malay guy dating a singaporean chinese girl.

• Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91

  8 Oct 12, 04:50

  Hi! i need ur views on a malay guy like me dating a singaporean chinese girl cos recently, i successfully dated her ! She's from Meridian jc anyways and i'm like only diploma but she seems more interested to meet up with me again. She's 19+ and i'm 21. We share very similar interests and compatible in some ways. She's petite and is really adorable and has got good-looks. so how? i need ur views, thanks!
• Rednano

  8 Oct 12, 11:17

  
  think long term to marriage, are you prepared to eat pork for her?

• mlmersrlosers

  8 Oct 12, 13:27

  go for it! no try u never know.

• Rednano

  8 Oct 12, 13:53

  
  is she going to give up eating pork for you?
  
  there are so many festivals celebrating chinese food with pork.
  hawker centres also selling many chinese food with pork.
  
  e.g.
  festivals:
  Chinese New Year. so many chinese dishes with pork.
  Rice Dumpling/ Dragon Boat festival. chinese dumpling (bak chang) with pork.
  ...etc.
  
  are you going to sit in a round table eating with her family and relatives with so many pork dishes?
  
  hawker centres:
  roast meat rice
  wanton noodles
  minced meat noodles
  ...etc.
  
  cooking at home:
  you cook halal food, she cook pork dishes.
  then what? are you going to cleanse the cooking wares with sand and say some prayers everytime both cooking at home?
  
  
  
  think about it, think long term

• Summer hill

  8 Oct 12, 13:55

  Would you accept the fact that

  she's not muslim. she's not gonna change herself for you. she's still gonna eat non-halal food. she will not accompany you to friday prayers.

  think about it in the long run.

• veron soh

  8 Oct 12, 19:11

  Also is she willing to change her name to Malay name.?For example present name is Tan May Ling,change to Fatimah Bte Tan.??

• Rednano

  8 Oct 12, 20:15

  
  is she going to forsake her religion to read the Islamic Quran with you?

• mr music

  8 Oct 12, 20:24

  good luck cos you will need lots of it thou
• SJS6638

  8 Oct 12, 22:36

  interracial marriages is getting common these days.

  indian and chinese

  Chinese and Malay

  Chinese and Caucasian

  Malay and Caucasian

• Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91

  9 Oct 12, 10:03

  c'mon people i need positive encouragement at least heheheheh
• Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91

  9 Oct 12, 10:16

  SJS6638 what do u think? i need ur opinion
• Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91

  9 Oct 12, 10:24

  she's an atheist fyi
• Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91

  9 Oct 12, 10:31

  recently i had a female chinese classmate who had a malay bf, they together for 3 years alr
• Summer hill

  9 Oct 12, 14:54

  Originally posted by Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91:

  she’s an atheist fyi

  
  doesn't mean that she will convert to islam for you.

  get out, before you fall even deeper into love.

• Summer hill

  9 Oct 12, 14:54

  Originally posted by Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91:

  recently i had a female chinese classmate who had a malay bf, they together for 3 years alr

  
  they are not married

• Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91

  9 Oct 12, 22:40

  hmm summer hill, u could be right? well i still want to be good friends with her at least :/
• Summer hill

  13 Oct 12, 08:33

  Originally posted by Jedimaestro_alsyafiq.91:

  hmm summer hill, u could be right? well i still want to be good friends with her at least :/

  
  yeah....it's not so simple...even if she agrees..what about her family? Every CNY cannot have pork dishes?