why no advice for gal on guys??
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i for one would love to know how to crack those tough nuts... guys always clam up, or play dead. how do we even start to understand them?
tell me, what makes guys tick?
i'm a shy gal. so how does a shy gal let the guy she likes know she likes him without head on approach?? -
give non-verbal hints if u want no head-on approach.
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Originally posted by starblue:i for one would love to know how to crack those tough nuts... guys always clam up, or play dead. how do we even start to understand them?
tell me, what makes guys tick?
i'm a shy gal. so how does a shy gal let the guy she likes know she likes him without head on approach??
show him more intrest...compliment on every good deed...
usually its hard to let a guy know that a gal likes him...unless that gal is very expressive
~+Cheers+~
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er.. wad if they're not even friends to begin with. you know, like campus mates??? go to same lectures that kind...
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jump onto him butt firstOriginally posted by starblue:i for one would love to know how to crack those tough nuts... guys always clam up, or play dead. how do we even start to understand them?
tell me, what makes guys tick?
i'm a shy gal. so how does a shy gal let the guy she likes know she likes him without head on approach??
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Originally posted by hisoka:jump onto him butt first
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well...then u take the first step and say hi when he is alone la...nothing hurt if u want a new friend ma...Originally posted by starblue:er.. wad if they're not even friends to begin with. you know, like campus mates??? go to same lectures that kind...
sometimes..i meet new friends this way
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thanks ah....Originally posted by hisoka:jump onto him butt first
got no solid advice??? haiz.... that may explain the readership... no offence. -
Campus mates is a bit hard.. unless you guys have common friends or got the chance to do prject together..
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don go direct to him i suggest get to know his friends then after that know him frm his friends.Originally posted by starblue:thanks ah....
got no solid advice??? haiz.... that may explain the readership... no offence.
I will teach u a Gemini's method
I read a book abt horoscope today and on the girl's part it mentioned something.
To approach him b sure u tries to find excuses to stay close with him as much as u can so that he can feel your presence and at the same time u can genarate feelings with him 2!
Try to joke ard with him and b talkative! So that he will thinks that u are cute and good to get along in a comm way
Try the jacky wu style jokes.
DO funny or cute actions infront of him.
Like falling down or something u can think of.
And u might wanna try the "shameless joke"
I mean when he is ard try to crack joke like hey don u think i look like someone or wat.
Normally that dude would replied with "omg or a vomit kidding sound.
Well the main objective is to develop feelings with him.
DOn b shy ya! jus talk and talk and talk!
DOn laugh 2 loud if not u will scare the shit ouutta him!
Maintain some feminie..
Try to do stuff to attract his attention to u like as mention above the jacky wu's style!
Lastly i have got this phrases for u:
"re jiu sheng qing!" : Feelings will develop as time passes
"qing bu zhi jing!: : falling in love without knowing!
lastly...
"shi ni de jiu she ni de, bu shi ni de jiu bu shi ni de!" : wats yours will b yours,, wats not will never b yours!
Sorry one last one:
"mian qiang shi mei you xing fu de!" : There will not b any happiness if u force something.
Enjoy! ^_6 -
u which uni one ? if ntu maybe i can offer some helpOriginally posted by starblue:thanks ah....
got no solid advice??? haiz.... that may explain the readership... no offence. -
Imo, those guys you described are jaded in life, most likely losing faith and confidence in themselves, thinking that they aren't good enough for any girl?Originally posted by starblue:i for one would love to know how to crack those tough nuts... guys always clam up, or play dead. how do we even start to understand them?
tell me, what makes guys tick?
i'm a shy gal. so how does a shy gal let the guy she likes know she likes him without head on approach??
Ok I anyhow say one. -
Eh, why you post here huh?
Your own forum not good enough? -
Ok guys jokes aside.
Let contribute good advises.
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tell you to speak to him le..........Originally posted by starblue:thanks ah....
got no solid advice??? haiz.... that may explain the readership... no offence.
or get mutual friends.............. -
Originally posted by starblue:i for one would love to know how to crack those tough nuts... guys always clam up, or play dead. how do we even start to understand them?
tell me, what makes guys tick?
i'm a shy gal. so how does a shy gal let the guy she likes know she likes him without head on approach??
