To those heart broken ones

• Nelstar

  23 Apr 04, 10:24

  A tree firmly rooted to its ground branches out and will bear fruits.
  
  There are many routes to happiness, but one must be firm in what they want and desire.
  
  Love is unconditional, if you love, you'll forgive and forget.
  
  Some times forgiving and forgetting is hard, but to continue loving someone is harder.
  
  The hands, the brain and the heart belongs to one body but works differently.
  
  Everyone's actions is not determined totally by what they feel or want to do. Sometimes, you'll find yourself doing something you never wanted to do.
  
  Care and concern does not equate to love.
  
  You can care for an animal, and you can be concerned about your friends but love is different. If you truly love someone, you'll know that you can accept that person's action, habits and character and learn to live with it.
  
  Life is a journey where there is no map.
  
  Life is a long meandering road with uphills, downhills, and u-turns. There are many forks and junctions where you'll have to decide which way to go. Love is also the same. You may have identified your destination, but along the way, many things will change. Learn to accept the changes. Then life will be easier.
  
  There are two constants you cannot change, it is fate and the past. However, there is one variable in future.
  
  Believe in the future. There are many better chances and hopes as long as you work for it. Let the past be buried behind you and move on. The future is still open.
  
  If there is light, there will be shadow.
  
  Everyone has their plus and negative points. There will never be a perfect lover. You must learn to respect them even if they have negative attributes. That way, they will learn to respect you and listen to your opinion.
• yunzhongzi

  23 Apr 04, 10:31

  Thank you for these words...
• Nelstar

  23 Apr 04, 10:35

  Originally posted by yunzhongzi:

  Thank you for these words...

  you heartbroken meh?
  
  
• foga

  23 Apr 04, 10:39

  'the fastest way to lose love is to hold on to it too tightly'
  
  particulary true for me.
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=76321
• ChrisYX

  23 Apr 04, 10:40

  Very touching.... Thanks Nelstar, for these meaningful phrases
• yunzhongzi

  23 Apr 04, 10:42

  Originally posted by Nelstar:

  you heartbroken meh?
  
  

  Mended and am seeking enlightenment liaoz
• Nelstar

  23 Apr 04, 11:04

  Originally posted by foga:

  'the fastest way to lose love is to hold on to it too tightly'
  
  particulary true for me.
  
  http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=76321

  take it easy.