Why is this so?
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When it comes to finding a partner, i realize that men and women got a different approach.
When a man sees a pretty lady who attracts him in some ways, he will want to woo her and see whether things will work out, whether feelings can develop.. In short, date first then talk about feelings.
but a lady usually only consider going on a relationship when she has feelings for that man.. if there's no chemistry/feelings, usually she wun give chance. In short, must have the feeling first before dating/making a confession.
Am I correct to say that?
Why huh? Your views pls. -
ah bbbOriginally posted by browniebaobao:When it comes to finding a partner, i realize that men and women got a different approach.
When a man sees a pretty lady who attracts him in some ways, he will want to woo her and see whether things will work out, whether feelings can develop.. In short, date first then talk about feelings.
but a lady usually only consider going on a relationship when she has feelings for that man.. if there's no chemistry/feelings, usually she wun give chance. In short, must have the feeling first before dating/making a confession.
Am I correct to say that?
Why huh? Your views pls.
i think quite true leh...lol
i think its because guys tend to lust over ladies first
then if things work out then everybody happy
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y u haben slp?
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good point...i wun deny that i usually woo first then see if feelings develop. but its not like theres completely no feelings. to me i feel that to knw whether there r deeper feelings for that person, ull nid to approach n understand each other at a deeper level. these approaches might b inappropriate to some ppl if our status r still remaining at frens. therefore, dating is a way to understand the other person at a deeper level. certain things, even though ur very close to a person, ull onli share it if u haf an 'official status' with that person.Originally posted by browniebaobao:When it comes to finding a partner, i realize that men and women got a different approach.
When a man sees a pretty lady who attracts him in some ways, he will want to woo her and see whether things will work out, whether feelings can develop.. In short, date first then talk about feelings.
but a lady usually only consider going on a relationship when she has feelings for that man.. if there's no chemistry/feelings, usually she wun give chance. In short, must have the feeling first before dating/making a confession.
Am I correct to say that?
Why huh? Your views pls. -
err....
its like
lust @ first sight VS love accumulated after a period of time. -
quite true.
for me, looks arent everything.
its the chemistry, fate and the comfortness with each other. -
so concerned abt me ar?Originally posted by sunny6110:y u haben slp?
i napped abt 2 hours between 6 to 8 pm..
usually sat nights i sleep after 2am de.. it has become a habit le. -
I will put it in thisway. I will date any woman and regard them as friends, unless feeling is there then i will proceed the next step. I bet some of the gals will have the same mentallity.
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is like tt one ar??
me is got feelings den see de leh.
im a guy -
How to differciate between man's attraction towards a lady and a lady's feeling towards a man.
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but even in the process of dating.. or even after break up.. the guy might think that it's only the dating process.. it din work out.. coz no feelings involved.. therefore the girl was never an official gf.. maybe even if the r/s was 4 yrs long?Originally posted by darkhour:good point...i wun deny that i usually woo first then see if feelings develop. but its not like theres completely no feelings. to me i feel that to knw whether there r deeper feelings for that person, ull nid to approach n understand each other at a deeper level. these approaches might b inappropriate to some ppl if our status r still remaining at frens. therefore, dating is a way to understand the other person at a deeper level. certain things, even though ur very close to a person, ull onli share it if u haf an 'official status' with that person. -
yea loh...attraction can b a form of feelings towards a person oso mah...Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:How to differciate between man's attraction towards a lady and a lady's feeling towards a man. -
What turn woman into stalkers?
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a lady needs time to know and understand a manOriginally posted by Darkness_hacker99:How to differciate between man's attraction towards a lady and a lady's feeling towards a man.
and when she knows that he really cares for her, then love develops..
but when guy wana know/jio girl....
they might see appearance first then talk about understanding them..
in other words, its lust over love. -
will u date a fren?Originally posted by SpeedStar:I will put it in thisway. I will date any woman and regard them as friends, unless feeling is there then i will proceed the next step. I bet some of the gals will have the same mentallity.
it sounds kinda weird to me.
a fren is a fren, a date is a date..
if im going on a date with u, then im considering u as a potential. -
nope that's absolutely untrue, ask any girl and she'll tell you that girls date guys when they're a little interested and sometimes just out of plain curiosity.
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If you are attractive enough on the outside,it can cover any of ur flaws u have inside.
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usuually how do u develop feelings for a girl?Originally posted by ChoCoChips:is like tt one ar??
me is got feelings den see de leh.
im a guy
bcos of her looks? -
u have to ask them.Originally posted by Pion:What turn woman into stalkers? -
wah~!! i'm impressed... ur ans so proper leh...Originally posted by browniebaobao:so concerned abt me ar?
i napped abt 2 hours between 6 to 8 pm..
usually sat nights i sleep after 2am de.. it has become a habit le.
since lidat me oso ans ur post seriously loh...
tell u guys dun go for looks sure bruff de lah... but for me hor, me will oso go for excellent personality de... can or cannot must date den know mah... me oso got date b4 v pretty de... but go out twice lidat nv ask her out le... then suddenly turned v cold towards her... lidat dat means no chemistry lo... bo bian wad...
girls will oso see guys handsome anot... humourous anot... rich and capable better lah... tio bo? -
good question.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:How to differciate between man's attraction towards a lady and a lady's feeling towards a man.
like many honest male forumites here responded.. man's attraction = lust
a lady's feelings = chemistry or emotional feeling. -
there are guys who go for girls with some special characteristic tooOriginally posted by browniebaobao:usuually how do u develop feelings for a girl?
bcos of her looks?
like being kind, helpful, optimistic, blah blah blah....
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hmm...true enough...but i feel that if it lasted so long then he felt that it isnt right...means the guy din reali try to understand her more in the process of dating. when im with a girl, ill try to understand as much as i can, let her open up to me as much as the level at which my feelings for her grow. i realise alot of couples realise how different their goals r in life, or how different their lifestyles r onli after a very long time. for me i like to discuss abt them early, something like bringing forward the arguments that might occur in the future. but in this way i think it allows both of us to think whether this r/s will reali work or not, to avoid future regret.Originally posted by browniebaobao:but even in the process of dating.. or even after break up.. the guy might think that it's only the dating process.. it din work out.. coz no feelings involved.. therefore the girl was never an official gf.. maybe even if the r/s was 4 yrs long? -
that applies to the more open minded girls only la.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:nope that's absolutely untrue, ask any girl and she'll tell you that girls date guys when they're a little interested and sometimes just out of plain curiosity. -
i always answer ur questions in an improper manner meh?Originally posted by sunny6110:wah~!! i'm impressed... ur ans so proper leh...
since lidat me oso ans ur post seriously loh...
tell u guys dun go for looks sure bruff de lah... but for me hor, me will oso go for excellent personality de... can or cannot must date den know mah... me oso got date b4 v pretty de... but go out twice lidat nv ask her out le... then suddenly turned v cold towards her... lidat dat means no chemistry lo... bo bian wad...
girls will oso see guys handsome anot... humourous anot... rich and capable better lah... tio bo?
so let me ask u one q, will u date a girl who dun have good looks? let's say she's short, not so good at dressing, not pretty, fat and not that gentle.. will u go deeper to find out her personality and know her better?