handsome guys vs average guys in dating
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first impression counts.
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problem is can u have chemistry if u are facing somone who looks like they just come out from an accident?? so all in all looks do play a major part lol
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the handsome guys get the girl's attention in the first place... A woman wants to look up to a man, both literally and figuratively.
so, first look handsome guys win liao lo since average guys gotta work somewhat harder to stand out in a crowd.
but ultimately, average guys might win in dating, not saying handsome guys won't, but at the end of the day you gotta see who has more "character", then again, physical attraction might spark a start of a relationship but i think it definitely isn't enough to sustain one at all.
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Some ppl may think that looks are superficial and the heart and chemistry is more important. Some ppl may think that if this person cannot even hold a proper conversation, no matter how handsome, he is juz another empty vessel. Some may think that by having a model-lookalike guy as a bf, is like trophy, so be it. Everyone have different perspective to this. What is important is how you truly feel and think.
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I have some friends who looked very average. However, have commanding presence when walking up to girls. And most of the time, they'll have their numbers and dated them a few times.
Another who doesn't have looks, but took many good looking girls to his bed.
Something to ponder about.
Those who doesn't have self esteem or consciousness to groom himself. I suppose no one can help him. Only to lament that better looking guys have higher chances.
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Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Some ppl may think that looks are superficial and the heart and chemistry is more important.
Some ppl may think that if this person cannot even hold a proper conversation, no matter how handsome, he is juz another empty vessel.
Some may think that by having a model-lookalike guy as a bf, is like trophy, so be it.
Everyone have different perspective to this. What is important is how you truly feel and think.
oh yea to add on... some actually want handsome boyfriends to show off nia, practically not for the interest of love.
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Originally posted by wonderamazement:
the handsome guys get the girl's attention in the first place... A woman wants to look up to a man, both literally and figuratively.
so, first look handsome guys win liao lo since average guys gotta work somewhat harder to stand out in a crowd.
but ultimately, average guys might win in dating, not saying handsome guys won't, but at the end of the day you gotta see who has more "character", then again, physical attraction might spark a start of a relationship but i think it definitely isn't enough to sustain one at all.
Agree,
We are all taught to look first spot what is beautiful and pleasing to our eyes. It's natural.
Our taste in beauty differs within individuals, that is why the term good looking also varies due to different perception and preferences.
We all prefer to date someone who has more substance and how he/she looks only isn't it so? The crunch of this issue is - when 'cosmetic' of one is removed. What is left behind.
Cheers