There is a gal whom I saw almost everyday when I was on my way to work. Very often I take the same bus with her to work and I know that her work location is quite near to my work location. This have been like around 2 months.
I would like to make friends with her but I have no idea where to start. So I would like some advices from the members here. Thans.
So far we do have some eye contacts.
just don't hump the lamp post can le
eye contact oni ah?
wat about smile smile?
btw, if u kopy and paste from FP, pls at least edit ur msg.
this is sgforums
Jump around her, and sing "Getting to know you" from The King and I.
tough, unlesss you are a very daring and thick skin guy. Keep smiling to her when you see her, if she respond with smile and when come to a time you feel u are comfortable to say "hi" to her, go ahead and do it. Gauge her response to your "hi" then decide what to do next.
walau, last time i same thing liao.
this kind of thing very risky one. either make or break case.
Originally posted by Worldlybusinessman:walau, last time i same thing liao.
this kind of thing very risky one. either make or break case.
what did u do to that gal?
Originally posted by ah-soh:There is a gal whom I saw almost everyday when I was on my way to work. Very often I take the same bus with her to work and I know that her work location is quite near to my work location. This have been like around 2 months.
I would like to make friends with her but I have no idea where to start. So I would like some advices from the members here. Thans.
So far we do have some eye contacts.
Walk up to her, smile and intro yourself. Just dont do it looking creepy. And ya.. maintain eye contact.. but not stare at her..
smile and wink.
wink is good. kinky kinky=D
Originally posted by DownAndOut:Walk up to her, smile and intro yourself. Just dont do it looking creepy. And ya.. maintain eye contact.. but not stare at her..
Agreed.
Nothing will ever happen unless you take the initiative.
Originally posted by KaurexO_o:
Agreed.Nothing will ever happen unless you take the initiative.
i concur
Hey ah-soh..
the next time you take the same bus with her, quickly grab a sit first (if there is one), then when she makes eye contact with you, pat the chair beside you signalling her to come and sit by your side. If she doesn't see it, then just approach her when the time is right, like when she is waiting for the bus at the bus stop.
Women who are attracted to you will stand around you or near you, unless they are shy and unfriendly. Looking at what you said, eye contact has been made quite a few times but where is the smile coming from you? Did you look away? NEVER look away and act uninterested or shy if you want to befriend the lady.
Eye contact >> smile >> walk towards her >> open your mouth and start talking
"Hey, i have seen you quite a few times and i was just wondering, have you had breakfast?" (Smile genuinely and not creepily)
The first thing she will do is actually laugh if you do it with the correct body language and tone. She isn't expecting anything like that in her life before. Tell me, which guy in Singapore got the balls to approach a women and even make it to the point where the girl is laughing because you are cute ?
If her response is telling you that she isn't interested, then forget it, say something like, "Oh well, have a great day!" (Again, with a smile)
This "solution" is better than getting to see her but never get to actually strike a conversation with her. Seriously, what can you lose? Your face, if you approach a lady ? Loose it man, if you got balls.
Originally posted by Keii:Jump around her, and sing "Getting to know you" from The King and I.
gawd.....
Originally posted by ah-soh:There is a gal whom I saw almost everyday when I was on my way to work. Very often I take the same bus with her to work and I know that her work location is quite near to my work location. This have been like around 2 months.
I would like to make friends with her but I have no idea where to start. So I would like some advices from the members here. Thans.
So far we do have some eye contacts.
no need
all u need is
In the middle of the crowded place, look her in the eye. Walk back a few steps and give her a