Nice Girls end up losers, guys care to comment?
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is it possible to achieve a balance?
a gal who can party and have lots of fun, but at the same time, have no problems staying at home? -
nothings perfect in this world lah....also will quarrel even if both love each other dearly.Originally posted by the Bear:so, if they live happily ever after, are they still losers??
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Ah ma....Don't be sad kay?Originally posted by Ah Ma:nice girls at home cook dinner for guy come home eat....
fling girls at pubs wait for guy to catch as their prey
which one win?
Women are biologically emotional. The emotions will also trigger factor on marriage and settling down. Fairy tales, women still want to have it at the back of their head, the 'degree of desire' varies.
I have a friend who quote something very cute - 'I would have to kiss many frogs before i could find my prince.'
Women, no matter good or bad, still they wished to find their prince that could marry them.
When the 'right' time comes, bad girls will not want to play anymore, simply because their tired.
They want to experience Love this time.
Which one win? Like Yun said, Comparing general women and men, women wins.
Comparing bad and nice women? Women still wins.
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Food for thought
Probabilty of courtship for women [women : men]
1 women : at least 2 men.
Women have the option....
Probabilty of courtship for men [men : women]
I men : 1 women
Men have options, but he'll have to choose one to court.
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I think it's a think line.Originally posted by eutjin:is it possible to achieve a balance?
a gal who can party and have lots of fun, but at the same time, have no problems staying at home?
Now when two extremes were being discussed, we can see a better picture.
And if the case is like what you've asked, a balance.
Then there'll be problems to decode that lady.
My ex was both. Balance? NO. Because when she's at different place, the extremes manifest.
I would question the desires of a balanced lady for your case.
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Ah ma....Don't be sad kay?Originally posted by Ah Ma:nice girls at home cook dinner for guy come home eat....
fling girls at pubs wait for guy to catch as their prey
which one win?
Women are biologically emotional. The emotions will also trigger factor on marriage and settling down. Fairy tales, women still want to have it at the back of their head, the 'degree of desire' varies.
I have a friend who quote something very cute - 'I would have to kiss many frogs before i could find my prince.'
Women, no matter good or bad, still they wished to find their prince that could marry them.
When the 'right' time comes, bad girls will not want to play anymore, simply because their tired.
They want to experience Love this time.
Which one win? Like Yun said, Comparing general women and men, women wins.
Comparing bad and nice women? Women still wins.
_______________________________
Food for thought
Probabilty of courtship for women [women : men]
1 women : at least 2 men.
Women have the option....
Probabilty of courtship for men [men : women]
I men : 1 women
Men have options, but he'll have to choose one to court.
__________________________
18 Signs to show that he's interested in you
5 great opening lines for meeting guys
Question and Answer on Holding a girl's hand
Using Women's Intuition to Observe Girls
Introduction to Seduction -
Eutjin has indirectly highlighted that kind of girl he wants, I want and probably we want.Originally posted by eutjin:is it possible to achieve a balance?
a gal who can party and have lots of fun, but at the same time, have no problems staying at home?
Why nice girl cannot be fun and fun girls cannot be nice? Same for the guys....
I guess life is about balance...although the definition of balance differs and it is not easy to master. -
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Of cos fun girls are nice!!!! Have you seen them?Originally posted by FreeToFly:Eutjin has indirectly highlighted that kind of girl he wants, I want and probably we wants.
Why nice girl cannot be fun and fun girls cannot be nice? Same for the guys....
I guess life is about balance...although the definition of balance differs and it is not easy to master.
I can tell you all the girls have known in clubs and elsewhere are FUN and NICE.
You should read up Bear's post.
Fun and nice girls are very difficult girlfriends.
And guys will have a hard time handling them. Unless, the guy have a way of his own.
One day, fun and nice girls just want to be nice...and settle down.
Balance. HAha...don't bother trying to balance them.
Gotto balance yourself and be confidence. Fun and nice girls will come to you.
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I guess you didn't get my point. All of us having different degree of nice and fun within us. At different ages, the balance changes. I never believe to find someone and change them to suit ourselves. We have to know what we truely want and look for that person that suit us.Originally posted by M©+square:Of cos fun girls are nice!!!! Have you seen them?
I can tell you all the girls have known in clubs and elsewhere are FUN and NICE.
You should read up Bear's post.
Fun and nice girls are very difficult girlfriends.
And guys will have a hard time handling them. Unless, the guy have a way of his own.
One day, fun and nice girls just want to be nice...and settle down.
Balance. HAha...don't bother trying to balance them.
Gotto balance yourself and be confidence. Fun and nice girls will come to you. -
Exactly, women wants different things as they grow.Originally posted by FreeToFly:I guess you didn't get my point. All of us having different degree of nice and fun within us. At different ages, the balance changes. I never believe to find someone and change them to suit ourselves. We have to know what we truely want and look for that person that suit us.
So a fun girl wants to be a nice girl after certain growth and time.
To know what we truly want is what we really !should! be doin. But many a time, men fail to see that and got hurt. -
Define 'nice'?
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Define "loser". Thank you.Originally posted by Ah Ma: