1. He never calls you first.
Sure he calls, but it’s always to return your call. Running after
someone can become an obsession—a disappointing one. Is he playing hard
to get or just not that into you? Here’s how to find out: don’t call
him for a few days. If he calls you, great. If he doesn’t, move on.
2. He won’t plan ahead.
You invite him to a hot party next month, and he hesitates before
giving you his answer. Maybe he’s waiting to see if something better
comes up—a sign he’s not ecstatic about going. If his final answer is
“yes”, then rejoice: all may not be lost. But if it’s “no”, and it’s
his second refusal, cut back on the invitations and rethink the
relationship.
3. He won’t come up for a nightcap.
You’re both coming back from a party, he’s driving you home, and
you ask him if he’d like to come up for a drink. A classic move, with a
classic response: “yes”. But if he surprises you by refusing your
invitation because he has to get up early to take his cat out for a
walk, start asking yourself some questions. If it happens more than
once, it should be clear that you’re just not clicking.
4. He’s vague about getting together again.
At the end of your date, he suggests keeping in touch—and nothing
more specific. It may not be the end of the world, but if he really
wants to see you again, he’ll make the time. Maybe you’ve just started
dating and he fears putting too much pressure on you; or it could be
he’s not so sure he wants to see you again next week. You’ll have the
answer soon enough if he doesn’t call in the days to come, or if he
turns you down the next time you call to ask him out.
5. He doesn’t ask you questions.
How can someone be interested in you if they don’t want to know
what your interests are—or even how you are, or how your day went? If
he rarely ever asks you about your day or what you did last night, it’s
probably because he just doesn’t care. It’s hurtful when the person
you’re attracted to doesn’t show much interest in your life, but better
to realize it as soon as possible and move on.
6. He doesn’t call when he says he will.
He says he’ll call at seven, but your phone only rings at nine—or
even worse, the next day. When you do talk, he gives you lame excuses
for calling so late. You may be telling yourself he’s probably too busy
to call when he said he would, but why make excuses for him? If he’s
interested in you, he’d be thinking of you, which usually leads to
calling when he said he would. But try to keep an open mind, too;
sometimes there’s a legitimate reason for not calling. Trust your
instinct!
7. He hasn’t introduced you to his family.
It’s true that presenting someone you’ve started seeing to your
family is a big step. It’s also true that some people need more time
before they’re ready to bring you home for dinner—if ever. But if he’s
already met your folks and you haven’t met his, he may not be ready to
make your relationship official. If you feel he should introduce you to
the other people in his life, then sit down and discuss your feelings
with him.
8. His friends don’t know you exist.
Introducing you to his family is a big leap forward, and it
usually comes after a long period of getting to know each other.
However, there’s no reason why he shouldn’t introduce you to his
buddies—nowhere near as formal and stressful as presenting you to his
parents. If it’s going well, then he’s probably told them about you, or
even included you in plans with them. If he’s trying to hide your
relationship, ask him why. His response should make it clear what’s
going on—or not.
I guess it is true for girls??
Actually i had a platonic friend who did the opposite...so does that mean he likes me? No it doesn't...i find that all these are subjective and varies with people...
These are just the probable signs mah.
Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Actually i had a platonic friend who did the opposite...so does that mean he likes me? No it doesn't...i find that all these are subjective and varies with people...
These signs are used to gauge interest in the context of dating. I don't think it's applicable to platonic friends. Think means to an end. The ends are different.
Originally posted by seotiblizzard:These are just the probable signs mah.
Life is all about probabilities.
Originally posted by methanol:1. He never calls you first.
Sure he calls, but it’s always to return your call. Running after someone can become an obsession—a disappointing one. Is he playing hard to get or just not that into you? Here’s how to find out: don’t call him for a few days. If he calls you, great. If he doesn’t, move on.
2. He won’t plan ahead.
You invite him to a hot party next month, and he hesitates before giving you his answer. Maybe he’s waiting to see if something better comes up—a sign he’s not ecstatic about going. If his final answer is “yes”, then rejoice: all may not be lost. But if it’s “no”, and it’s his second refusal, cut back on the invitations and rethink the relationship.
3. He won’t come up for a nightcap.
You’re both coming back from a party, he’s driving you home, and you ask him if he’d like to come up for a drink. A classic move, with a classic response: “yes”. But if he surprises you by refusing your invitation because he has to get up early to take his cat out for a walk, start asking yourself some questions. If it happens more than once, it should be clear that you’re just not clicking.
4. He’s vague about getting together again.
At the end of your date, he suggests keeping in touch—and nothing more specific. It may not be the end of the world, but if he really wants to see you again, he’ll make the time. Maybe you’ve just started dating and he fears putting too much pressure on you; or it could be he’s not so sure he wants to see you again next week. You’ll have the answer soon enough if he doesn’t call in the days to come, or if he turns you down the next time you call to ask him out.
5. He doesn’t ask you questions.
How can someone be interested in you if they don’t want to know what your interests are—or even how you are, or how your day went? If he rarely ever asks you about your day or what you did last night, it’s probably because he just doesn’t care. It’s hurtful when the person you’re attracted to doesn’t show much interest in your life, but better to realize it as soon as possible and move on.
6. He doesn’t call when he says he will.
He says he’ll call at seven, but your phone only rings at nine—or even worse, the next day. When you do talk, he gives you lame excuses for calling so late. You may be telling yourself he’s probably too busy to call when he said he would, but why make excuses for him? If he’s interested in you, he’d be thinking of you, which usually leads to calling when he said he would. But try to keep an open mind, too; sometimes there’s a legitimate reason for not calling. Trust your instinct!
7. He hasn’t introduced you to his family.
It’s true that presenting someone you’ve started seeing to your family is a big step. It’s also true that some people need more time before they’re ready to bring you home for dinner—if ever. But if he’s already met your folks and you haven’t met his, he may not be ready to make your relationship official. If you feel he should introduce you to the other people in his life, then sit down and discuss your feelings with him.
8. His friends don’t know you exist.
Introducing you to his family is a big leap forward, and it usually comes after a long period of getting to know each other. However, there’s no reason why he shouldn’t introduce you to his buddies—nowhere near as formal and stressful as presenting you to his parents. If it’s going well, then he’s probably told them about you, or even included you in plans with them. If he’s trying to hide your relationship, ask him why. His response should make it clear what’s going on—or not.
1. He never calls you first.
Dont be cheap and try to fully utilise your free incomming calls mobile plan
2. He won’t plan
ahead.
Cause your a boring biatch who makes him pay all the bills when your out together
3. He won’t come
up for a nightcap.
probably cause you house is a mess, your bed smells like cat piss and you only have cheap local beer in your fridge
4. He’s vague
about getting together again.
Take a shower, your BO is overpowering. Try some mouthwash too.
5. He doesn’t ask
you questions.
How can he ask anything if you just wont shut up?
6. He doesn’t call
when he says he will.
So what? your always late for all your 'dates'
7. He hasn’t
introduced you to his family.
Well he mite if u stopped wearing low cut tube tops, mini skirts and high boots. He doesnt want his parents to think he is dating a prostitue
8. His friends
don’t know you exist.
His friends know bout you. They just dont wana meet u.
Originally posted by skeujin:1. He never calls you first.
Dont be cheap and try to fully utilise your free incomming calls mobile plan
2. He won’t plan ahead.
Cause your a boring biatch who makes him pay all the bills when your out together3. He won’t come up for a nightcap.
probably cause you house is a mess, your bed smells like cat piss and you only have cheap local beer in your fridge4. He’s vague about getting together again.
Take a shower, your BO is overpowering. Try some mouthwash too.5. He doesn’t ask you questions.
How can he ask anything if you just wont shut up?6. He doesn’t call when he says he will.
So what? your always late for all your 'dates'7. He hasn’t introduced you to his family.
Well he mite if u stopped wearing low cut tube tops, mini skirts and high boots. He doesnt want his parents to think he is dating a prostitue8. His friends don’t know you exist.
His friends know bout you. They just dont wana meet u.
this is funny
Originally posted by skeujin:1. He never calls you first.
Dont be cheap and try to fully utilise your free incomming calls mobile plan
2. He won’t plan ahead.
Cause your a boring biatch who makes him pay all the bills when your out together3. He won’t come up for a nightcap.
probably cause you house is a mess, your bed smells like cat piss and you only have cheap local beer in your fridge4. He’s vague about getting together again.
Take a shower, your BO is overpowering. Try some mouthwash too.5. He doesn’t ask you questions.
