OK for busy people to date?
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I wonder if it is wise to pursue romance or to go into a relationship when I'm kind of busy in my personal life.
I'm currently working in the day and also studying part-time 3 evenings on weekdays and Saturdays (full day). So on weekdays when I do not have lessons, I may be required to work OT due to the accumulated work. So effectively, I guess only Sundays are left.
Given this kind of schedule, I wonder if it is wise to go into a relationship if I can probably meet her only on a Sunday or once every 2 weeks.
I met a gal and she is interested in going further. But I'm a bit worried that she becomes disappointed later when I cannot meet her regularly like most other couples who meet everyday or once every 2 or 3 days.
Any advice? Dun wan to make her a 'widow' sort of. What do most gals think about having a bf who can meet her only once a week or once every fortnight?
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Why are you asking us when you should be talking to her? Sound her out and see what's her take on this.
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Let her understand your situation and see whether she can accept it before starting the relationship
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Depends on the girl lah.
Some girls prefer to see each other every day.
Some girls prefer to see each other once a week or even when only necessary.
Depends on the individual.
Like what one friend told me before, if the couple gets married they will be seeing each other everyday for the rest of their lives. Now still dating, don't have to devote 24/7 to each other. Yet.
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The gal herself is the best source you can get info to help you decide to further your relationship with her.
I believe if both parties are interested certain stuff can be sorted out. It is about give and take.
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Originally posted by Ssbbsbft:
I wonder if it is wise to pursue romance or to go into a relationship when I'm kind of busy in my personal life.
I'm currently working in the day and also studying part-time 3 evenings on weekdays and Saturdays (full day). So on weekdays when I do not have lessons, I may be required to work OT due to the accumulated work. So effectively, I guess only Sundays are left.
Given this kind of schedule, I wonder if it is wise to go into a relationship if I can probably meet her only on a Sunday or once every 2 weeks.
I met a gal and she is interested in going further. But I'm a bit worried that she becomes disappointed later when I cannot meet her regularly like most other couples who meet everyday or once every 2 or 3 days.
Any advice? Dun wan to make her a 'widow' sort of. What do most gals think about having a bf who can meet her only once a week or once every fortnight?
Just Do It.
If it doesn't work out
Just Too Bad!
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It's not going to kill you!!!!
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Andrew, i like your style. Many guys just lack the courage or rather they may have been stopped by ego too big to do it.
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Originally posted by Fantagf:
Andrew, i like your style. Many guys just lack the courage or rather they may have been stopped by ego too big to do it.
hehehe... because I have been there, done that and after a while, you realise WTF, all those crapz you worry about... farking waste of time!!!!
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Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:
hehehe... because I have been there, done that and after a while, you realise WTF, all those crapz you worry about... farking waste of time!!!!
good to know that you have learnt from them. Not every guy willing to learn from experience.
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Mate... ask the girl, not us. :P
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we cant tell u or answer anything for u cause it yr life
but if u wan me to tell u something................................
" gave me $30K worth of a ring" will make parn marry u.
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you ask us for what??
lol!!
Ask her la...... Tell her ur situation. If she likes u enough, MAYBE she wont mind.
Diff girl diff pattern leh.