ur judgement on plump cute girls?
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Hanor! Hanor!!Originally posted by browniebaobao:clone more of u!
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Haha, even some of my guy frens here exhibit the behavior of preferring slim girls as compared to girls who are chubby...
There was once, I saw one of them asking girls to take pictures with them, and then only want to take pic with the slim girl, and ask the girl who was chubbier (who was standing beside the slim girl) to not come into the pic.
The worst thing is that, those guys are not really that good-looking themselves, and then still dare to hiam this, hiam that...then ask why they are still single! -
Originally posted by rainee:Haha, even some of my guy frens here exhibit the behavior of preferring slim girls as compared to girls who are chubby...
There was once, I saw one of them asking girls to take pictures with them, and then only want to take pic with the slim girl, and ask the girl who was chubbier (who was standing beside the slim girl) to not come into the pic.
The worst thing is that, those guys are not really that good-looking themselves, and then still dare to hiam this, hiam that...then ask why they are still single! 
Oh my gosh!! That is downright mean!!
And nobody in the entire group spoke up for the poor chubby girl?! -
thats the problem with guys..they arent very good themself..they hiam this ,that..Originally posted by rainee:Haha, even some of my guy frens here exhibit the behavior of preferring slim girls as compared to girls who are chubby...
There was once, I saw one of them asking girls to take pictures with them, and then only want to take pic with the slim girl, and ask the girl who was chubbier (who was standing beside the slim girl) to not come into the pic.
The worst thing is that, those guys are not really that good-looking themselves, and then still dare to hiam this, hiam that...then ask why they are still single!
for me...i dont give a damn..
but of cos if the girl..is totally...not normal..then no choice..have to aviod abit
u know..
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n btw..most of the pple i meet here before..arent very slim also..
who cares
porky fat fat also
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Eh... I don't think you don't give a damn leh... I think you actually give it A LOTTA LOTTA damn!Originally posted by SGpork:thats the problem with guys..they arent very good themself..they hiam this ,that..
for me...i dont give a damn..
but of cos if the girl..is totally...not normal..then no choice..have to aviod abit
u know.. 
And what are you trying to say? That plump girls are 'not normal'??!! -
aiya... all fair in love n lust lah....
if the guy wana judge a gal by her size...
im sure one day he will be judge by a gal cause of his 'size'... -
no...im just quiet..n shyOriginally posted by Rhonda:Eh... I don't think you don't give a damn leh... I think you actually give it A LOTTA LOTTA damn!
And what are you trying to say? That plump girls are 'not normal'??!! 
i have alot plump frens!
but of cos..if they are slimmer..it will be better..
no...u misunderstood me..aww maybe i phrase it wrongly..my english just pass only -
I heard you loud and clear leh, xiao di! You said plump girls can only be friends nia, and your girlfriend must be slim one.Originally posted by SGpork:no...im just quiet..n shy
i have alot plump frens!
but of cos..if they are slimmer..it will be better..
no...u misunderstood me..aww maybe i phrase it wrongly..my english just pass only 
Xiao Di, I know you're shy and quiet, but I looked at you sitting quietly in the corner during our dim sum outing and I kinda felt like a da jie to you like that... but I never expected you to be ... like that, you know, not deep-deep one!
Oh well, ren2 bu4 ke3 mao4 xiang4! -
Originally posted by skeujin:aiya... all fair in love n lust lah....
if the guy wana judge a gal by her size...
im sure one day he will be judge by a gal cause of his 'size'...
Yeah, ah!! Afterall, Size DOES matter!! -
seriously i duno..
cuz plump girls never come after me b4,while i never chase after plump girls before..
somehow in my classes or group.i never got into the same class as any..either they were plump in sec 1..suddenly sec 4 become slim liao.. -
Boh geh geh.Originally posted by Rhonda:Mai ge ge!
You commented that you have your 'standards' one, which means that you will NEVER ever choose a girl who is not slim by your standards, right?
Which means, no matter how nice, how wonderful a character she has, as long as she doesn't meet your 'standards', she's got no hope liao! (I'm so easy to size up meh? - We should meet up someday )
I commented that i have my standards in general aspects. Which doesn't mean i will NEVER EVER choose a girl who is not slim.
There are two standards...
Scouting standards and Friendship Standards.
That was why when i read my post in page 1....yah mah. I did add that it really depends largely on myself and her. Yes. it depends.
If it works...it just works. In relationship and Love, it's hard to predict.
I couldn't just rule out the possiblity of accepting a girl who is big just because it's the only reason...
I know for others, they can.
However, i have to admit that the first impression is important. If she could attract me just by her presence and character displayed.
Why not get to know her more and make sensible thoughts out of it?
Then again...thread starter mentioned specifically -
Originally posted by yoghurt:
wad's ur judgement on a short cute girl with huge eyes, long straight hair, perfect complexion, looks like a doll but is plump? would u date her?
