Nice Girls end up losers, guys care to comment?

• Ah Ma

  23 Apr 04, 01:32

  
• tranquilice

  23 Apr 04, 01:40

  Ah Ma, why the ? Are you referring to yourself?
• the Bear

  23 Apr 04, 01:42

  it's the same isn't it?
  
  i'll write it again from the book i read and am re-reading:
  
  ...
  The terrible predicament of a beautiful girl is that only an experienced womaniser, someone cynical and without scruple, feels that he is up to the challenge.
  ...
  
  
• jOhO

  23 Apr 04, 01:43

  it's just a spin-off from the other thread....
• M©+square

  23 Apr 04, 01:47

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  it's just a spin-off from the other thread....

  All right, keep the topic focused.
• ^sylvia^

  23 Apr 04, 01:48

  lol.. ah ma ah~ why post this~??
  okay la true true
• M©+square

  23 Apr 04, 01:51

  I guess in guy's perception.
  
  A nice girl is a good girlfriend and wife.
  A 'bad' girl is a good playmate and soulmate.
  
  So when he's out to play mode.
  He'll prefer baddies
  
  When he's tired and wants to rest or he's facing probs.
  He'll want a girlfriend, wife.
  
  to be cont.
• Yunhaier

  23 Apr 04, 02:06

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  

  In terms of paying off - being a nice girl eventually pays off much faster than a nice guy. In fact, nice girls are in demands. Nice guys? Depends.
  
  Cheers
• jOhO

  23 Apr 04, 02:10

  actually, now that i really read the topic..
  
  "nice girls end up (with) losers, guys care to comment?"
  
  yeah i'll comment:
  
  you've just insulted my girlfriend's judge of character. cos.. she's thinks i'm a good guy.
• AdAptAliS

  23 Apr 04, 02:19

  Is it because nice girls end up getting bad boys? And the bad boys don't really treat them well?
  
  Therefore nice girls end up losers. While nice guys can't get the nice girls, end up losing as well.
  
  That's just a point of view from me. Not necessary true.
• TONYTAN

  23 Apr 04, 02:21

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  

  hmm....sensitive question. And anyway u wont like the answers.......plus there is a chopper I have to consider.
• Ah Ma

  23 Apr 04, 11:03

  more comments..i wan see see
• FireIce

  23 Apr 04, 11:04

  if i admit im nice, then my bf is a loser?
  but i not nice, so he is a winner?
• Ah Ma

  23 Apr 04, 11:05

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  I guess in guy's perception.
  
  A nice girl is a good girlfriend and wife.
  A 'bad' girl is a good playmate and soulmate.
  
  So when he's out to play mode.
  He'll prefer baddies
  
  When he's tired and wants to rest or he's facing probs.
  He'll want a girlfriend, wife.
  
  to be cont.

  nice girls at home cook dinner for guy come home eat....
  fling girls at pubs wait for guy to catch as their prey
  
  which one win?
• Ah Ma

  23 Apr 04, 11:06

  huh i mean as losers not (with) losers
• choco B

  23 Apr 04, 11:12

  Oh.... no lah. As long as she's got some wits about her, a nice girl won't end up a loser
  
  

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  huh i mean as losers not (with) losers

• foga

  23 Apr 04, 11:15

  not all guys tao jia ones.....
  
  zhong dian shi, at the end of the day, i'll pick my wife up from work ,come home and have dinner wif her, go for a stroll after dinner, chit chat, make love....
  
  at the end of the day, my wife is the sole winner.
  
  not all guys like tat. there are some like myself, kuai kuai --- 'ai tor ah' , jus wanna come home to our wife after work.
  
  

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  nice girls at home cook dinner for guy come home eat....
  fling girls at pubs wait for guy to catch as their prey
  
  which one win?

• the Bear

  23 Apr 04, 11:15

  have a question:
  
  if a nice guy and a nice girl get together and live happily ever after... what happens?
• BufPuf

  23 Apr 04, 11:16

  they have nice babies
• foga

  23 Apr 04, 11:20

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  have a question:
  
  if a nice guy and a nice girl get together and live happily ever after... what happens?

  you said it yourself liao what. they'll llive happily ever after lor?
  
• JeweL81

  23 Apr 04, 11:26

  Just be YOURSELF in a relationship. BE a nice girlfriend and give your boyfriend all the love you think he deserve.
  ANd if the relationship doesn't work out, at least you know you've tried your best. Move on.
  I know its hard... and its difficult. But time will heal
• edLow

  23 Apr 04, 11:27

  I still waiting for my nice girl.
  
  So who say nice girls are loser? Just that they might not met the guy whom take notice of them yet.
• the Bear

  23 Apr 04, 11:28

  so, if they live happily ever after, are they still losers??
  
  

  Originally posted by foga:

  you said it yourself liao what. they'll llive happily ever after lor?
  

• foga

  23 Apr 04, 11:32

  that depends on how they define 'happy'.
  
  for me, if i could spend the rest of my life with someone i love and who love me too, i dun really care if people think i'm a loser or not.
  
  losers are those that tries too hard to make themselves happy but end up with no true love atthe end of the day.
  
  

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  so, if they live happily ever after, are they still losers??
  
  

• the Bear

  23 Apr 04, 11:34

  well done! you just disproved the subject title
  
  

  Originally posted by foga:

  that depends on how they define 'happy'.
  
  for me, if i could spend the rest of my life with someone i love and who love me too, i dun really care if people think i'm a loser or not.
  
  losers are those that tries too hard to make themselves happy but end up with no true love atthe end of the day.