that snatch ur husband lah...
p.s rich gal....u really rich??? need a fling or bf??
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taks 2 hands to clap
not tt im siding the china women, but the man oso has a big part to play..... -
Have you stay in China before? Shanghainese women from the city are not those China girls you find from ktv or geyland. They are known to be very good with men's heart.Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):China gal??? ok lah...can be very fair and cute lor.. but.... tried one b4..... sianz 3/4 not dead fish lah.. but more like noisy fish lor.. so noisy ok. so turn off.......other that i know... look ok outside lor... guai guai, fair, understand......anyway.... u all treats ur bf or husband better lah... then they wont run away already lor... guys are not that greedy one u know...very easy to be happy one.....so most of the time.....the problem is with the sg gal that dun treats us good good and not the china gal that snatch ur husband lah...
p.s rich gal....u really rich??? need a fling or bf?? -
I think local men who go for China women are really sad. Most probably they can't handle a highly educated and vocal woman (i.e. local women), tat's why they opt for easier option in China women. But then those China women also not stupid.
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The statistics for those related to China are so much more than those in any other countries, and we are talking about the same Singapore men here.Originally posted by FireIce:taks 2 hands to clap
not tt im siding the china women, but the man oso has a big part to play.....
Actually I was hoping to compile a "China Woman 101. -
where are the stats?
more sg men are posted to China than anywhere else, so the stats are skewed.......
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It is a different world now, many of those from the big city e.g. Shanghainese are as sophisticated as local women. But of course there are also many who pee without closing the door.Originally posted by cooleo:I think local men who go for China women are really sad. Most probably they can't handle a highly educated and vocal woman (i.e. local women), tat's why they opt for easier option in China women. But then those China women also not stupid. -
Never but know quite a few.....no lah. mi not talking about Geylang one lah....yes i know one from Shanghai too.. very nice gal.. very smart very big tooOriginally posted by RichGirl:Have you stay in China before? Shanghainese women from the city are not those China girls you find from ktv or geyland. They are known to be very good with men's heart.
ya they are good with men's heart that is why i say.. if sg gal know how to treat us better than we wont be so greedy to eat outside too right??? alot are married but still lonely...coz wife/gf always take us for granted....but if u think u or ur fren already very nice to ur guys already.. then that guy is not worth it lor.. just go find someone else... maybe mi??
u must see what u mean by China women lor if u talking about Geylang one.. then..... mi no comment...but those i talk about above are all from decent background, damn smart and successful.. but they are still very good to their man....Originally posted by cooleo:I think local men who go for China women are really sad. Most probably they can't handle a highly educated and vocal woman (i.e. local women), tat's why they opt for easier option in China women. But then those China women also not stupid. -
For example, in my company, all men single or married posted to China, have divorced or in the process of doing so. Do you have any friends that work in China? Doesn't sound like it.Originally posted by FireIce:where are the stats?
more sg men are posted to China than anywhere else, so the stats are skewed.......
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as i have said, did u personally hear from all 3 parties involved?Originally posted by RichGirl:For example, in my company, all men single or married posted to China, have divorced or in the process of doing so. Do you have any friends that work in China? Doesn't sound like it.
dun look like u have............ -
Now I know why Singapore men rather go for China Women...Originally posted by FireIce:as i have said, did u personally hear from all 3 parties involved?
dun look like u have............ -
Originally posted by RichGirl:Hi,
I have numerous encounters in which many Singapore guys working in China, eventually leave their gf/wife for China Women. Many of them have chosen those from Shanghai, Suzhou, etc... We had a discussion among friends about how/why China Women are so good at it, and what is there in China Women that we don't have, we don't have any conclusion as yet. That is scary, as we don't know the enemy and this problem is real.
I have a friend's hubby who are also posted there, and once it crossed my mind that I should warn her, but I didn't. My friend just called me, hubby leaving her. This is so scary. Any one would like to share what they know about China Women, why are they so good in stealing heart, anyway to make the guys immune to them?
I think we need to know more about them.
Thx,
If you were to break them down, its not about the woman - its about the man himself. A singaporean man is generally a good catch, therefore he would be targeted from all form of seduction.
I) He is working overseas - psychologically, he 'left' home and seemed free again. If the relationship is a suppressed, possessive kind back at home - he is at high risk to certain laws of seductions. Dis-satisfaction in marriage post deep problem as well.
