Thought: Too Much to Say, Don't want to Say.
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but don't say inside abit guilty one leh..especially when it comes to scandals..
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I don't blame anyone for being insensitive in my thread.
For my thoughts, i take it seriously.
I hope after this post, people who reads or respond to this thread will take my post seriously.
But i won't kill you if you want to goof around here.
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Originally posted by M©+square:
ok i don't mean the scandals part..but really its quite hard to bottle up your feelings and words that you wana express especially in times of high emotions..
[b]I don't blame anyone for being insensitive in my thread.
For my thoughts, i take it seriously.
I hope after this post, people who reads or respond to this thread will take my post seriously.
Cheers
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but if its just casual talk den maybe can keep to urself.. -
It's a dbl edged act really.Originally posted by stellazio:ok i don't mean the scandals part..but really its quite hard to bottle up your feelings and words that you wana express especially in times of high emotions..
but if its just casual talk den maybe can keep to urself..
It's all up to how much you swallow regrets for not saying certain things.
Another end.
It's how much you can bear if you've said it and caused irrevocable results.
Of cos, in this context. It's all negetive.
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i think u need to be explicit whether you need to be taken seriously
its hard for others to know
and its unfair for them to 'must know'
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I made it fair from the green highlighted post onwards.Originally posted by laurence82:i think u need to be explicit whether you need to be taken seriously
its hard for others to know
and its unfair for them to 'must know'
you know -
Hmm...I think some of it is really very true....i thought i'm the only one who feels this way...Some times when u leave a person is not because u don't love him/her anymore le, but because u love him/her too much....HaizzzOriginally posted by M©+square:Have anyone experienced this feeling?
When you have so much to tell the other party you love.
But talking so much will also end up in the same state.
Might as well don't say and let the situation drift in a natural state.
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Sometimes it's not because you don't love your bf/gf, but things have become so bad that you'd prefer to end, in the state where the relationship have bitter-sweet ending rather than to habour hurts and bitterness.
Sometimes it's not excuses. But because there are too much problems.
Staying on will only tax and drain one another down and out.
Sometimes, some people don't understand why breakup and they accused the other party.
Sometimes, one releases his/her hand because he/she loves you too much. He knows that he must let go while he could before he lose control of himself and held too tightly...till the r/s dies.
Sometimes. Breaking up is love.
Sometimes. Ending a relationship is a learning process.
Sometimes. The person comes back. Treasure him/her with your past lessons and live wisely.
MC's pre-thoughts to thoughts.
Note: Incomplete, to be continued.
Some people including myself will also refute this idea as a escapist or covering up the ugly sight of breakup or taking the easy route, way out. -
ya.. sometimes, if u really love the other party.. must learn to let go ba? since the other party feels tt its the best way out for him/her...Originally posted by M©+square:Have anyone experienced this feeling?
When you have so much to tell the other party you love.
But talking so much will also end up in the same state.
Might as well don't say and let the situation drift in a natural state.
_________
Sometimes it's not because you don't love your bf/gf, but things have become so bad that you'd prefer to end, in the state where the relationship have bitter-sweet ending rather than to habour hurts and bitterness.
Sometimes it's not excuses. But because there are too much problems.
Staying on will only tax and drain one another down and out.
Sometimes, some people don't understand why breakup and they accused the other party.
Sometimes, one releases his/her hand because he/she loves you too much. He knows that he must let go while he could before he lose control of himself and held too tightly...till the r/s dies.
Sometimes. Breaking up is love.
Sometimes. Ending a relationship is a learning process.
Sometimes. The person comes back. Treasure him/her with your past lessons and live wisely.
MC's pre-thoughts to thoughts.
Note: Incomplete, to be continued.
Some people including myself will also refute this idea as a escapist or covering up the ugly sight of breakup or taking the easy route, way out.
love is not to have tt someone... but to know tt he/she is happy even if it means u r out of the pic...
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Yes.... Sometimes just whatever it takes.... Cruel now... Isn't it.....?Originally posted by M©+square:Have anyone experienced this feeling?
When you have so much to tell the other party you love.
But talking so much will also end up in the same state.
Might as well don't say and let the situation drift in a natural state.
_________
Sometimes it's not because you don't love your bf/gf, but things have become so bad that you'd prefer to end, in the state where the relationship have bitter-sweet ending rather than to habour hurts and bitterness.
Sometimes it's not excuses. But because there are too much problems.
Staying on will only tax and drain one another down and out.
Sometimes, some people don't understand why breakup and they accused the other party.
Sometimes, one releases his/her hand because he/she loves you too much. He knows that he must let go while he could before he lose control of himself and held too tightly...till the r/s dies.
Sometimes. Breaking up is love.
Sometimes. Ending a relationship is a learning process.
Sometimes. The person comes back. Treasure him/her with your past lessons and live wisely.
MC's pre-thoughts to thoughts.
Note: Incomplete, to be continued.
Some people including myself will also refute this idea as a escapist or covering up the ugly sight of breakup or taking the easy route, way out. -
hmm... yah.Originally posted by M©+square:Have anyone experienced this feeling?
When you have so much to tell the other party you love.
But talking so much will also end up in the same state.
Might as well don't say and let the situation drift in a natural state.
