Please help silly didi with 1st girlfriend
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i just came back from a date feeling damn silly.
what happened was i held her hands from under, but she told me that the guy's hands should be facing outwards (towards the front/people). that makes sense when i think back, since the guy should be leading. feel damn paiseh and strike 1.
strike 2, when we hugged, i placed one arm on her shoulders and was almost strangling her neck. my friend says that guys should hug the waist, under armpits or over the arms, and never on the shoulder.
can somebody please give me more tips on dating basics? this is very serious, please help a didi avoid more embarrassing mistakes! -
never ram from the behind hole.... at least not on the first time....
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Those are minor details lah,
just wear your lucky underwear, and all will be well.
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Originally posted by xiongmao1:
i just came back from a date feeling damn silly.
what happened was i held her hands from under, but she told me that the guy's hands should be facing outwards (towards the front/people). that makes sense when i think back, since the guy should be leading. feel damn paiseh and strike 1.
strike 2, when we hugged, i placed one arm on her shoulders and was almost strangling her neck. my friend says that guys should hug the waist, under armpits or over the arms, and never on the shoulder.
can somebody please give me more tips on dating basics? this is very serious, please help a didi avoid more embarrassing mistakes!U how old?
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Originally posted by xiongmao1:
i just came back from a date feeling damn silly.
what happened was i held her hands from under, but she told me that the guy's hands should be facing outwards (towards the front/people). that makes sense when i think back, since the guy should be leading. feel damn paiseh and strike 1.
strike 2, when we hugged, i placed one arm on her shoulders and was almost strangling her neck. my friend says that guys should hug the waist, under armpits or over the arms, and never on the shoulder.
can somebody please give me more tips on dating basics? this is very serious, please help a didi avoid more embarrassing mistakes!Hi Xiongmao,
I hope that this will help you out.
http://dating-me.blogspot.com/2007/03/dating-dos-and-dont.html
Cheers.
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1st time bound to feel insecure, it'll get better over time
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hold her hand, treat her with respect, treat her well, pay attention to her, be good to her...
that's my suggestion to you
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always keep a pack of breathmints or gum in your pocket, even if you dont smoke. smelly breath is a huge turnoff.
if you find yourself talking too much, calm down and give her a chance to speak. sometimes listening is the key to scoring with a girl.
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its ok...if she like u..
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your only problem is that you lack confidence. if you have confidence in yourself, how you hug or hold her hand is no big deal.
if my gf told me something like that, i would just reply: "it's already your privilege that i'm holding your hand."
don't always listen to girls. they don't find that attractive. don't forget, you're supposed to be leading, not her.
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dude. learn from tv la these kind of things
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seems likes rather trivial issues lol. Are the both of u really comfortable with each other or desire to conform to social norms so as to justify your relationship?