My answer is YES! And she has hope! And hopefully we are mutually interested.
I'm quite sensitive when it comes to dates...mainly because of the implication. Usually dates will be sign of interest already(ahh...old fashion me). So, i seldom go on 'dates', but funny thing is. I always encourage me friends to go on dates and check things out.
So far, i haven't have experience liking a plump girl. And it's not about her size...just didn't happen to find one who attracts me.
I've rejected slim pretty girls as well...simply because they couldn't pass the chemistry and communication department.
Looks are secondary compared to maturity and character.
But how a guy can overcome it largely depends on himself.
In looks and size, it's in the matter of time people change and lose what they have held on so tightly.
These things will fade...
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Honestly, the most important question i would ask before engaging in dates or relationship is -
How long can this relationship last even when worst case scenario arises.
eg. if she have had an accident and her face is scarred and she's unable to walk.
It would be a test for me, in fact...i did make that decision to continue a relationship which i know will hurt me in the end. I was given two options and i chose her. But the 4 years worth didn't work out...unfortunately.
To me...if i dared to consider the worst case in my relationship and i would keep to it**
Don't see what's the obstacle with weight.
BUT!!! It all depends...whether slim or plump....it all depends.
**i'm not sure if i dared to promise that again, that thought was only meant for that particular girl. HMm.....
I hope i've clarified my stand?
domo! -
**shake head*Originally posted by rainee:Haha, even some of my guy frens here exhibit the behavior of preferring slim girls as compared to girls who are chubby...
There was once, I saw one of them asking girls to take pictures with them, and then only want to take pic with the slim girl, and ask the girl who was chubbier (who was standing beside the slim girl) to not come into the pic.
The worst thing is that, those guys are not really that good-looking themselves, and then still dare to hiam this, hiam that...then ask why they are still single!
Reminds me of my secondary school days. -
thanks for some replies and some crap kinda cute huh u guys..
even with the chemistry and the oh-so-sincere things tat the guy says bout not takin her size into consideration, if the relationship goes on for quite some time and then comes a hot slim pretty babe, dun tell me the guys has no temptations. see if the gf is already slim and hot, lesser chances for the guy to slip away.
so.......... any ways to lose weight fast?! as in diet plans. exercise is way outta league for me. no time.
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send a replacement.
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Very simple.Originally posted by yoghurt:thanks for some replies and some crap kinda cute huh u guys..
even with the chemistry and the oh-so-sincere things tat the guy says bout not takin her size into consideration, if the relationship goes on for quite some time and then comes a hot slim pretty babe, dun tell me the guys has no temptations. see if the gf is already slim and hot, lesser chances for the guy to slip away.
so.......... any ways to lose weight fast?! as in diet plans. exercise is way outta league for me. no time.
Either you trust your guy...or trust yourself.
Otherwise, this question could never be answered by anyone.
Exercise out of league? hmm...the best effort is out. Then poh pianz. -
so wad's 2nd best way to lose weight???????????
starve ah -
there isn't a BEST way to lose weight.
either u lose it through exercise, or through slimming programmes.
starving is a faster way of losing your health. -
save money go for lipo loh
me fat my SO also fat fat
so complement each other loh...
i think it's a matter of finding someone who appreciate u..at least i can eat n eat without worrying that he will mind or something
i cannot stand those guys who so picky on woman..say they fat, ugly
then they themselves look like shit -
i was trying to figure out what was SO...
kept thinking it A$$hole...
then i though somemore and finally i figured it out. -
Actually this thread reminds me of SCMI (simply cannot make it) guys "hiaming" about this and that about girls. CMI but wants 'top of the range' girls and than wonder why they cannot get a gf.
Reminds me of a ex-PT delivery guy who worked for my company.
He's 23
Can't get a proper job and working as a delivery assistant
Skinny like a string bean, with no build whatsoever
Not handsome, lots of acne
Now that is not a problem if he has a nice personality as I know guys who look like the above but still have a sweet gf because of their personality.
Anyway back to my ex-colleague....he had the cheek to tell me one day that it's amazing that I have a bf because I'm so fat
and if I actually considered going for Marie France treatments Almost slapped him there and then
Btw, I may not have the figure of super models but I certainly do not think I'm fat! Especially to the point where I need to consider getting help -
Fully agree
Fugly guys please STFUOriginally posted by BufPuf:i cannot stand those guys who so picky on woman..say they fat, ugly
then they themselves look like shit -
there was this one guy...went out with him to a club...then i tot i was pretty dressed up at that time...but he dare to kpkb said I am not dressed up enough!
Then I told him to shut up and look at himself in the mirror (he was dressed even worse than me) -
lol
that means i cannot dream about karena already ah -
kopiosatu, who's karena ah??