maturity
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a girl jst said tt i was not mature..
and she was the same age at mi...younger if u count the months...17 now...
okie, obvious, it had been in my mind since haiz....
how can i change that..??
i wanna change tt!!
wat do girls look 4 ..for maturity..?? -
u might have done sth immature.Originally posted by yuntian:a girl jst said tt i was not mature..
and she was the same age at mi...younger if u count the months...17 now...
okie, obvious, it had been in my mind since haiz....
how can i change that..??
i wanna change tt!!
wat do girls look 4 ..for maturity..??
a piece of advice:think before u act next time.ponder deeply the repercussions brought upon u once u react in a specific way to a situation.then act accordingly.
think.execute action.simple?
do not take her words to heart too much.guess what?she has actually helped u to improve.juz rmb the way u reacted that made her comment in such a way.don't act in such a way the next time.
take every obstacle as a stepping stone to success,ya?
PS:maybe this thread would receive better responses if placed in Aunt Agony instead?
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I'm not an AA go-er so i'd just talk here until MC locks the thread or something. What you're providing is really vague and doesn't give us any insight into your life. Nobody can really provide you good advice like this. I think maturity has a lot to do with detecting felt needs of a person and answering them. Perhaps you're not a very emotionally-sensitive person and you've passed on a few incidents whereby she needed your shoulder, needed someone to talk to or to take the 'initiative' to get closer.
I think that not many girls will come tell you this kinda thing unless she's pretty comfortable with you. If it really was a casual remark punctuated with laughs (teasing you) then i think there's not much to look into or worry about. -
well she's a realli close friend..who i realli feel at ease with and wanna...go further wif...Originally posted by Impulze:I'm not an AA go-er so i'd just talk here until MC locks the thread or something. What you're providing is really vague and doesn't give us any insight into your life. Nobody can really provide you good advice like this. I think maturity has a lot to do with detecting felt needs of a person and answering them. Perhaps you're not a very emotionally-sensitive person and you've passed on a few incidents whereby she needed your shoulder, needed someone to talk to or to take the 'initiative' to get closer.
I think that not many girls will come tell you this kinda thing unless she's pretty comfortable with you. If it really was a casual remark punctuated with laughs (teasing you) then i think there's not much to look into or worry about.
and she sort of hints tt...'im to childish' for her...
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I always like to counter yuko's kind of question with this,
Does having better response equates more accurate advices?
Does it mean by having more replies in thread, we can derive that the thread is well counselled?
In one sense, this thread is a suitable topic here.
But of cos, if threadstarter or any user prefer to reply in AA. I've no problem with that.
The objective is to help, comfort and provide possible solutions to advisee.
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Just in case if anyone thinks i'm trying to pick on AA.
No i'm not attacking AA.
In my very first thread of DA - 16 April 2004 , i've stated clearly ::
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Ok. Time to sleep le.
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