Originally posted by hondapons:
nonono. u get it all wrong. i am not saying to plan 1 fine dinning with her all the time.what i am trying to say is always plan ahead of where to eat and after dinner programme b4 u ask her out.
it will be better mah. or ask her what does she feel like eating or any places she feel like going.
Oh.. ic..
I misunderstood ur words.. haha..
I personally also feels planning is very important..
I cant imagine what a unplanned date will turn out into!!
Originally posted by skeujin:
yah its good to plan but must ask her opinion also mah.
DONT DO THIS - 'saturday, 3pm, orchard mrt, we go eat bk, be there'
DO THIS - 'i suddenly have this craving to have bk this weekend. would you like to company me? we could meet at orchard mrt @ around 3pm'
hahaha
yup yup. totally agree. haha.
u see ar.
Example A:-
boy: hey girl, r u free to meet me for dinner tonight?
girl: yah i should be able to.
boy: eat what huh? or what u feel like eating?
girl: erm, anything bah. what u think?
boy: i also dont know. or we go orchard see got what then we go eat lor?
girl: (mind thinking: si gina why no idea wan call me go eat? ) ok lor.....
boy: then i come pick u up when u finish ur work. bye bye.
Example B:
boy: hey girl r u free to meet me for dinner tonight?
girl: yah i should be able to.
boy: i heard there is a newly open japenese restaurant @ cineleisure. do u wana try it out? they are famous for their japs pizza.
girl: ok. i love japs pizza! (automatically plus point)
boy: i come pick u up after ur work. cya soon.
Originally posted by bluepaperclip:I believe hondapons did not mention anything about bringing the girl to expensive restaurants at all? He just mentioned about planning the whole date in advance.
IMO, planning should be done. A guy should have some backup places in case the girl don't like the 1st choice. Otherwise, go out already then stand around to decide where to go. Waste of time!
ja, the standing around and staring into space is a definite date killer. plus if both of u shy to open mouth...
Originally posted by Ferret:you tok rikes me.
Well, 2 people saying the same thing, means guys better take note!
To me, it is very irritating if a guy don't get it and continues to keep asking you out.
Originally posted by bluepaperclip:Well, 2 people saying the same thing, means guys better take note!
To me, it is very irritating if a guy don't get it and continues to keep asking you out.
for guys, dun pai seh and ask. if u never ask u never know.
Originally posted by skeujin:oh yah dont like gangster n ask like " Coming notch. "
hahaha
wah riaos. tio shoot.
Originally posted by hondapons:
for guys, dun pai seh and ask. if u never ask u never know.
Yeah~
Keep asking dont give up..
Sometimes persistance does pays off in the end..
Originally posted by LC:
Yeah~Keep asking dont give up..
Sometimes persistance does pays off in the end..
be careful. Too persistent, the girl will feel smothered and hate you instead.
Originally posted by LC:Oh mistyblue..
That's already a very daring move..
U took the initiative to date a guy..
Well I guess its good to have done it. than to keep thinking later that I missed the chance. i had no regrets but it does not mean it does not hurt to be rejected and 2 times.
I was glad to actually have done it. But also gald I never dated that guy. He sorta became enclosed in his world and in the past when we met up for group gatherings, he would spike me by telling me who else he dated and then later I heard he got dumped and didn't get back up for some time. So to me this kind of loser actions, I am glad to have saved myself from him. I think its not appropriate action to rub people in that way even if the person used to have a crush on you. Its verging on cruel. I was sad to be treated this way.
There's always been crushes but these guys have their beautiful GF already. So comparing with them, I feel like sh!t. For these cases, no action was taken evne if I really like the guy. I didn't want to be the 3rd party. Besides, I know all these guys don't want me lah. Its obvious that all their action, talk and whatever they do are immature and easy to tell these people make it known that any girl is Ok, just not me. Actually, I was happy to simply stay single and keep a pet. Its a simple life I want. So my "love" life is extremely boring and will not be able to give much advice about dating. Just this once, I asked to date a guy 2 times and failed. So I know how it feels.
Originally posted by Ferret:wah riaos. tio shoot.
bang bang!
actually topic deviate from to cal or sms. but from the replies i guess majority says "CALL"
Originally posted by mistyblue:Well I guess its good to have done it. than to keep thinking later that I missed the chance. i had no regrets but it does not mean it does not hurt to be rejected and 2 times.
I was glad to actually have done it. But also gald I never dated that guy. He sorta became enclosed in his world and in the past when we met up for group gatherings, he would spike me by telling me who else he dated and then later I heard he got dumped and didn't get back up for some time. So to me this kind of loser actions, I am glad to have saved myself from him. I think its not appropriate action to rub people in that way even if the person used to have a crush on you. Its verging on cruel. I was sad to be treated this way.
There's always been crushes but these guys have their beautiful GF already. So comparing with them, I feel like sh!t. For these cases, no action was taken evne if I really like the guy. I didn't want to be the 3rd party. Besides, I know all these guys don't want me lah. Its obvious that all their action, talk and whatever they do are immature and easy to tell these people make it known that any girl is Ok, just not me. Actually, I was happy to simply stay single and keep a pet. Its a simple life I want. So my "love" life is extremely boring and will not be able to give much advice about dating. Just this once, I asked to date a guy 2 times and failed. So I know how it feels.
Sometimes good things are worth waiting for..
Maybe your MR Right hasnt appeared yet..
Originally posted by skeujin:actually topic deviate from to cal or sms. but from the replies i guess majority says "CALL"
Actually up to an individual's preference..
Of cos call is the most traditional but might not be the most useful..
I guess there is no best solution/method but just the most favourable one..
Originally posted by LC:Sometimes good things are worth waiting for..
Maybe your MR Right hasnt appeared yet..
that was many years ago. Anyways, I don't know about mr right but Mr ok I have already liao. Its good enough. I not perfect, he not perfect. :-D
Good to be easily contented, Misty!
Stay mentally & sexually happy all, cheers!