What is more important?
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i really like this girl whom i know and i've fancied her for quite a long period of time. many of my friends think we're rather compatible too and so far her reactions to me have been positive.
however, this year i will take my a'levels, and i am torn between whether i should focus on my studies or attempt to seek a relationship.
i am somewhat worried as to how having a relationship might affect my current life and my ability to focus on my grades. but then again, i have never felt more strongly about a relationship that will most probably work out very beautifully and i am afraid that if i do not move on her now i wont have another chance until NS is over.
and then again it is not impossible to study and maintain a girlfriend but i kinda need some good advice or something to make my feel better about my dilemma.
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why can't u find a balance?
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studies first..no matter wat,cause.study well u get gd job .earn lots.n support ur gf.
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If you think you can make it work (i.e balancing your studies and having a relationship) then go for it... A lvls are in the later half of the year right? If things don't work out after a couple of months then at least you still got time to get back to your studies. Are both of you taking A lvls? Then can study together and all that... so sweet. I wish I could do that with my love interestOriginally posted by iceshiel:i really like this girl whom i know and i've fancied her for quite a long period of time. many of my friends think we're rather compatible too and so far her reactions to me have been positive.
however, this year i will take my a'levels, and i am torn between whether i should focus on my studies or attempt to seek a relationship.
i am somewhat worried as to how having a relationship might affect my current life and my ability to focus on my grades. but then again, i have never felt more strongly about a relationship that will most probably work out very beautifully and i am afraid that if i do not move on her now i wont have another chance until NS is over.
and then again it is not impossible to study and maintain a girlfriend but i kinda need some good advice or something to make my feel better about my dilemma.