II) Man that cannot handle woman at similarly level. This is especially true for male chauvinist who needs woman to be 'lower' than them. Apparantly, woman in China seemingly allow them the span of control and this fuel ego and empower seduction.
Man are generally vulnerable to art of seduction of three channels - visual, vocal and fantasy. If he is unable to pierce through their charm, he will fall for them. No one is completely immune to seduction, you can only understand how it works through experience and wisdom and work around it. You want to prevent them? Strengthen your marriage and make them well. CloUdiSm Remix III: You cannot stop external factors, but you can control internal environment. If you have did what you could and things still happen, this man may not be the one.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Yup, you talk sense If you were to break them down, its not about the woman - [b]its about the man himself. A singaporean man is generally a good catch, therefore he would be targeted from all form of seduction.
I) He is working overseas - psychologically, he 'left' home and seemed free again. If the relationship is a suppressed, possessive kind back at home - he is at high risk to certain laws of seductions. Dis-satisfaction in marriage post deep problem as well.
II) Man that cannot handle woman at similarly level. This is especially true for male chauvinist who needs woman to be 'lower' than them. Apparantly, woman in China seemingly allow them the span of control and this fuel ego and empower seduction.
Man are generally vulnerable to art of seduction of three channels - visual, vocal and fantasy. If he is unable to pierce through their charm, he will fall for them. No one is completely immune to seduction, you can only understand how it works through experience and wisdom and work around it. You want to prevent them? Strengthen your marriage and make them well. CloUdiSm Remix III: You cannot stop external factors, but you can control internal environment. If you have did what you could and things still happen, this man may not be the one.
Cheers [/b]
I am not denying at all that men contributed most part to this problem. What I am wondering is that, I know many more other people that work in different country, Malaysia, Thailand, Japan, Korea, Taiwan, etc. Most of them I know don't end up in divorce, well, many of them have flings/gf, undeniable, but many that go to China end up in divorce instead.
Like what you say, seduction, is definitely part of it. Allowing themselves to be 'lower' than men. These are the factors I wanna explore in this topic, is China women better at this, and if so, what makes them different/better.
I definitely know they are much more eager, aggressive & determined. Some of them may do anything just to get out of the country. I was hoping that those who have more experience, who perhaps stay in China before, with the real observation can shed some lights. -
What can I say?
Historically speaking, how many dynasties and empires are lost due to a woman?
If I'm not wrong, it seems to happen alot more in China than any other countries.
Guess they know which buttons to press on their man. The thing is that for most Singaporean girls, if they don't get their way they will either kick up a fuss or give the guy the cold treatment.
From my understanding the China gals don't do that.
Funny thing is that the Chinese guys I know don't like their women because they find them too manupulative in that sense
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Originally posted by RichGirl:Now I know why Singapore men rather go for China Women...
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precisely.......bcos of ppl who are not objective and tend to jump to conclusion easilyOriginally posted by RichGirl:Now I know why Singapore men rather go for China Women... -
I am working in china now...hmmm...dun think tats all true.
But there's something i have to admit,china girls r more gentle towards their guys. -
I will cut to the chase. I have China and Taiwan friends so I am more clear. They are more easy to get along with and can really lend at least a listening ear when you are down. Singaporean girls are usually very cold. They tend to judge a guy by his education level, his money and his job. For normal typical guys like me from a not too rich family and with lets say only a diploma, its usually hard to find a suitable person. Especially when you are down and really need someone to talk to. From my experiences, I know that singapore girls don't really like to hang out with so call "loser" guys. They also usually suspect us of having ulterior motives. And you ask why the good men choose other women from different coutries. Maybe its because they were there for them when they needed someone. Somtimes thats all the difference it make. However I doubt our local friends will ever understand this
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As I said, I do have my own statistics happening around me, and my case studies that happen around me.Originally posted by FireIce:precisely.......bcos of ppl who are not objective and tend to jump to conclusion easily
FireIce, if you cannot contribute to this topic, then don't. Rather than being judgemental saying other people are judgemental. -
I'm still waiting for the day when local women will have affairs with China men when they go overseas for work. Highly unlikely though.
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sad to say its true alot of men are after the china babes... I have no idea why .... local gals are better ... but then again I am biased cos I love thai babes
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As Phoebe of FRIENDS use to say...if u do not even know,i can't help u.
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most likely might happen if posted in europe or in the USOriginally posted by cooleo:I'm still waiting for the day when local women will have affairs with China men when they go overseas for work. Highly unlikely though.
the ang moh syndrome