Why is this so?
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so that she can share my thoughts and my concerns....Originally posted by darkhour:whats the reason for ur desire for someone to b well read? -
i think i answered ur question already..Originally posted by walesa:So when do the feelings come? After you've known a guy for some time? Then again, surely you can't possibly want to know every guy equally well to develop the feelings?
In short, what I'm asking is : what are the elements of the "feelings" that causes a woman to fall for a man?
feelings cannot be described..
and sometimes it developed without we realizing. -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:u like to ask questions hor?
to me, a date is when both parties know that u are going out together to know each other better, and see whether the r/s can go up a higher level.
Without asking the specifics, it's difficult to ascertain and address the key issues at hand. -
wun la...im juz sayin it to explain the statement...when im commited, im commited, i see her as the best n my feelings for her will not b less than my feelings for any other girls...Originally posted by browniebaobao:hopefully someday the girl u like wun say the same thing to u.
but on the other hand...i did tell her before that if she finds a better guy, i wanna b the first to knw
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current affairs?Originally posted by sunny6110:so that she can share my thoughts and my concerns.... -
then ok what...ntg to b ashamed of...Originally posted by sunny6110:so that she can share my thoughts and my concerns.... -
there are always better ple everywhere la...Originally posted by darkhour:wun la...im juz sayin it to explain the statement...when im commited, im commited, i see her as the best n my feelings for her will not b less than my feelings for any other girls...
but on the other hand...i did tell her before that if she finds a better guy, i wanna b the first to knw -
not reali leh...i nvr found anyone as special as she is=p when u reali love a person, ull realise theres no others quite like herOriginally posted by browniebaobao:there are always better ple everywhere la... -
Yep, I would say you've got it right about the difference between men and women.......
Men are more visual (voyeuristic) and direct while women are, well. more indirect.
Men are easily attracted by what they see.
This has got to do with the difference in the neural circuitry of the brains of men and women.
Women are much more intuitive and far more in touch with their senses and feelings. Women have more than twice the number of sensory nerves as compared with men.
I found this out at a seminar I attended a coupla months back!
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in short, it means men are hum sup...
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I m The Prince of Hum Sup~~~
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sweet...the scientific proofOriginally posted by :Yep, I would say you've got it right about the difference between men and women.......
Men are more visual (voyeuristic) and direct while women are, well. more indirect.
Men are easily attracted by what they see.
This has got to do with the difference in the neural circuitry of the brains of men and women.
Women are much more intuitive and far more in touch with their senses and feelings. Women have more than twice the number of sensory nerves as compared with men.
I found this out at a seminar I attended a coupla months back!
but then again...y r guys less attracted to diamonds than girls? -
TS have not met a guy tat like girl thru feelings only...
From wat I noe from my guy friends, many like girls only thru feeling... Probably, u have only met guys tat like girl thru looks...
Actually, if u ask some of gal friend, many give chance to guys tat have looks initially...
It is the same lah... Guys and Gals r the same in nature...
Some look for outer beauty
Some look for inner beauty
U cant classified it between male and female.... -
when u love a person, he/she is special in your eyes..Originally posted by darkhour:not reali leh...i nvr found anyone as special as she is=p when u reali love a person, ull realise theres no others quite like her
but when u see thru a person, u will think differently le. -
yalo yalo..Originally posted by :Yep, I would say you've got it right about the difference between men and women.......
Men are more visual (voyeuristic) and direct while women are, well. more indirect.
Men are easily attracted by what they see.
This has got to do with the difference in the neural circuitry of the brains of men and women.
Women are much more intuitive and far more in touch with their senses and feelings. Women have more than twice the number of sensory nerves as compared with men.
I found this out at a seminar I attended a coupla months back!
while men are visual creatures, women are more likely to be emotional creatures. -
not really leh..Originally posted by darkhour:sweet...the scientific proof
but then again...y r guys less attracted to diamonds than girls?
long long ago advertisements always say 'diamonds are for eternity', 'diamonds are for beautiful women' blah blah... u got see advertisements saying 'diamonds for men' ma?
blame it on the advertisements lor...
if they label it as a women's thing, then man wouldn't think of owning it ba?
but then hor.. i ever saw men wearing big diamond rings or earrings leh..
i think to men, diamond = status. -
got ar.. but i dun have the looks, so cant be like me bcos of looks..Originally posted by ispyyy:TS have not met a guy tat like girl thru feelings only...
