5 great opening lines for meeting guys
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jie mei men!
it's 21st century oredi......shed tt shyness and take the initiative to date tt cute guy u've always been wanting......
i pulled this off my fav girly websai (www.women.com) for a start.......
no guarantee successful and highly dependant on wat type of guy u are dealing with........
no harm using this for reference.....
im sure this will be welcomed by guys
and guys will definitely be more interested if gers offer to make the first move............rite boys?
5 Great opening lines for meeting guys
With your opening line, you're really just dowsing for attraction. If the chemistry's there, the conversation will flow easily; if it doesn't happen, forget it and move on. The trick is to not jump to the middle of the conversation. You need something appropriately light, provocative enough to get things started but subtle enough to let him off the hook if he's not really interested.
Also, don't be afraid of awkward silences. If he doesn't walk away, it means he still wants to talk. If you have the nerve to wait 30 seconds here or there, you'll be amazed at the results. Ready? Here are five ways to start things up.
1. Say something specific to the event you're at.
If you're at an art gallery, you can comment on the exhibit. If you're at a show, you can give your thoughts on the band. Don't weigh in like a debater with an opinion, just float your viewpoint out there and open the door by turning it into a question: "Were those guys great, or what?"
2. Talk about something that just happened.
Sometimes nothing happens, but if it does, you can capitalize on the opportunity. If the man of your dreams is waiting behind you in line for movie tickets and the person at the ticket window pitches a fit and storms off, you can take it as a sign from God that you should turn around and ask, "So what was up with that guy?"
3. Compliment his attire.
If you're at a formal affair, this one's easy; it is, however, more subtly effective when the dress is casual. Regardless of the outcome, the look on the face of a guy who's wearing a T-shirt and jeans will be reward enough when you walk up, smile, and say, "Hey, nice shirt."
4. Act like you might know him from somewhere.
Pick a few of the places from your personal history, then walk up to the best looking man in the room and say, "You look so familiar. Did you go to L'Academie des Beaux Arts in Paris?" (Or, you know, wherever.) He'll say no and you can ask about somewhere else you've been. Human nature being what it is, there's every likelihood he'll start asking about places he's been, and won't that just be cozy?
5. "Hi."
There's nothing like the devastating effectiveness of a simple hello. If you're determined to talk to a guy, and at a complete loss as to what to say, just say hi and let him do the rest. -
Yay!!!! Hooraa for the girls!!!
Take your pick and advance! Lai ah Lai ah! Mai Tu liaoz.
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maybe u can oso comment on which approach will make u most comfortable and want to get to know the ger better too!?Originally posted by M©+square:Yay!!!! Hooraa for the girls!!!
Take your pick and advance! Lai ah Lai ah! Mai Tu liaoz. -
i prefer the fifth way...
short and sweet... -
I know.....cosh you looked like a pro lady killer with jus 'Hi!'Originally posted by weidev:i prefer the fifth way...
short and sweet...
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the gal suppose to say this leh...Originally posted by M?square:I know.....cosh you looked like a pro lady killer with jus 'Hi!'
anyway i never pick up gals b4... no experience... nt like u... -
Opps! Nevermind! Next time got girly probs...come in here. Got alot of advisors sarport one.Originally posted by weidev:the gal suppose to say this leh...
anyway i never pick up gals b4... no experience... nt like u...
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Interesting... I tink dis 5 r juz da few of MANY opening lines or watsoever to get to noe some1. & I noe any line can also be used, coz guys r more easy goin mah... We prefer gals make da 1st moves leh... 4 Thumbs UP!
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pls oso forgive us if we can't talk in-depth about soccer and lan games.............hahahaha........
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Originally posted by FireIce:pls oso forgive us if we can't talk in-depth about soccer and lan games.............hahahaha........
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great man!!!!
i have been spent 20+ years waiting for a gal to say hello to me...
"wo shi zai deng dai...yi ge nu hai....." (andy lau's bing yu) -
Hmm....you need to do something to yourself, improve yourself. There are surely girls who'll come to you.Originally posted by rapeme:great man!!!!
i have been spent 20+ years waiting for a gal to say hello to me...
"wo shi zai deng dai...yi ge nu hai....." (andy lau's bing yu)
Post your probs in a new thread? -
Sure or not...? Sure got lah... When U call gals or they call U, surely some muz start wif a "hello" rite?Originally posted by rapeme:great man!!!!
i have been spent 20+ years waiting for a gal to say hello to me...
"wo shi zai deng dai...yi ge nu hai....." (andy lau's bing yu)
In my case got gal sae hello to me, den ask me where's da nearest MRT or wat bus to take... -___- -
>sit down<
>cross leg<
>wait for an ah nia to come & begin pickup line< -
Haiz. No guys wanna tok to me leh.
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Only got an idiot write a love poem to an 'An Qi Li Na' gong zhu right..?Originally posted by IamAngeline:Haiz. No guys wanna tok to me leh. -
I remember mums alwaes tell to their kids, "If U lie, yr teeth will drop."Originally posted by IamAngeline:Haiz. No guys wanna tok to me leh. -
Sounds familiar...Originally posted by Spear:Only got an idiot write a love poem to an 'An Qi Li Na' gong zhu right..? -
Oh ya hor.... An Qi Li Na Gong Zhu is me ar??Originally posted by Spear:Only got an idiot write a love poem to an 'An Qi Li Na' gong zhu right..?
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/me look into mirror..Originally posted by Bontakun:I remember mums alwaes tell to their kids, "If U lie, yr teeth will drop."
Everything's fine leh -
no no....the gals always say...."xiao4 lian2 eh....beo simi beo?....ai teo pah ah?..." to meOriginally posted by Bontakun:Sure or not...? Sure got lah... When U call gals or they call U, surely some muz start wif a "hello" rite?
In my case got gal sae hello to me, den ask me where's da nearest MRT or wat bus to take... -___-
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Err... angeline...Originally posted by IamAngeline:/me look into mirror..
Everything's fine leh
Oscar the Grouch has no teeth!!! <-my teeth! -
I didn't say I'm OscarOriginally posted by :Err... angeline...
Oscar the Grouch has no teeth!!! <-my teeth!
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Just a smile will work really, or you can go as far as a wink.
Any guy who doesn't respond to a smile or a wink from a girl will just freak out if you talk to him.
Oh what i wouldn't give to have a smile and a wink from FireIce...sigh -
You're just like Oscar one big grouchy person!Originally posted by IamAngeline:I didn't say I'm Oscar 