My girlfriend is weird...........
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My situation is very similar to your one. Later then I found out that she's very pro to her idols (which is a korean boy band). -.-"
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U got to understand at times, girls do have mood swing.
Just try to best to give in to her if u can.
Even you cant give in at certain circumstances, try to control your temper and never raise voice at her.
Find an opportunity to talk to her and discover the source problem she faced.
2 strong headed persons can never work things up. -
Chin up ya...Originally posted by cyrusv:Hey i have this girlfren of reaching a year......we started after 1/2 a year of sadness i experienced after i broke up with a girl i loved.She and i were friends since sec 1 and she hinted me that she had a crush on me on that fateful day..........and boom!!!... we started....she was a nice girl at the start but as time goes by i found out that she have mood swings very often, hurting me in the heart very often....whats wrong with her??why is she doing this to me when she really love me?
What caused her mood swings? Is it PMS related? Under medication??
Actually all of us, whether guy or girl, do get mood swings once in awhile. If hers is quite frequent, somethign must have triggered it.
Anyting bothering her lately? Or maybe something is bothering her that she didnt voice out yet.
Sit down with her. Hvae a nice talk with her. Tell her that U realised that recently she been moody and its hurting u to see her like that. Ask if anything is bothering her. If she say no, then u say if htere is anything u be here. Even if u cant help her to solve things, u did be her listening ears. -
Welcome to reality my fren. Girls do have mood swings. Bear with it. Unless of course it gets to the point where she bashes u up or sth.
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Have you noticed her body language during her moodswings? How about the occasions preluding to those swings? Does she swing "towards" you (ie complain and groan to you) or swing "away" from you? (self-explanatoblah)
Either way, no sweat bro. It happens to the best of us
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u are v silly, why would a girl don love u when she have mood swings? and u really have to understand them.Originally posted by cyrusv:Hey i have this girlfren of reaching a year......we started after 1/2 a year of sadness i experienced after i broke up with a girl i loved.She and i were friends since sec 1 and she hinted me that she had a crush on me on that fateful day..........and boom!!!... we started....she was a nice girl at the start but as time goes by i found out that she have mood swings very often, hurting me in the heart very often....whats wrong with her??why is she doing this to me when she really love me? -
girls, love to use mood-swing as a weapon. sadly, but i believe a matured enough girl would know how to control the watever symtoms. and not be controlled by it.
being a girl doesn't mean the right to treat their bfs unreasonably. If u love ur bf, control ur mood. not he compromise to every little PMS u have. till u know how to control it, else u are not making a good gf.
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100% agreement to mach
We should start an anti-emo-girls union!! J/k If girls don't have emotional irregularities and act like men i think they somewhat lose part of their attraction factor. After all, there's a reason why we never label guys 'cute' or 'adorable' in a very complimentry kinda way. You will also nv see a guy pouting (i'm gettin goosepimples writing this) either. It's just one of the mystery of girls that makes them so special.
On the other hand though, things are always best in moderation. Excessive moodswings to 'test' or 'destress upon' the poor guy isn't the most ideal situation in a bgr yea?
Regards