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lols......... im just 19 yrs old this year buddist and i have a problem. my problem is i dont know what should i do... okay i recently been with a guy whom i know almost yrs.. i know him when i was 14 in the same company we work.. that 1 yr he very caring and we went lunch together go home together go take up course together.. he was a very so call ah beng type and i was.. i was realli simple minded girl.. reali untill nw... i don club i don smoke yeah and till now i only date 2 guys b4 + him is 3. my problem is. after 1 year .. i lost contact with him beacuse both of us were busy.. mi help up at my aunty stall and he is just like a workerholic .. go we didnt met almost many yrs.. he reali very so call. treat me so nice that all the girls in that company was jealous of me. he did ask me to be his gf...but i don like thoes so call hooligians arh u know. so i reject him.. and.. i didnt count how many yrs le lah i think about 5 years we didnt contact but thi syr on my birthday we meet again at the pet shop at jurong piont.. and we lalalalalala he exchange num for me and we went out twice.. i ask about him.. how is n\him. he told me he been finding for me since the last day leave the company.. i change my num. and didnt update me. he change a lot.. his english was.. woahh.. so i asked him.. does he hv a gf now.. he say no then he ask me the same quest.. we been going out fot 6 month and 1 day we get together after the movies at cine lesu. sadthing im dissapoiinted the first time step into his house.... there is a 5 yrs old guy call him daddy.. so.. after he explain.. he toldme. he was married and divoice.. i was .. why didnt u mention b4...we been dating for 5 month thn now then i find out.. and he told me that his ex wife .. they married when his wife was 18 and he was 20.. and his wife flirtin around outside and abort baby a lot of time.. thing that made me angry is.. he said.. 1 day his wife told him that she prg.. he didnt ask then marrried he liao wor.. his wife say she very sure that child was his.. they he happy happy go spend money married her and then when she give birth 2 month later she outside flirt around and tell him that actuyalli arh the child not uyrs.. i gt no money .. i abort tiem and mum don wan to help me.. and. then she divoice nv come back.. now boy boy was 5 yrs old... i and my bf was aready 6 month together .. last night i ask him.. i didnt know y i will accept u realli.. because i love u . and i treat boy boy like my own kid also. i bring him out. buy him thing.. and the thing that made me very lost is.. i don kw what to do. my bf he very untidy... i clean up his room and he wah lao.. still mk a mess after that..im a buddist he a christ.. ppl say christian must stay with christian ppl..... if not both of u will gt pro .. this guy is very caring .. he reali treat me very well.. but he said b4.. he don think he wan to buy a bew house after rom and no weddding dinner because he said no money.. im 19.. a childcare teacher goin to be a kindergarden teacher soon after i gt mt degree.. he work at a company... my pay was 2k plus his imcome was 1200..and all my friend keep askin me why u so wasted urself and ask me to leave him.. i don mind how much his income is.. as long as he is faithful to me. i ok le.. but the thinmg is .. i been goin to his house for almost 3 month
and his mom was giving me stresss..i kno wgirl go to guy house over night not very nice.. but his mon and dad and his ask me to while my family went oversea for 1 month... i wan to go my relative house but his mom ask me to stay and u know what his mom very weird..this min good to u another min u walk out of the room she scold u .. she ask me do house work.. ask me bring boy boy to school. do thsi and that.. at night come back if she not happy u cannt shower... my bf leh.. he just know how to say.. don care about her lah.. he and his mom buay gam 1.. i time try to talk to him.. it ok... let her scold me lo... i quiet can le lo.. but bring boy boy go school all these must see. i gt work also...after i come in to their life.. his mom givin me stress. morning 5.50am haven wake up she knock the door ask me why i haven wake up.. then after tt my bf wil shout at her .. i try to stop him but i kena scold also.. his dad ok ok la;. treat me not bad.,... i wonder.. his ex wife left izzit because his mom. after my parent come back. i nv stay overnight at his house then the mother say i don like her. then i explain ... she want me to go over.. so i go over.. and thn she again ki siao.. i nv ever talk back to her and shout or rude,, every time she say thing harsh,,, i diam diam lo..al my friend askin me to leave him... im 19 and he was 28.. i realli didnt know why i wil be with him. i can choose to leave but this guy realli touch my heart.. he alwasy so sweet... i bare with his every thing and his mom.. i almost didnt contact any guy friend and friend after i been with his because he alwasy insecure when i go out with friend..im now workin and studyin at the same time... what in my heart is.,. weather shoudl i continie? because next time no new houses. no wedding night onli r.o.m and no honey moon..and he got ' niao suan: that mean when old maybe cannt walk.. he now 20+ aready gt pro liao. i ask him eat medi he also don wan. he always think he is right.. he gt fever i giv him medi he say no use 1 lah.. wan me to beg him then he eat.. i don kw why he like that 1 leh.. how can i slove my pro.. any1? im very very lost now...
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