Attracting the wrong crowd...
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How shld i start?
Hmmx.. Ok..ever since i can remember...I seem to attract younger guys. *Shakes her head*
And i dont really know why...Perhaps i look really young?
Ok..I ever dated younger guys. My exs are younger than me. Not very big gap. Most is like a yr. Then i felt like a mother towards them. >.<
And the guys who are after me are younger than me. lolx. one is like 3 yrs younger than me...
Is there any ways which i can attract a more "mature" crowd? Its not that the younger ones are childish. I just dont feel right about dating someone younger. lolx. -
u very old meh?
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how old r u?
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CAN... YOU CAN ATTRACT ME!! <Originally posted by babyreyes: How shld i start?
Hmmx.. Ok..ever since i can remember...I seem to attract younger guys. *Shakes her head*
And i dont really know why...Perhaps i look really young?
Ok..I ever dated younger guys. My exs are younger than me. Not very big gap. Most is like a yr. Then i felt like a mother towards them. >.<
And the guys who are after me are younger than me. lolx. one is like 3 yrs younger than me...
Is there any ways which i can attract a more "mature" crowd? Its not that the younger ones are childish. I just dont feel right about dating someone younger. lolx.> -
simple..just go to bar and start a thread..
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From your last thread, your character and gestures you're used to will likely attract younger groups.
Because it gives the 'kiddy cute' look.
Yes you're attracting the wrong crowd.
There'll be someone who'll appreciate your style.
But are you doing it exactly like a teenager? If you are, then you really got to check yourself le.
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To attract a more matured crowd, try to dress more business like, or some dress code that express your maturity level. If you dress like ah lian, chances are you're marketing yourself to the ah bengs.
Secondly, it's your actions and attitude. Be serious and discipline. You'll lose alot of fun but chances are, only serious enough people will finally mix with you.
My opinions may be skewed, but it works for me. Most of my gf are a few years older than me, and so far, my current gf is 8 yrs my senior. One thing though, I think as much as we look up to older people, it's the younger ones that normally brings more fun and joy to the relationship. My gf is very serious and business type of lady, very hard to talk cock and have a light time with her. You win some, you lose some. -
hehe..im 22 and look like 16... =XOriginally posted by M©+square:From your last thread, your character and gestures you're used to will likely attract younger groups.
Because it gives the 'kiddy cute' look.
Yes you're attracting the wrong crowd.
There'll be someone who'll appreciate your style.
But are you doing it exactly like a teenager? If you are, then you really got to check yourself le.
Cheers
haix....even if wear formal oso look young.
Unless i wear make up wear dress then do up my hair... =_=
i play pranks often. Joke ard often. tease frens......enjoy making pple smile...
Maybe becoz i like cute stuff? But i tot all girls like cute stuff......
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hehe..dont wan... >.<Originally posted by stellazio:simple..just go to bar and start a thread.. -
no wonder la.. a lot of guys are buaya at 16 year old gals i dunno why also. AS for your case i tell u better don associate with guys that often unless your close friends la..Originally posted by babyreyes:hehe..im 22 and look like 16... =X
haix....even if wear formal oso look young.
Unless i wear make up wear dress then do up my hair... =_=
i play pranks often. Joke ard often. tease frens......enjoy making pple smile...
Maybe becoz i like cute stuff? But i tot all girls like cute stuff......
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Hmm...yah, i also look young. Auntie, uncle, even part-timers in 7-11 don't want to sell me Cigerette until i've showed them my IC.Originally posted by babyreyes:hehe..im 22 and look like 16... =X
haix....even if wear formal oso look young.
Unless i wear make up wear dress then do up my hair... =_=
i play pranks often. Joke ard often. tease frens......enjoy making pple smile...
Maybe becoz i like cute stuff? But i tot all girls like cute stuff......
sigh..
You seemed to have a huge social circle who is younger than you?
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maybe is the way you talk, the topics u discuss?
if some gal act like child, get excited and screams about childish things, etc then maybe attract younger guys. But if gal is composed, demure, pays attention to the way she carries herself, then maybe higher chance to attract older guys. -
me studying nw..so always wearing tee n jeans...Originally posted by DailyFreeGames.com:To attract a more matured crowd, try to dress more business like, or some dress code that express your maturity level. If you dress like ah lian, chances are you're marketing yourself to the ah bengs.
Secondly, it's your actions and attitude. Be serious and discipline. You'll lose alot of fun but chances are, only serious enough people will finally mix with you.
My opinions may be skewed, but it works for me. Most of my gf are a few years older than me, and so far, my current gf is 8 yrs my senior. One thing though, I think as much as we look up to older people, it's the younger ones that normally brings more fun and joy to the relationship. My gf is very serious and business type of lady, very hard to talk cock and have a light time with her. You win some, you lose some.
discipline.... ok....will not coo to cute stuff >.<
yea..somehow agree with u.....we tend to look up to older pple...but the younger onces are more fun n energetic..hehe...