Just curious, does it have anything related to your thread Art of seduction in - Starblue heaven Forum?
I believe i've already mentioned that there is no generic fool proof ways to handle guys in general. But of cos, guys have many weaknesses if you've observed enough in AA as well as real life.
If you'll reveal more infomation of what your love interest is roughly like. We can be more confident of providing efficent advice.
It's not a profession we're holding, we are keen to help those who are helpless and we believe we could help rather than just simply 'reply a post/thread'. The most recent incident i had was to have talked to a friend regarding courtship and certain ways to tick a girl.
3-4hrs was spent on discussing about the details...but unfortunately, my friend did not execute it.
That explains. Information is one thing.
Just like a business proposal/plan, or engineer mechanic blueprint, architechture's design , defence Ops plan, Chef's secret recipe.
Execution is another.
To see it come into life. We need to do something about it - work.
General advice begets general outcome
When you execute a custom detailed advice, you'll see the returns in a different dimension.
P.S : Most of the articles here are not male-based...read carefully. If you're good enough, you will be able to flip it around and make those points you've learnt and work on it.
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I think the first step is you need to find courage within yourself, and to become his friend. Get to know him better, and see if he is really what you think he is. Then, you can proceed to the second step, which is to let him see you as someone more than a friend. That is the tricky part actually. You don't want to be too "chummy" with him until he starts to consider you as one of his close guy frens (the mistake I made), but yet you also want him to be comfortable with you.
So before that tricky part gets in, get to know him first. And that will require courage on your part. I think we have all given you that advice long ago in SH, and I suspect you know what you have to do to get him to notice you, but you fear too much to make a move? -
Ahhh, now i believe i'm getting the right drift? (feel free to correct me if i'm wrongOriginally posted by rainee:I think the first step is you need to find courage within yourself, and to become his friend. Get to know him better, and see if he is really what you think he is. Then, you can proceed to the second step, which is to let him see you as someone more than a friend. That is the tricky part actually. You don't want to be too "chummy" with him until he starts to consider you as one of his close guy frens (the mistake I made), but yet you also want him to be comfortable with you.
So before that tricky part gets in, get to know him first. And that will require courage on your part. I think we have all given you that advice long ago in SH, and I suspect you know what you have to do to get him to notice you, but you fear too much to make a move? )
Starblue wants to consolidate advices and info. But she lacks confidence and courage to approach, because the risk of failure is to much to take?
From what i understand from Rainee's post. There is no establishment of interaction - does he know you even exist?
Somehow you're looking from afar, being a admirer. Hmm...then i suppose 'whatever that makes a guy tick' will not work on him.
Rainee is right.
You got to establish your presence...so now...it seems like it's not the guys who is the hard nut to crack... somewhat it's the other way round.
What's stopping you?
________ Rainee: You ok? Your thingy settled?
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Starpuppy,Originally posted by StarPuppy: show him more intrest...compliment on every good deed...
usually its hard to let a guy know that a gal likes him...unless that gal is very expressive
~+Cheers+~
StarPuppy
i taught you before le.
Always establish facts first.
No facts = inaccurate output = waste of time and resource = miscommunication Remember ah
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haiz... i suppose rainee jie is right. i DO have to talk to him huh??? see the thing is... i'm a coward. lolz... i dun even know how to strike a conversation with him. i mean, i strike conversations very easily with just any other person i meet in tutorials and stuff. but well, HE is not just any other person. somehow when it comes to him, i sort of.... clam up when actually i wanna talk to him. lolz...Originally posted by M©+square:Ahhh, now i believe i'm getting the right drift? (feel free to correct me if i'm wrong )
Starblue wants to consolidate advices and info. But she lacks confidence and courage to approach, because the risk of failure is to much to take?
From what i understand from Rainee's post. There is no establishment of interaction - does he know you even exist?
Somehow you're looking from afar, being a admirer. Hmm...then i suppose 'whatever that makes a guy tick' will not work on him.
Rainee is right.
You got to establish your presence...so now...it seems like it's not the guys who is the hard nut to crack... somewhat it's the other way round.
What's stopping you?
