say u have been in bad luck with the opposite sex all these while... from classmates to fren's sisters/brothers, to forumites, to the one u try to pick up from MOS.... even the one working at tenpenis mall oso not interested in u....
would u ever consider joining a dating agency or sign up at a dating site to widen ur social circle?
wat's ur view on ppl who go for such activities?
yaaa...got to one of those foreign bride agencies, pay a "deposit" & "loan" out a bride for a week.........
Originally posted by Combatus:yaaa...got to one of those foreign bride agencies, pay a "deposit" & "loan" out a bride for a week.........
i think u got the wrong idea
u pay and marry the ger
u wanna loan a companion, pls go to social escort agency
tot it was reported in the papers not too long ago.... a 60+yo man took a viet bride for a week & returned her to the agency after the "test-drive".......
yea, dating agency is always the last resort.
i won't see it as a last resort..
maybe take it as knowing more friends..
widen social circle..
i will sign up if need be..
views on this, its normal.. no man is an island..
i have seen couple of fine people out there who doesn't seem to have any luck in terms of "love"... and sometimes they'll make you wonder why are they still single when they are so ready for one - like myself. frens ard me are either married / attached and i'm sort of the last one standing "single". how brilliant.
i have friends suggesting that I go online / dating agencies... I wld but it'll be my last resort.
but still, i hope not.
marriage is a disease!
the reason y i wanna join those dating agencies is because i wanna see how it's like...
Methinks there are other avenues to widen your social circle. Call me narrow-minded, but I tend to see people who head to dating agencies as desperate. Besides, even if you're joining one just to widen your social circle without holding any hopes of finding your life partner, the same cannot be said for all of the people there. It shudders me when I think of the mindset of the people I meet, and it shudders me when I think of why my marriage (if any) will possibly take place (for the sake of getting married?).
i can't say much... as much as im tempted to try it out... bcos of having people thinking that we are "desperate"... that's part of the reason why it's stopping me.
so, what other avenues can we widen our social circles?
think again, i shd probably change a job. my current job is sucking up 80% of my time... not good. *mumbles to herself*
nothing wrong la
but there are people who have this mindset that people who go to these places are on the verge of desperation
i think i go join those also no luck one la. hahaha.
what's wrong with knowing more friends though?
Originally posted by blurvixen:i can't say much... as much as im tempted to try it out... bcos of having people thinking that we are "desperate"... that's part of the reason why it's stopping me.
so, what other avenues can we widen our social circles?
think again, i shd probably change a job. my current job is sucking up 80% of my time... not good. *mumbles to herself*
Even if you're not desperate, there might be people there who are. Yeah it certainly doesn't help to be busy with work most of the time! You can always pick up a new course that offers you opportunities to meet people of the opposite gender e.g. aikido? hehehe. Or how about volunteering (for some excitement, maybe one that takes you overseas to places such as Cambodia)...
Originally posted by rlsh07:what's wrong with knowing more friends though?
There's nothing wrong, but dating agencies make me feel queasy. =|
Originally posted by Cz:There's nothing wrong, but dating agencies make me feel queasy. =|
hmm..... why though? u scared of how ppl will look at you?
Originally posted by rlsh07:
hmm..... why though? u scared of how ppl will look at you?
no ah ahaha.. I've never considered a dating agency. =P
Originally posted by Cz:no ah ahaha.. I've never considered a dating agency. =P
mi too ^high 5
why do i have a feeling fifi wanna go there liao?
Originally posted by rlsh07:
mi too ^high 5
^5
Originally posted by gigabyte14:why do i have a feeling fifi wanna go there liao?
is it her or you though?
I think first seeking feedback from others to find out whether there is anything seriously wrong in terms of appearance, action or speech etc, prior to taking any other measures makes more sense.
Even if he/she were to opt for the agencies, while these negatives are still within them, i believe the result will still be the same.
"More haste, less speed", remember?
Originally posted by gigabyte14:why do i have a feeling fifi wanna go there liao?
same here
i tink the mother nags to her too much about how the relatives or neighbours are married and have childrens & grandchildrens.
den fifi fed-up already and now in search for 1