love..

• madman_me

  31 Jan 06, 20:13

  does loving a person need a reason? is it loving a person because i need her?
• M©+square

  31 Jan 06, 20:17

  Originally posted by madman_me:

  does loving a person need a reason? is it loving a person because i need her?

  First question.
  
  Sometimes it takes awhile to know the reason.
  Some don't need reason, some do.
  
  Second question.
  
  Love comes in many forms and reason. Yeah, why not?
  
  In short. There is no definition in general, but each person in their mind have their own expectations.
  
  Let's see if others can continue this discussion.
  
  Cheers
• madman_me

  31 Jan 06, 20:35

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  First question.
  
  Sometimes it takes awhile to know the reason.
  Some don't need reason, some do.
  
  Second question.
  
  Love comes in many forms and reason. Yeah, why not?
  
  In short. There is no definition in general, but each person in their mind have their own expectations.
  
  Let's see if others can continue this discussion.
  
  Cheers

  i see.. understand what u trying to say.. it depends on the point of view.. thanks ya.. hope to see more reply in this discussion..
• Patrik

  31 Jan 06, 20:41

  Love her for a reason.
  And let the reason be love.
• M©+square

  31 Jan 06, 20:42

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Love her for a reason.
  And let the reason be love.

  Hey Patrik!
  Ho sey boh....happy CNY.
• so_what

  31 Jan 06, 21:07

  Originally posted by madman_me:

  does loving a person need a reason? is it loving a person because i need her?

  Actually should be --> u LOVE her so u NEED her
• Patrik

  31 Jan 06, 21:19

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Hey Patrik!
  Ho sey boh....happy CNY.

  Eh..hi...hor sey hor sey..
  Happy ncy to u too.
  
• madman_me

  31 Jan 06, 22:13

  Originally posted by Patrik:

  Love her for a reason.
  And let the reason be love.

  actually this i dun quite understand.. hmmm quite chim i must say..
  
  sometime im thinking to tell her that i love because i need her.. or is it should be the oppt way? need her because i love her?
• hopy

  31 Jan 06, 22:15

  Originally posted by madman_me:

  actually this i dun quite understand.. hmmm quite chim i must say..
  
  sometime im thinking to tell her that i love because i need her.. or is it should be the oppt way? need her because i love her?

  let it be both ways..
• FBI

  31 Jan 06, 22:15

  Originally posted by madman_me:

  does loving a person need a reason? is it loving a person because i need her?

  slowly u will discover your reasons somehow
• M©+square

  31 Jan 06, 22:16

  Originally posted by madman_me:

  actually this i dun quite understand.. hmmm quite chim i must say..
  
  sometime im thinking to tell her that i love because i need her.. or is it should be the oppt way? need her because i love her?

  It's a song from Boyzone - Love me for a reason.
  
  Go listen.
• madman_me

  31 Jan 06, 23:08

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  It's a song from Boyzone - Love me for a reason.
  
  Go listen.

  cant expect me to dl from e net now right? what if i get caught by e mata?
• Impulze

  1 Feb 06, 00:10

  Does love need a reason? Many choose to persue a reason to sieve out infatuation from love. If you've no cause for such a thing and you think the attraction's gonna be pretty permanent cos it's based on permanent, not temporal things such as just plain crushed by looks etc then you needn't find a reason.
  
  If you are juz lookin for a fling and some colour to your life i'd say nay. (hey that rhymes! )
• Ito_^

  1 Feb 06, 00:22

  yeah. of cuz, it helps secure our mudune mind.. we're not living in a drama you know. but these reasons can be created.
• madman_me

  1 Feb 06, 07:04

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  yeah. of cuz, it helps secure our mudune mind.. we're not living in a drama you know. but these reasons can be created.

  so far haven really been asked why i love her.. yet everytime i wanna tell her the reason i cant really think of any.. i mean love means love and i cant find any word to go with it..
  
  must be thanks to my poor ang mo not good..
• Impulze

  1 Feb 06, 13:24

  I dont think so haha..
  
  Let's start with this lar:
  What do you have in common with her?
  How far does she fit your bill of the ideal girl?
  Why else do you have feelings for her?
  
  (25marks essay. 1.5hrs to finish)
• rainee

  1 Feb 06, 13:31

  Read my signature
  
  Sometimes the reasons are as boundless as the Universe, yet at times, they are a mystery to us
• Heartzzz

  1 Feb 06, 13:41

  Originally posted by madman_me:

  does loving a person need a reason? is it loving a person because i need her?

  Love is love...Whether u need reasons or not...If you don't love him/her, u got one thousand reasons also no use...cause it not true....
  
  However, i always believe that love is shown, not said.... As simple as that...
• Impulze

  1 Feb 06, 16:32

  Wow so many ppl here advocating unspoken, unexplained, pure love. Puts my pragmatism to shame
  
  I think madman_me, you prolly have enough food for thought here. Subscribing to any of our schools of thought isn't a compulsion though so don't feel that some or all of us are speaking the or facets of the ultimate truth about love. I think love is a pretty personal thing - and i think having asked this question you must've given it some thought beforehand too, though you might be confused or in very trying circumstances right now, or just plain seeking to understand something. (A sagittarius trademark -__-||)
  
  Why don't you share your beliefs with us too?
• Ito_^

  1 Feb 06, 16:48

  Originally posted by Impulze:

  Wow so many ppl here advocating unspoken, unexplained, pure love. Puts my pragmatism to shame

  i wonder.
• madman_me

  1 Feb 06, 18:16

  Originally posted by Heartzzz:

  Love is love...Whether u need reasons or not...If you don't love him/her, u got one thousand reasons also no use...cause it not true....
  
  However, i always believe that love is shown, not said.... As simple as that...

  from that kinda understand what u all trying to say.. i mean actually im not trying to be funny over here but just wonder loving a person need a reason cause i cant find e reason yet i know i love her.. i know it's weird but.. hmm ya its weird..
• cheese_cake

  1 Mar 06, 17:14

  Originally posted by madman_me:

  does loving a person need a reason? is it loving a person because i need her?

  Don't love me for fun, girl
  Let me be the one, girl
  Love me for a reason,
  Let the reason be love
  
• Mao x 2

  1 Mar 06, 17:15

  Originally posted by cheese_cake:

  Don't love me for fun, girl
  Let me be the one, girl
  Love me for a reason,
  Let the reason be love
  

  oh...boyzone..
• kopiosatu

  2 Mar 06, 00:28

  i love to try and keep myself occupied
  i love being a workaholic
  i love trying to be good at what i love
  but too bad i don't love any girl
• BÃ¥seline

  2 Mar 06, 00:36

  Originally posted by madman_me:

  does loving a person need a reason?

  In short... you answered that qn literally.