From wat I noe from my guy friends, many like girls only thru feeling... Probably, u have only met guys tat like girl thru looks...
Actually, if u ask some of gal friend, many give chance to guys tat have looks initially...
It is the same lah... Guys and Gals r the same in nature...
Some look for outer beauty
Some look for inner beauty
U cant classified it between male and female....
but i also doubt their intention lor..
woo me and stead with me bcos of feelings or lust, or juz simply bcos they are lonely?
my ex ever said 'i feel for you.. i would like to know you better and to let you know more about me' blah blah blah..
but when it comes to break up, he said 'i din feel love'.
so tell me, was it 'feelings' in the first place? -
what do u mean by see thru?u can live ur life with a person but still not understand the person fully leh...Originally posted by browniebaobao:when u love a person, he/she is special in your eyes..
but when u see thru a person, u will think differently le. -
then to women diamond not status meh?Originally posted by browniebaobao:not really leh..
long long ago advertisements always say 'diamonds are for eternity', 'diamonds are for beautiful women' blah blah... u got see advertisements saying 'diamonds for men' ma?
blame it on the advertisements lor...
if they label it as a women's thing, then man wouldn't think of owning it ba?
but then hor.. i ever saw men wearing big diamond rings or earrings leh..
i think to men, diamond = status.
but the thing is, girls haf more desire to look good than guys...thats y they r attracted to diamonds n stuff... -
eh thats good leh...at least u knw when guys like u its not bcoz of looks...in a sense its an advantage oso...afterall, if ur rich n pretty n all, u wun knw whether the guy likes u for those or for who u r...Originally posted by browniebaobao:got ar.. but i dun have the looks, so cant be like me bcos of looks..
but i also doubt their intention lor..
woo me and stead with me bcos of feelings or lust, or juz simply bcos they are lonely?
my ex ever said 'i feel for you.. i would like to know you better and to let you know more about me' blah blah blah..
but when it comes to break up, he said 'i din feel love'.
so tell me, was it 'feelings' in the first place?
hmm some might b for lust bah, trying to get u to bed with them, or juz the thrill of wooing somebody...
well the thing is many ppl say i love u n stuff...but can one reali confirm that he or she will love the person forever?no one can reali say whether they will definitely love a person forever coz no one can tell the future...yet at the same time, if a guy tells u, i dun wanna say i love u coz i cant confirm my love for u is forever...after some time ull think does he even reali wanna b with u?
of course there r those who actuali dun even mean what they say...but i can tell u, feelings n emotions, u can onli tell for what it is now...sometimes feelings r hard to determine.. -
Originally posted by :Yep, I would say you've got it right about the difference between men and women.......
Men are more visual (voyeuristic) and direct while women are, well. more indirect.
Men are easily attracted by what they see.
This has got to do with the difference in the neural circuitry of the brains of men and women.
Women are much more intuitive and far more in touch with their senses and feelings. Women have more than twice the number of sensory nerves as compared with men.
I found this out at a seminar I attended a coupla months back! -
No true for me leh.Originally posted by browniebaobao:When it comes to finding a partner, i realize that men and women got a different approach.
When a man sees a pretty lady who attracts him in some ways, he will want to woo her and see whether things will work out, whether feelings can develop.. In short, date first then talk about feelings.
but a lady usually only consider going on a relationship when she has feelings for that man.. if there's no chemistry/feelings, usually she wun give chance. In short, must have the feeling first before dating/making a confession.
Am I correct to say that?
Why huh? Your views pls.
I only consider a relationship after i have feelings for a certain girl.
And i dont really go for looks one. The current girl i like now is very average looking also. -
'see thru' and 'understand' are 2 different things.Originally posted by darkhour:what do u mean by see thru?u can live ur life with a person but still not understand the person fully leh...
dun ask me why.
wahlew.. -
so what exactly do u mean by see thru?Originally posted by browniebaobao:'see thru' and 'understand' are 2 different things.
dun ask me why.
wahlew..
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diamonds are not status to women ba..Originally posted by darkhour:then to women diamond not status meh?
but the thing is, girls haf more desire to look good than guys...thats y they r attracted to diamonds n stuff...
at least, not to me..
nowadays diamonds are so affordable..
i also have ar..
but diamond from someone i love means something ba.