________ Rainee: You ok? Your thingy settled?
Cheers
i know for sure he knows me. heck, he even knows my name. last time in the lecture i sat in the row in front of him, alone. and he called me by name to ask some... er.... questions. about test dates lah, handing me a flyer about ice skating lah, passing me cough sweets when i was coughing violently in class. that sort of thing. it was very occasional. but somehow.... nothing much happened besides those things. maybe i screwed up. maybe i should have made use of those opportunities to talk more. but.... i was just too... er.... shocked that he spoke to me.
and now, i dun go lectures alone le. so i dun think he'll even initiate conversations with me. and i dunno how to even begin talking to him. haiz....
wads worse is, i think he has a gf. so maybe deep down i dun wan to know him as a friend yet to prevent me from liking him even more if i do... lolz... i know, i'm pathetic.... -
if he already has a gf and not expressing his interest in u, u should go find someone else lahOriginally posted by starblue:wads worse is, i think he has a gf. so maybe deep down i dun wan to know him as a friend yet to prevent me from liking him even more if i do... lolz... i know, i'm pathetic.... -
well, you think he has a gf. No confirmation from his part yet right? So you need to find out for yourself whether this is true or not. Do it for your own sake as well, so that you can have a peace of mindOriginally posted by starblue:haiz... i suppose rainee jie is right. i DO have to talk to him huh??? see the thing is... i'm a coward. lolz... i dun even know how to strike a conversation with him. i mean, i strike conversations very easily with just any other person i meet in tutorials and stuff. but well, HE is not just any other person. somehow when it comes to him, i sort of.... clam up when actually i wanna talk to him. lolz...
i know for sure he knows me. heck, he even knows my name. last time in the lecture i sat in the row in front of him, alone. and he called me by name to ask some... er.... questions. about test dates lah, handing me a flyer about ice skating lah, passing me cough sweets when i was coughing violently in class. that sort of thing. it was very occasional. but somehow.... nothing much happened besides those things. maybe i screwed up. maybe i should have made use of those opportunities to talk more. but.... i was just too... er.... shocked that he spoke to me.
and now, i dun go lectures alone le. so i dun think he'll even initiate conversations with me. and i dunno how to even begin talking to him. haiz....
wads worse is, i think he has a gf. so maybe deep down i dun wan to know him as a friend yet to prevent me from liking him even more if i do... lolz... i know, i'm pathetic....
Take a little step at a time...since he has talked to you before, maybe this time, instead of waiting for him to initiate conversation with you, you can talk to him first? -
Seems like almost 1 sided love........ u seems to be having bit 'liking' on him.... it's not tough.... can dun tok also ... but might be 'dangerous'.... unless u willing to take e risk.... ! life is short.... enjoy fullest..... it's ok if he got gf.... ever got it then never rite? agree?
CheersOriginally posted by starblue:haiz... i suppose rainee jie is right. i DO have to talk to him huh??? see the thing is... i'm a coward. lolz... i dun even know how to strike a conversation with him. i mean, i strike conversations very easily with just any other person i meet in tutorials and stuff. but well, HE is not just any other person. somehow when it comes to him, i sort of.... clam up when actually i wanna talk to him. lolz...
i know for sure he knows me. heck, he even knows my name. last time in the lecture i sat in the row in front of him, alone. and he called me by name to ask some... er.... questions. about test dates lah, handing me a flyer about ice skating lah, passing me cough sweets when i was coughing violently in class. that sort of thing. it was very occasional. but somehow.... nothing much happened besides those things. maybe i screwed up. maybe i should have made use of those opportunities to talk more. but.... i was just too... er.... shocked that he spoke to me.
and now, i dun go lectures alone le. so i dun think he'll even initiate conversations with me. and i dunno how to even begin talking to him. haiz....
wads worse is, i think he has a gf. so maybe deep down i dun wan to know him as a friend yet to prevent me from liking him even more if i do... lolz... i know, i'm pathetic.... -
ask him if he has gf... if no then ask him if he wants one... if he already has gf, ask him if he wants another one... if all the way no, then it's likely he's not interested.
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Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:ask him if he has gf... if no then ask him if he wants one... if he already has gf, ask him if he wants another one... if all the way no, then it's likely he's not interested.