difficulty in pretty girls to have boyfriend
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This is very puzzling to me...
i have a female colleague who is quiet and meticulous at work. She's also very pretty, in fact, i consider her to be the most pretty in the office but she does not seem attractive to the boys around...me included.
i wonder why....
any ideas, guys?
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give mi her contact can??
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she quiet wat
then never interact and flirt with guys
guys dun
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she quiet wat
then never interact and flirt with guys
guys dun like
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Must met by the correct screw driver then can open it ma.. She is a plus but always kena minus. So when the plus come, she will be sudue! LOL.
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Perhaps she is lacking in the personality.... very boring that sort.
very pretty but very boring.... whats the use. no kick. lol~
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Originally posted by Jianye:
This is very puzzling to me...
i have a female colleague who is quiet and meticulous at work. She's also very pretty, in fact, i consider her to be the most pretty in the office but she does not seem attractive to the boys around...me included.
i wonder why....
any ideas, guys?
Hmm? Which company you working at?
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I cannot say which company though....but what Lorry said might be correct...
In fact, i treat her like my sister at most..nothing else..always needing assurances there is nothing wrong with her....
Sometimes i will joke with her to brighten her up a bit...
Still ok lah, maybe she needs to interact with more people will get better
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Originally posted by Jianye:
I cannot say which company though....but what Lorry said might be correct...
In fact, i treat her like my sister at most..nothing else..always needing assurances there is nothing wrong with her....
Sometimes i will joke with her to brighten her up a bit...
Still ok lah, maybe she needs to interact with more people will get better
Some people need to be left alone cos they simply do not wish to be associated with the unneccessary trouble and burdens that other people may bring upon them.Maybe she feels that she needs to be alone for a while...maybe in this moment in her life?
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Parn, what made you think she needs to be alone for a while?
There is nothing wrong in knowing more people. As for unnecessary trouble, she will have to learn how to deal with them because trouble can come from anywhere, whether she likes it or not....if she needs help, she can ask her friends or colleagues...this is how you learn and grow.
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Originally posted by Jianye:
Parn, what made you think she needs to be alone for a while?
There is nothing wrong in knowing more people. As for unnecessary trouble, she will have to learn how to deal with them because trouble can come from anywhere, whether she likes it or not....if she needs help, she can ask her friends or colleagues...this is how you learn and grow.
more friends = potentially more trouble
cos their trouble becomes your trouble if you are a true friend. agree?
of course you do.
but,
more friends = potentially more joy
that, is also true. maybe she needs less trouble than more joy...hmm
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why do i keep double-posting - my stupid frigging network...
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Originally posted by Jianye:
Parn, what made you think she needs to be alone for a while?
There is nothing wrong in knowing more people. As for unnecessary trouble, she will have to learn how to deal with them because trouble can come from anywhere, whether she likes it or not....if she needs help, she can ask her friends or colleagues...this is how you learn and grow.
why does it sound like you have alr planned her life out for her le -
sorry, another friggin double post...
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Originally posted by Jianye:
Parn, what made you think she needs to be alone for a while?
There is nothing wrong in knowing more people. As for unnecessary trouble, she will have to learn how to deal with them because trouble can come from anywhere, whether she likes it or not....if she needs help, she can ask her friends or colleagues...this is how you learn and grow.
Because I know it so.And I'm sure you're not the first person in her lives to notice this about her, and you can be sure you won't be the last person who will try to "save" her from her situation.
One good example, Not all sex workers required some form of rescuing from guys like you.
Get it? Either you do or you don't. Don't disappoint me.
If you like her, make sure you MUST also learn to LIKE and ENJOY her decision that she has chosen to make....especially decisions such as this.
And if you can't respect that about her, then you be better off dragging your presence far far away from her for her own good and your own good too.
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maybe shes secretly a man ?
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Yes some pretty girls are the cool types.
It is also possible she doesnt consider the men there to be her level.
Another reason is that she might already have a fiance, or she doesnt like to mix work with personal friendships.
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why do people like to save others they deemed in need of saving.. and blame them when they discovered they can't be saved after all
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Meticulous women.... TROUBLE!
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for me i saw it differently.pretty ger set their standard very high and begin chosy .If she lower down her standard a little bit she will notice there are bound to have the right guy around her.as i what i believe.
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is she
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xD... she is not pretty like Betty (above)...She can be compared to a fairy though...
Talk about saving her....hmmm....
She just needs some help, that's all....no need to exaggerate to use the word save
hey...we have forgotten what this thread is about..........
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eh what makes you think that she needs help?
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It is just my prelimnary conclusion, that's all...
who knows, the one needing help could be me...xD