difficulty in pretty girls to have boyfriend
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Originally posted by Jianye:
This is very puzzling to me...
i have a female colleague who is quiet and meticulous at work. She's also very pretty, in fact, i consider her to be the most pretty in the office but she does not seem attractive to the boys around...me included.
i wonder why....
any ideas, guys?
u give us her email....guarantee she taken up..... -
Maybe the word to describe her is "taciturn"...
some pple jus open up less, like myself - protective mechanism. i'm male by the way, so i'm sure u guys don't need my email...
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Travels, you are correct....
I have been putting in efforts lately to make her open up more...talk to more people, ask more questions.... In this way, she'll learn more ways to protect herself instead of just one...
I can see she is doing so, but not enough. Maybe i am too impatient to see her grow stronger....haha...watching her grow stronger is like seeing my own sister grow up...
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Originally posted by Jianye:
This is very puzzling to me...
i have a female colleague who is quiet and meticulous at work. She's also very pretty, in fact, i consider her to be the most pretty in the office but she does not seem attractive to the boys around...me included.
i wonder why....
any ideas, guys?
i guess she isn't aware of the fact that she has the potential to be very attractive? If she knows how to make advantage of her being pretty and all, she'll surely be a knockout...
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I can relate. Sometimes people keep to themselves because they're afraid a past event (prob something unpleasant) crops up.
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hm maybe she has secretly admired somebody
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dj woody, you are right. she thinks or feels she is not as pretty as other girls around which is the opposite....i tried telling her that but it does not get into her head..
Her reply to me is if i am so attractive, why is it so hard for her to have a boyfriend? i got dumbfounded...i can only say she must look at all potential suitors with her eyes and heart open..she cannot just blindly take a tom, dick or harry for a boyfriend, can she? she will suffer....
i wonder how do i let her know she is really attractive with no lack of suitors yet be cautious at the same time...
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I find it hard to believe that an obviously pretty girl doesn't know she's attractive. Perhaps like jess said, she's waiting in frustration for that special person she secretly admires.
i'm sure she's jus being selective, it all boils down to expectations...
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lol...
Same thought here--I find it a little surprising that you guys (Travels, jess) managed to think she's waiting in frustration for that special person she secretly admires....
In fact, she is waiting but that person is already attached......
I really hope she is moving on and not waiting for that person.....haizzzzz......
Why so messy one, human relationship?
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Originally posted by Jianye:
dj woody, you are right. she thinks or feels she is not as pretty as other girls around which is the opposite....i tried telling her that but it does not get into her head..
Her reply to me is if i am so attractive, why is it so hard for her to have a boyfriend? i got dumbfounded...i can only say she must look at all potential suitors with her eyes and heart open..she cannot just blindly take a tom, dick or harry for a boyfriend, can she? she will suffer....
i wonder how do i let her know she is really attractive with no lack of suitors yet be cautious at the same time...
A lot of guys all think, pretty girl = attached. Thats the ans.
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Actually all men think in this way (be it instinctively or otherwise) because one of the qualities of alpha females is being pretty and the perceived logical assumption another alpha male would have found her...
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Negative. Pretty girls should have much more opportunities. It is down to her to choose.
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Originally posted by Jianye:
This is very puzzling to me...
i have a female colleague who is quiet and meticulous at work. She's also very pretty, in fact, i consider her to be the most pretty in the office but she does not seem attractive to the boys around...me included.
i wonder why....
any ideas, guys?
maybe she's so capable and pretty that u think you don't match up to her (+quiet), that's why
i have a friend like that too, she's smart (studying law), and really pretty, so very few guys dare to approach her. but the ones who do approach are cute and rich, but these guys just make gals insecure, that's why she still single now and always bitching to me about it.
surprisingly the guy she likes is a average-looking guy, but he's a very considerate and caring guy, a rather serious guy. my fren will practically drool when she see him concentrating on his work, lol
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she don't want a bf lah
why do most of the people here feel that people must have a partner
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Hahaha...candiz..what you said occurred to me too and i asked myself why i like some other girl but not her....
In the end, in order to quash this question inside me, i made attempts to know more about her and got my answer.....
To keep it short,there is nothing wrong about her, just that she is not my type i go for...she reminds me of my sister who is 10 yrs younger than me...fun to be around with...i always tease her or poke fun at her....
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hey candiz u piqued my interest... i like smart, pretty girls (wat's new?!) i'm not rich and i blend well with the crowd. Very considerate and mostly serious. Most importantly i'm superficial and very honest, so I value appearance as much as character.... now on behalf of myself, may i request your contribution to the possible start of a beautiful relationship? for a gd cause =)
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Originally posted by Travels:
hey candiz u piqued my interest... i like smart, pretty girls (wat's new?!) i'm not rich and i blend well with the crowd. Very considerate and mostly serious. Most importantly i'm superficial and very honest, so I value appearance as much as character.... now on behalf of myself, may i request your contribution to the possible start of a beautiful relationship? for a gd cause =)
lol... thats funny..
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Originally posted by Travels:
hey candiz u piqued my interest... i like smart, pretty girls (wat's new?!) i'm not rich and i blend well with the crowd. Very considerate and mostly serious. Most importantly i'm superficial and very honest, so I value appearance as much as character.... now on behalf of myself, may i request your contribution to the possible start of a beautiful relationship? for a gd cause =)
lol, thx
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admit it ts.. u are attracted to her..
if not u won't be bother posting here
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Jerry, what does TS mean?
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thread starter....
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I am just being curious, that's all...i have lots of why inside me that needs answering...
Badzmaro already commented i should go to why forums (if it ever exists) for answers...lol
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Anti-socialise.