Crossroad of love?
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Which do you value.... being with the person you like? or knowing that he/she will be happier with someone else?
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2nd option.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Which do you value.... being with the person you like? or knowing that he/she will be happier with someone else? -
Sometimes I just feel that's it's better to make others feel happy. -
Eh? There's a forum tab above my nic!!!
Wonder I'm a moderator to how many forums... -
respect her choice....Originally posted by Yunhaier:Which do you value.... being with the person you like? or knowing that he/she will be happier with someone else? -
Don't be too shocked, I was as stunned as you.Originally posted by Parka: Eh? There's a forum tab above my nic!!!
Wonder I'm a moderator to how many forums...
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:Don't be too shocked, I was as stunned as you. SOT....surprises.
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This is getting personal(and i'm sharing in my own humanistic POV)....Originally posted by Yunhaier:Which do you value.... being with the person you like? or knowing that he/she will be happier with someone else?
It's a tough choice,
there will be a time when i get selfish, possessive and one minded. A part of me usually won't want to see the other party getting upset because of my own happiness. However i don't want to make myself suffer as well. It's tormenting and i've been thru that before.
Coming to the second point...
If i know that she'll be happier with someone else. I'll bless her with all my heart. that's in terms of the generous and selfless side of me.
I'll be glad for the person i like to be happy and spend her life meaningfully then anything else.
But i know that when i let her go....i'm numbing my heart and say 'It's all right, i'll still be there if you need me. Remember me ok?'
And life continues.....
If i'm suppose to choose one...i'll choose 2nd Op, however 1st Op will always be a great challenge. It's a great torture and struggle...
I believe....that 2nd Op will prevail within me.
Tanks Yun for your contribution in Sch Off Tots.
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Let the other party choose.
Firstly, how do you know ur gf/bf will be better off with the other person? Deciding for the other person is being selfish so its not being noble as most people think.