conversation topics...
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having problems having a good conversation with her...
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lets do dogstyle this year!
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No problems with small talks?
Only problems with quality convo?
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lets talk about sex.
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what you mean small talks and quality convo?Originally posted by M©+square:No problems with small talks?
Only problems with quality convo?
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got talk about p0rn. haha . she asked if i surf those anot. haha.Originally posted by dragg:lets talk about sex. -
My friend, you know me.Originally posted by bladez87:what you mean small talks and quality convo?
i called her yesterday and silence was in the air.
When you need help, you need to supply info so that we can zero in to your needs and know what exactly you need.
Generalisation is not good here, like groping in the dark though it's morning!
Small talks like:
Have you caught Memoirs of Geisha?
>she: Nope, why?
Oh, i thought it might be a interesting movie. Would you like to watch it together?
>she: Let you know again, i'm quite busy these days.
Okie.....
She: I just went to westmall to get a pair of shoes.
You: Why do you need to go westmall when you're staying in Ang Mo Kio? So far away right?
She: Cos that's the only outlet that have my size and the specific design i want lor.
You: Okie....
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M© battery low liao...
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The general elections is the next big thing.
How about the worker's party's manifesto, oh those are really interesting to converse about. -
Originally posted by ditzy:The general elections is the next big thing. How about the worker's party's manifesto, oh those are really interesting to converse about. You very ka chiao one leh.
M© pokes ditzy.
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examples of quality convo leh?
ok la. hmm
we really like have so few topics to talk about.
like i will start off by asking how is her day, her lessons, then she went westmall ytd with her friends. what they did there.
then she will ask back how my presentation, my lesson and the test we had. stuff like this lor. very short very brief.
then silence liao. dont know what else to ask her. or talk about. initially i thought we will have alot to talk about since we both like to play video games. but it turned out otherwise.
i really hope to be with her. she is fun, nice, cute, smart shares my interests. so i desperately need help with convo topics, arbo later deter her in accepting me because we got nothing to talk about. -
If this is the case.Originally posted by bladez87:examples of quality convo leh?
ok la. hmm
we really like have so few topics to talk about.
like i will start off by asking how is her day, her lessons, then she went westmall ytd with her friends. what they did there.
then she will ask back how my presentation, my lesson and the test we had. stuff like this lor. very short very brief.
then silence liao. dont know what else to ask her. or talk about. initially i thought we will have alot to talk about since we both like to play video games. but it turned out otherwise.
i really hope to be with her. she is fun, nice, cute, smart shares my interests. so i desperately need help with convo topics, arbo later deter her in accepting me because we got nothing to talk about.
I've got to be frank on my opinion.
I feel that you should establish mutual communication before you get into relationship with her.
Otherwise there will spell problems in the future when there are comm breakdowns. Further stress and heartaches.
But of cos, nothing is stopping you. So i'll let the rest guide you thru.
Hope you'll do fine.
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what you mean mutual communication?like talk about what? i dont know...if i knew i wouldnt be seeking help liao! haha. ya. i also know that lack of communications will speak trouble, thats why i seeking help now. in fact, in more times than 1, i actually thought it is a bad idea to go into a r.s with her since we like nothing to talk about...Originally posted by M©+square:If this is the case.
I've got to be frank on my opinion.
I feel that you should establish mutual communication before you get into relationship with her.
Otherwise there will spell problems in the future when there are comm breakdowns. Further stress and heartaches.
But of cos, nothing is stopping you. So i'll let the rest guide you thru.
Hope you'll do fine.
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Do you have problems conversing with this girl only, or also with other female friends that you liked in the past ? How about acquaintences?
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hur hur.Originally posted by choco B:Do you have problems conversing with this girl only, or also with other female friends that you liked in the past ? How about acquaintences?
Let the lady do the talking.
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not sure leh. conversing in what topics? hmm. i hardly socialize with people. thats why i lost at conversation topics. and about the past, ya i did have trouble conversation with my ex.Originally posted by choco B:Do you have problems conversing with this girl only, or also with other female friends that you liked in the past ? How about acquaintences?
the rest is like very shallow topics like, what you doing? the teasing and poking fun at each other. -
Oh that trick. Get her to talk about herself, then you just listen?Originally posted by M©+square:hur hur.
Let the lady do the talking.
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Go and check the dictionary on the definition of Conversation.Originally posted by bladez87:not sure leh. conversing in what topics? hmm. i hardly socialize with people. thats why i lost at conversation topics. and about the past, ya i did have trouble conversation with my ex.
the rest is like very shallow topics like, what you doing? the teasing and poking fun at each other.
Hai.....
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NOOOoooooh!Originally posted by choco B:Oh that trick. Get her to talk about herself, then you just listen?
I mean let you do the talking, since i'm a guy, he may not 'understand' what i'm trying to say as much as you do.
Duhhh.....hahaha
Apa get her to talk about herself? I'm not referring to that la.
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i tried...it worked...only for a while...Originally posted by choco B:Oh that trick. Get her to talk about herself, then you just listen? -
Oh so the problem is you lah.
Why can't you talk about your common interests?
To have conversation content, you must first KNOW some stuff so that you can discuss about them. Read up, observe more, watch the news.
To sound interesting, BE interesting. Take up hobbies and share your activities with her. Socialise more. A routine of school-home-game-school-home-game is boring & very limited. You have to get out more & do more , gain experiences.
People love to talk about people. B|tch about your friend/idiot classmate. Then let her b|tch about that her nazi teacher. There's nothing more bonding than a b|tch fest. But don't overdo this cos you may sound cranky and old.Originally posted by bladez87:not sure leh. conversing in what topics? hmm. i hardly socialize with people. thats why i lost at conversation topics. and about the past, ya i did have trouble conversation with my ex.
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she also no talk about all these. haha. she not those b|tching type. hmm i shall take up your suggestions. thanks choco bOriginally posted by choco B:Oh so the problem is you lah.
Why can't you talk about your common interests?
To have conversation content, you must first KNOW some stuff so that you can discuss about them. Read up, observe more, watch the news.
To sound interesting, BE interesting. Take up hobbies and share your activities with her. Socialise more. A routine of school-home-game-school-home-game is boring & very limited. You have to get out more & do more , gain experiences.
People love to talk about people. B|tch about your friend/idiot classmate. Then let her b|tch about that her nazi teacher. There's nothing more bonding than a b|tch fest. But don't overdo this cos you may sound cranky and old. -
These are not for her to talk about
These are things for YOU to do.
And please, all women b|tch. If she never b|tch to you, it means she's not comfortable around you.Originally posted by bladez87:she also no talk about all these. haha. she not those b|tching type. hmm i shall take up your suggestions. thanks choco b -
things for me to do? ook...dont know leh. havent really see or heard her b|tching before. she very happy go lucky de...maybe ya lor not comfotable with meOriginally posted by choco B:These are not for her to talk about
These are things for YOU to do.
And please, all women b|tch. If she never b|tch to you, it means she's not comfortable around you. -
I have one note.Originally posted by choco B:These are not for her to talk about
These are things for YOU to do.
And please, all women b|tch. If she never b|tch to you, it means she's not comfortable around you.
This boy is clueless and dense.
But he's cute.
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hey i am 19 man!ya but i am clueless and dense...
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http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=175453