Please dont said I am silly, but I just in the lost of direction. How should a relationship goes about? I just wonder, can someone tell me how then you are in relationship? Must a relationship alway involved holding hands, kissing and physical body contact? Is having a boyfriend who is younger than you "normal"?
Yes is normal to have boyfriend is younger than you. I myself is the youger guy too. So there's actally nothing wrong want. Just think positive!
Yes, that what my friends said too, maybe I thinking too much but the fact is. It seem to me his expectation is too high. He keep telling me that normal when you start dating :(
There is no fix rule about dating. Most importantly you are ready for it and feel comfortable about it. Please don't let anyone pressure you!
Good luck and take it easy.
Originally posted by Klarel:Yes, that what my friends said too, maybe I thinking too much but the fact is. It seem to me his expectation is too high. He keep telling me that normal when you start dating :(
Hi Klarel,
Can you kindly share with us your boyfriend's expectations of you?
Anyway, the four points which you have mentioned are considered to be quite normal in a relationship. However, with regards to physical body contact, my suggestion is that it shouldn't go any further than hugging, given that the two of you only just started the relationship.
Cheers.
hope he would respect my decision, or at least listen to me.
How do you know whether you are in a relationship.
1) When you, sleep, eat , work even sleep you will think about the other half.
2) When you lose the other half to death, you feel like killing yourself to join her but you can't because of family committment..
3) When she is injured, truly wish you can suffer in her place and pray so hard that she will recover.
4) Pushing her or giving her away because you know in your heart that you love her but could not give her what she wants in her life or her parents objection.
5) Knowing a simple smile from her is the greatest thing in life and not anything else in the world.
How do you know whether you are in a relationship.
1) When you, sleep, eat , work even sleep you will think about the other half.
2) When you lose the other half to death, you feel like killing yourself to join her but you can't because of family committment..
3) When she is injured, truly wish you can suffer in her place and pray so hard that she will recover.
4) Pushing her or giving her away because you know in your heart that you love her but could not give her what she wants in her life or her parents objection.
5) Knowing a simple smile from her is the greatest thing in life and not anything else in the world.
Originally posted by Klarel:hope he would respect my decision, or at least listen to me.
If he don't respect yr wish on physical contact. He just want to makan you and then walk off to find other girl.
he is not such a guy...