what is she thinking? gals n guys come in!
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So I've met this girl in class, rarely talks cos she's my junior, in the same lessons about twice per week. Befriended her thru FB (she knows who I am, in class, etc). Initiated FB message talk her, chat about a 3 days, and she gave me her number asking me to whatsapp her if there's anything (told me FB hard to talk). Text another few days and she invited me to her 21st bday party (this coming sunday 7 APR).
All along the vibe she gave me in the text was pretty good (usually text till wee hours). We asked about each others, what we're doing, usually do, sch stuffs, R/S status "check", told me I'm super handsome blah blah blah. Flirt a little with her, and she usually goes haha, HAHA, or change topic. Chat in the phone once, asked me to drop by to "see" her in sch if i'm going. So far still ok, friends, new friends, starting to have a little interest in her. But it all happens after i did not "drop by". Started text as usual, and halfway, she stopped replying (1st time). Guess she's busy, so i re-initiate a text another day in the evening and same, halfway stop replying (2nd time, notice text getting shorter, and she don't asked what i'm doing , up to etc anymore). Waited 2 days later and again re-initiate a text. This time didn't last about 10 sentences (3rd time stop replying).
So I'm the kind of guy that that thinks a girl is pretty impertinent if they just of no reasons ignore our texts, even though when we end with a question. sometimes a statement does lead to reply though IMO. So 2 hours later, i text her : u seems busy, anyway I'll see u this sunday for ur birthday then. She replied 2 min later: haha, i'm studying. I didn't replied her since then (it's been 3 days). I know it's long. I'm trying to make new friends here, sparked some interest in me initially. But after this, i'm starting to re-consider/ loss interest. And cos i'm meeting her this sunday so i doesn't want to be seem to be rude here.
To all gals out there, we (guys) are very simple creature, if we are interested in u, wanting to know u more, u girls can sense it (i know all does). It's ok to play hard around, but sometime don't try to go too far and ended up appearing to be rude, imo. maybe not all but just some playful ones. Sincerely, may I know what kind of happened here? Did she just abruptly lost interest? Am I bothering her? P.S, I don't really keep spamming text at her, it just goes by the "feel" of our convo.
So I'm going to her bday party this sunday, and have already bought a gift. What do u think is the worst outcome here? or can I do anything to spark a little interest back? Thanks for advice!!
Sorry for the essay. Just wanted to be clear even though this may sounds stupid.
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if the gift is a little blue box, she might talk to u again
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Originally posted by FireIce:
if the gift is a little blue box, she might talk to u again
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Originally posted by Just_do_it_lah:??
Yes... this is commonly referred as the little blue box... -
Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
Yes... this is commonly referred as the little blue box...for guys... above 30...
we love the little blue pill....