How can he ask anything if you just wont shut up?6. He doesn’t call when he says he will.
So what? your always late for all your 'dates'7. He hasn’t introduced you to his family.
Well he mite if u stopped wearing low cut tube tops, mini skirts and high boots. He doesnt want his parents to think he is dating a prostitue8. His friends don’t know you exist.
His friends know bout you. They just dont wana meet u.
HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!! . NICE. The truth hurts.
Originally posted by skeujin:1. He never calls you first.
Dont be cheap and try to fully utilise your free incomming calls mobile plan
2. He won’t plan ahead.
Cause your a boring biatch who makes him pay all the bills when your out together3. He won’t come up for a nightcap.
probably cause you house is a mess, your bed smells like cat piss and you only have cheap local beer in your fridge4. He’s vague about getting together again.
Take a shower, your BO is overpowering. Try some mouthwash too.5. He doesn’t ask you questions.
How can he ask anything if you just wont shut up?6. He doesn’t call when he says he will.
So what? your always late for all your 'dates'7. He hasn’t introduced you to his family.
Well he mite if u stopped wearing low cut tube tops, mini skirts and high boots. He doesnt want his parents to think he is dating a prostitue8. His friends don’t know you exist.
His friends know bout you. They just dont wana meet u.
1337 :D
Originally posted by seotiblizzard:These are just the probable signs mah.
i did at least half of those..... in almost exact scenarios
- How he value you against his priorities in life?
- How much he give in to you ?
Those are my contributions.
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:i did at least half of those..... in almost exact scenarios
Hope u didnt lead her on sia.
She, you meant, TS.
Originally posted by seotiblizzard:
Hope u didnt lead her on sia.
i thought i didn't, i barely know her and everyone around know i'm extremely indifferent towards women but my colleague said i did because i never say things clearly
never even called her before in the first place
don't even know her well so it unlikely i
1. call her first.
2. plan ahead anything for a person close to being a stranger
5. ask her questions about anything
7. unlikely to introduce a stranger to my family for no good reason.
6. He doesn’t call when he says he will.(haha i purposely call back at timings like 4 am if somehow she extracts a promise from me to call to avoid talking to her)
8. my friends know she exist.(she's friend's friend actually)
4. He’s vague about getting together again.(somehow she actually extracted some sort of promise to go somewhere fun with her, but we've never went out together before.)
but this one i did
3. come up for a nightcap.(had to deliver something to her because of work, she said she couldn't come to pick up herself) .
One tactic a guy uses to make the girl want him is to woo her and then suddenly back off.
Supposedly drives the girls nuts and confuses them.
But the caveat here is that he must woo her first.
If he doesn't even try before backing off, then he is genuinely not interested.
Originally posted by oldbreadstinks:but this one i did
3. come up for a nightcap.(had to deliver something to her because of work, she said she couldn't come to pick up herself) .
Originally posted by charlize:One tactic a guy uses to make the girl want him is to woo her and then suddenly back off.
Supposedly drives the girls nuts and confuses them.
But the caveat here is that he must woo her first.
If he doesn't even try before backing off, then he is genuinely not interested.
Preying on the human weaknesses. Dirty tactic...
But nevermind, like they say a good fight is never clean.
i think the signs are true, and for girls towards guys very similar as well one lor..
ARGH i hate the truth :(
i find it is very truth.. so when signs happen meaning the relationship is coming to EOL..
Originally posted by Bubblyl3:i find it is very truth.. so when signs happen meaning the relationship is coming to EOL..
those signs happen only when one side openly declare feelings
To some people, whoever make the 1st move lose. Sigh..mind games..
Originally posted by charlize:One tactic a guy uses to make the girl want him is to woo her and then suddenly back off.
Supposedly drives the girls nuts and confuses them.
But the caveat here is that he must woo her first.
If he doesn't even try before backing off, then he is genuinely not interested.
haha, so true. i guess this tactic works on guys too!
aiyo, i hate it when someone is like so nice to me, and then suddenly ignores me. drives me nuts. and makes me say stuff like 'stupid ass****' or 'i hate him'. (but actually i dont, just that i get mad when things dont go my way ie he doesnt call me and stuff)
but how to know if the guy is actually wooing you and just backs off to get you to respond, or if he really dont like you that way (and he somehow realises you feel that way for him)?
but some guys like to be players too even though he's nt interested