8 yrs...woah....8 yrs...WOAH.... maybe u in ur twenties. hmmx....
but can not joke ard..abit difficult for me.... hmmx..... dont know wat ur girl is like...but she gives me the feeling that she holds some managerial posts. hehe...
can imagine when u show her a rubber cutey face..she will whack u with a hammer.. hmmx..
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sorry those gals are jus attracting attenttion which is irritatingOriginally posted by alexkusu:maybe is the way you talk, the topics u discuss?
if some gal act like child, get excited and screams about childish things, etc then maybe attract younger guys. But if gal is composed, demure, pays attention to the way she carries herself, then maybe higher chance to attract older guys. -
Hee hee....good one.Originally posted by alexkusu:maybe is the way you talk, the topics u discuss?
if some gal act like child, get excited and screams about childish things, etc then maybe attract younger guys. But if gal is composed, demure, pays attention to the way she carries herself, then maybe higher chance to attract older guys.
But do you know a gal can do all the Childish things but yet attracts older guys. ::signal::
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yes, perhaps is the guy's fatherly instinct reacting to that behaviourOriginally posted by M©+square:Hee hee....good one.
But do you know a gal can do all the Childish things but yet attracts older guys. ::signal::
Cheers But I think ah...if acting composed, cultured, demure, etc.. its like saying to little guys "Hei, ur out of my league, get lost" and vice versa. I could be wrong tho. -
hmmx...fair share of older n younger guys..Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...yah, i also look young. Auntie, uncle, even part-timers in 7-11 don't want to sell me Cigerette until i've showed them my IC.
You seemed to have a huge social circle who is younger than you?
Cheers
just tat those who are older are mainly attached...
i know those younger guys through my frens...so they are my frens' fren lors.
And we met during birthday parties ... perhaps they arent aware of my age. >.< -
i usually joke ard.....serious talking comes during serious things like meetings and projects.. =XOriginally posted by alexkusu:maybe is the way you talk, the topics u discuss?
if some gal act like child, get excited and screams about childish things, etc then maybe attract younger guys. But if gal is composed, demure, pays attention to the way she carries herself, then maybe higher chance to attract older guys.
composed is wat? keep quiet all the time? Look serious? How i carry myself...hmmz..i carry myself with my feet... -.- hai.... ok.....a lot of rules to follow liao.. -
Everything and anything can happen.Originally posted by alexkusu:yes, perhaps is the guy's fatherly instinct reacting to that behaviour But I think ah...if acting composed, cultured, demure, etc.. its like saying to little guys "Hei, ur out of my league, get lost" and vice versa. I could be wrong tho.
Ultimately, the lady have got to harness the power of selection.
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don look at guys for more then 5 secsOriginally posted by babyreyes:i usually joke ard.....serious talking comes during serious things like meetings and projects.. =X
composed is wat? keep quiet all the time? Look serious? How i carry myself...hmmz..i carry myself with my feet... -.- hai.... ok.....a lot of rules to follow liao.. -
dress more professionally and dun act cute
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hmm....gimmie one day. I'll consolidate info catered for you.Originally posted by babyreyes:i usually joke ard.....serious talking comes during serious things like meetings and projects.. =X
composed is wat? keep quiet all the time? Look serious? How i carry myself...hmmz..i carry myself with my feet... -.- hai.... ok.....a lot of rules to follow liao..
How's are things between your friend and you?
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composed as in keep your emotions in check. Dont go all emotional or over react over small things, etc. Hmm..hard to describe. Lets say someone ask you a question, instead of your usual way of answering quickly in an excited voice, you can pause for a sec or two, look the person straight in the eye and answer in a slow, controlled tone...(older guys will go wow! she is pretty mature!Originally posted by babyreyes:i usually joke ard.....serious talking comes during serious things like meetings and projects.. =X
composed is wat? keep quiet all the time? Look serious? How i carry myself...hmmz..i carry myself with my feet... -.- hai.... ok.....a lot of rules to follow liao.. )... something like that.
also, i think if u joke around too much, it may be hard for people to take you seriously...and vice versa. Thats why when 'serious' people try to tell jokes, its hard to laugh. -
there's a 25 year old guy who has a 23yr old neighbour. His neighbour married his dad last year. Btw, the guy n girl grew up together.Originally posted by M©+square:Everything and anything can happen.
Ultimately, the lady have got to harness the power of selection.
Cheers
this the power of selection ur talkin about? -
Age hard to guage whether or not that person deemed so called mature or jus plain Joe.
A guy in his thirties could be well, a hardcore game console player. kinda like after work, hit the game kinda thing. While on the other hand, there could be young chaps who read, watch and pick up stuffs here and there... perhaps, so much so that this person have more topics or verbal exhanges.
Age aside, speak and learn abt the person more. Is there something u like abt him thru the way he brings abt himself in the conversation? Issit ALL abt him oni OR he brings u into the conversation as well... etc.