Think through before confession or just say it

• babyreyes

  22 May 06, 00:13

  You like someone.
  
  Will u say it out loud ignoring factors (eg: she/he doesnt like you or heart already stolen by someone else)?
  
  Or
  
  You will look at the given situation before voicing out how you feel?
• SingaporeMacross

  22 May 06, 00:16

  calculate your potential losses first. if you have nothing to lose, then go!!
• Ito_^

  22 May 06, 00:16

  look, plan and try to feel for the other person.
  
  can't help it.
• Patrik

  22 May 06, 00:39

  If u really love someone,just let the other party know.
  Dun look back on life and see this missed opportunity.
• Pitot

  22 May 06, 00:43

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  If u really love someone,just let the other party know.
  Dun look back on life and see this missed opportunity.

  +1
• alwaysdisturbed

  22 May 06, 00:55

  Originally posted by SingaporeMacross:

  calculate your potential losses first. if you have nothing to lose, then go!!

  wat losses will there b?
• Patrik

  22 May 06, 13:31

  Originally posted by alwaysdisturbed:

  wat losses will there b?

  Losing her as a friend?
• alwaysdisturbed

  22 May 06, 19:54

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Losing her as a friend?

  hmm...ok
• babyreyes

  23 May 06, 20:31

  haha... how i wish i have the guts to say
  
  oh..hahaha.. .when i was like 15 or 16...i did go straight to the guy and say "WO XI HUAN NI"
  
  Now.. hahaha... i think alot...
  
  depends on certain guys...
  
  there are guys who will flee when u tell them u like them. Yeaps.. Provided they dont like you..of coz.
  
  Im sure all of us ever came to a dilema on whether to confess or not....
  
• moodyuke

  17 Jun 06, 00:01

  Originally posted by babyreyes:

  haha... how i wish i have the guts to say
  
  oh..hahaha.. .when i was like 15 or 16...i did go straight to the guy and say "WO XI HUAN NI"
  
  Now.. hahaha... i think alot...
  
  depends on certain guys...
  
  there are guys who will flee when u tell them u like them. Yeaps.. Provided they dont like you..of coz.
  
  Im sure all of us ever came to a dilema on whether to confess or not....
  

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  true, i agree, it depends alot on the gal and guy..some really avoid u like u have aids and some still regard u as their fren even though they don't have the special liking for u... agree?
• aiglosicicle

  25 Jun 06, 02:09

  i know the best thing is to confess because if i dont i will never know if i my feelings for the person is reciprocated and i might regret later.
  
  but i've never dared to confess
• killstyle

  25 Jun 06, 02:32

  
• moodyuke

  10 Aug 06, 18:11

  [quote]Originally posted by aiglosicicle:
  [b]i know the best thing is to confess because if i dont i will never know if i my feelings for the person is reciprocated and i might regret later.
  
  I agree as I did confess and I know how the person i like feels abt me. It's true, if u nv confess, u'll nv know how s/he feels. It would be a bonus if the person u like also have the same feelings as u do..
  At least after confessing, very likely the 2 of u can be together.
• babyreyes

  11 Aug 06, 11:27

  Originally posted by moodyuke:

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  true, i agree, it depends alot on the gal and guy..some really avoid u like u have aids and some still regard u as their fren even though they don't have the special liking for u... agree?

  yeapyeaps...
  
  thres sure a certain probability tat he or she might avoid u after a confession. Most of the time..pple who avoid are those who are not sure of how to handle everything or afraid tat being with you will give u false hope...
  
  Tats why..sometimes must must think think think whether to say nots.... if u know tat this person upon hearing such things have a high tendency of "siaming" from you after confession....best not to say too soon... Perhaps just drop hints..if negative feedback..i think its better to keep quiet...bite hte bullet n forget?
  
  If got positive feedback from her...of course..its a bonus..the more u shld say out.. Yesh.... Big venture big gain..its a huge risk to say i love you..but the results may be rewarding..
• babyreyes

  11 Aug 06, 11:29

  Originally posted by aiglosicicle:

  i know the best thing is to confess because if i dont i will never know if i my feelings for the person is reciprocated and i might regret later.
  
  but i've never dared to confess

  one day u will have the courage to say out...
  
  but sometimes.. if nd to confess...pls do so... have some courage...sometiems if u dotn say..u will really regret...
  
  the biggest regret is not about losing..its giving up without even trying..
• SpeedStar

  11 Aug 06, 11:39

  I do have experience that after confession the gal just siam me like aids. If kinda of feel bad at first, but after a while will get used to it.
• HolySniper

  14 Aug 06, 22:02

  Originally posted by SpeedStar:

  I do have experience that after confession the gal just siam me like aids. If kinda of feel bad at first, but after a while will get used to it.

  yeah.. kanna this be4..
• rathcycle

  14 Aug 06, 22:08

  Originally posted by killstyle:

  

  What has this got to do with confession,
• alexkusu

  14 Aug 06, 22:20

  sometimes..
  
  guys can get 'brainwashed' when a girl tells him she likes him
  
  even though he dosent know/notice/has feelings for her in the first place