i recently got rejected, her reason is that she wants us to know each other better 1st.
I really dnt know whether it can b taken at face value.
I'm totally crazy over her, i haven't felt this way towards a lady ever
in my life and so i really wanna just get to know each other better and
try to work it out in between us but i also dnt wanna pin on false
hopes.
there are so many nice things to say to reject someone and i'm afraid this might just be another one of it.
how long u know tt person before u 告白？
know from where one?
so far done wat?
i gotta know her a few months back from a mutual fren when we went to chill out at some pub but i only started actively contacting her during x'mas week.
we haven't exactly have a date between the both of us, most of our time spend together are part of some frens' gathering that either of us will ask each other to go.
thru those few outings, she did show some signs of interest (maybe that's what i thot)
we shared the same seat (each 1 half), filrt a little bit, stayed out late with only the 2 of us, she will try to get my attention when i'm standing away but looking in her direction etc...
Originally posted by redname:she will try to get my attention when i'm standing away but looking in her direction etc...
is this ur 错觉？
yeah, sounds like too fast..
even though she shows signs (whichever way u comprehend), it is still good to have more time to get to know each other.
try to set up a proper date.
dnt know 错觉 or not
ok, i ask her out for dinner soon :)
you sound like a potential stalker cum rapist
Most of the guys very 猴急. As a result, some gals are scared away by them. They don't bother to spend time to get to know the gals better and give it time to see if each other are compatible.
Sigh!!!!!
Please lor , sometimes among friends or colleagues there is flirting, Some flirting is just purely for fun with no sexual connotation or call for any start of BGR. Thus, you gotta exercise wise judgment.