Poll for Men/Boys : What Outcome are you looking for?

• M©+square

  19 Apr 04, 19:28

  Be honest and specific the kind of result you want with women and select these few options.
  
  #1 Are you looking for one night stands?
  #2 Are you looking for a girlfriend?
  Stat : 1
  #3 Are you looking for a wife?
  Stat : 1
  #4 Are you looking to get this part of your life called 'Confidence with Women' handled?
  Stat : 1
  #5 Others (Companionship/Galfriends/Social Skills)
  Stat : 2
  
  Pls post your decisions. If you're shy, can PM me also.
  I won't reveal the nick, just statistics for each option.
  Thank You for participating.
• ^sylvia^

  19 Apr 04, 19:30

  tough decision.. umm..
• M©+square

  19 Apr 04, 19:35

  Originally posted by ^sylvia^:

  tough decision.. umm..

  Dey, for guys and boys only lah...but for the fun of it. Why not put yourself in guys shoe and make a selection? (I know what you'd select.)
• ^sylvia^

  19 Apr 04, 19:58

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Dey, for guys and boys only lah...but for the fun of it. Why not put yourself in guys shoe and make a selection? (I know what you'd select.)

  you know what i'd select?? what is it???
• thelesis

  19 Apr 04, 19:59

  decision 4
• wuming78

  19 Apr 04, 20:02

  so weird. u place friendship under others. really shows the kind of mindset we have here huh?
• M©+square

  19 Apr 04, 20:06

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  so weird. u place friendship under others. really shows the kind of mindset we have here huh?

  Haha...it's really nothing about placing whichever first.
  All for the sake of finding out what people here wants.
  
  I could easily just place friendship above all others...but it doesn't really matter much.
  
• wuming78

  19 Apr 04, 20:10

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Haha...it's really nothing about placing whichever first.
  All for the sake of finding out what people here wants.
  
  I could easily just place friendship above all others...but it doesn't really matter much.
  

  no no.. its not the sequencing. jus tt friendship is not an option by itself in ur list. rather it falls under others - usually meant to denote the minority option.
• M©+square

  19 Apr 04, 20:10

  Originally posted by ^sylvia^:

  you know what i'd select?? what is it???

  You're more focused onto Love rather then social life. And i respect your beliefs. Your choice would either be #2 or #3.
  Then again, girls would choose the two common options most of the time.
  
  If you disagree. Can drop me a PM and we'll discuss this conflict between datinglife and Lovelife.
• M©+square

  19 Apr 04, 20:19

  Originally posted by wuming78:

  no no.. its not the sequencing. jus tt friendship is not an option by itself in ur list. rather it falls under others - usually meant to denote the minority option.

  By havin Friendship an Option on it's own will not help in this poll. A more even spread result would be ideal.
  If too many participants selecting Friendship may defeat the purpose of my poll for being too general. It's understood that guys have galfriends and would want to remain as that.
  Your last point is exactly what's in my mind.
  
  
• FireIce

  19 Apr 04, 20:22

  leads me to think....mus there always be a "motive" when u get to know someone?
  
  i prefer to start on very pure, innocent, neutral grounds and see how it goes.....
• wuming78

  19 Apr 04, 20:28

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  leads me to think....mus there always be a "motive" when u get to know someone?
  
  i prefer to start on very pure, innocent, neutral grounds and see how it goes.....

  precisely my point! but seems that the survey is skewed towards those who get to noe ppl with an intention.
• the Bear

  19 Apr 04, 20:30

  looking for someone to love and be loved right back
• ^sylvia^

  19 Apr 04, 20:35

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  You're more focused onto Love rather then social life. And i respect your beliefs. Your choice would either be #2 or #3.
  Then again, girls would choose the two common options most of the time.
  
  If you disagree. Can drop me a PM and we'll discuss this conflict between datinglife and Lovelife.

  amazing! ni hao liao jie wo oh!
  xie xie ~! whaaahahahaa i nv disagree.. lol
• oh_papillon

  19 Apr 04, 20:39

  if i'm a man, and knowing most men, they will choose option 1, 2, n 3. A married man will go for option 1 and 2. A man with a gal frd will go for option 1 or/and 3. A single man will opt for 1,2,3 All the above can be screwed mah....No option 5 for me. As far as i know, there is no platonic friendship bet men and women. Most are out to get something out of the relationship.
  
  i didnt go for option 4 cos i dun understand wat u are trying to convey
• M©+square

  19 Apr 04, 23:55

  Lai Lai. Bu yao Ke Qi!
• Yunhaier

  20 Apr 04, 00:02

  Originally posted by M©+square:
  Be honest and specific the kind of result you want with women and select these few options.
  
  [b] #1 Are you looking for one night stands?
  #2 Are you looking for a girlfriend?
  #3 Are you looking for a wife?
  #4 Are you looking to get this part of your life called 'Confidence with Women' handled?
  Stat : 1
  #5 Others (Companionship/Galfriends/Social Skills)
  
  Pls post your decisions. If you're shy, can PM me also.
  I won't reveal the nick, just statistics for each option.
  Thank You for participating. [/b]

  Others.
  
  Looking for my chapter's love lesson.
  
  Cheers
• DevilAngel77

  20 Apr 04, 00:07

  #2 and #3 only..
• weidev

  20 Apr 04, 16:07

  3...
• Devil1976

  20 Apr 04, 16:52

  No. 5?