_________
Sometimes it's not because you don't love your bf/gf, but things have become so bad that you'd prefer to end, in the state where the relationship have bitter-sweet ending rather than to habour hurts and bitterness.
Sometimes it's not excuses. But because there are too much problems.
Staying on will only tax and drain one another down and out.
Sometimes, some people don't understand why breakup and they accused the other party.
Sometimes, one releases his/her hand because he/she loves you too much. He knows that he must let go while he could before he lose control of himself and held too tightly...till the r/s dies.
Sometimes. Breaking up is love.
Sometimes. Ending a relationship is a learning process.
Sometimes. The person comes back. Treasure him/her with your past lessons and live wisely. [/size]
sometimes things has been said too many times and still its the same situation... come to a point, there is no need to say anymore...
u still have alot to tell him but better leave it as that
breakup doesn't always mean you don't love the person anymore...
many factors... sometimes it's best to leave while the r/s is still amiable, drag on longer will jus turn nasty... no point
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Thing with me is...when I leave, it can't be amiable anymore...I cannot be friends with my exes...Originally posted by 1bigmess:hmm... yah.
sometimes things has been said too many times and still its the same situation... come to a point, there is no need to say anymore...
u still have alot to tell him but better leave it as that
breakup doesn't always mean you don't love the person anymore...
many factors... sometimes it's best to leave while the r/s is still amiable, drag on longer will jus turn nasty... no point 
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Don't have to stay as friends....but at least leave with good memories.Originally posted by rainee:Thing with me is...when I leave, it can't be amiable anymore...I cannot be friends with my exes...
That was what i meant by taking a course of action at your disadvantage knowing that it will cushion the intented impact/damage. -
not frens lah, but at least not nasty...Originally posted by rainee:Thing with me is...when I leave, it can't be amiable anymore...I cannot be friends with my exes...
we r all adults, I believe in a r/s both parties are "responsible" (this does not equate to "blame") so hao lai hao san
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M© looks at 1bigmess's post and his.....Originally posted by 1bigmess:not frens lah, but at least not nasty...
we r all adults, I believe in a r/s both parties are "responsible" (this does not equate to "blame") so hao lai hao san
no diff. -
dun even know if it has turned nasty or not...
tink he hates me now...
i am at fault oso ba...so cannot blame. -
Originally posted by rainee:dun even know if it has turned nasty or not...
tink he hates me now...
i am at fault oso ba...so cannot blame.
Somehow i know who that guy is....
Hai.... -
I think this quote is very true...Originally posted by M©+square: Somehow i know who that guy is....
Hai....
Meeting the right person at the right time brings eternal joy.
Meeting the wrong person at the right time only causes you pain.
Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time can be ridiculously foolish.
Meeting the right person at the wrong time you can only sigh
Got it from this recording, which is also part of the Music Diary album.
http://s57.yousendit.com/d.aspx?id=0XU15KCD6VMWM06MTPSM0PVNOE
Thanks to harryryan for helping me translate the recording above
Maybe I just met him at the wrong time ba.. -
to hate...one must first love.... to love deep enuff so u can hate.Originally posted by rainee:dun even know if it has turned nasty or not...
tink he hates me now...
i am at fault oso ba...so cannot blame.
Emotions is a funny thing.... 10 years down e road..... u will not know y u hate that person...n hate can become love again....
open ur heart.... to love n hate
cos they r one.... they cannot exist without e other -
Maybe....Originally posted by rainee:I think this quote is very true...
Meeting the right person at the right time brings eternal joy.
Meeting the wrong person at the right time only causes you pain.
Meeting the wrong person at the wrong time can be ridiculously foolish.
Meeting the right person at the wrong time you can only sigh
Got it from this recording, which is also part of the Music Diary album.
http://s57.yousendit.com/d.aspx?id=0XU15KCD6VMWM06MTPSM0PVNOE
Thanks to harryryan for helping me translate the recording above
Maybe I just met him at the wrong time ba..
Time is just one element....
Just one...of many. -
Sometimes breaking up is the only way to let the person know how much you truely mean to him, but it's too late to turn back the clock
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If the rationale of hate is Love. Then it's valid.Originally posted by harryryan:to hate...one must first love.... to love deep enuff so u can hate.
Emotions is a funny thing.... 10 years down e road..... u will not know y u hate that person...n hate can become love again....
open ur heart.... to love n hate
cos they r one.... they cannot exist without e other
If hate appears out of ego or other reasons other than love....then it's questionable. Nice going harryryan -
Whole nite never sleep... now in schol ibrary staring at a big blue screen..... think i will reach Nirvana very soon.Originally posted by M©+square:If the rationale of hate is Love. Then it's valid.
If hate appears out of ego or other reasons other than love....then it's questionable. Nice going harryryan
E world was empty...empty handed we all came... empty handed we shall leave...
why do we still cling onto something we will never own.....
A minute can be eternity with e rite person
A lifetime might not be enuff holding "u"
I think i just had too much coffee...lolx -
I can understand how u feel..coz i ever experienced it..
I love him too much then.. he was drifting away from me.. I din want to end the r/s but I was too tired to continue.. worn out physically and emotionally. I let him go.. coz there's nothing else that I could do..when he only wanted to run away from me.
That feeling of sadness.. was like all the leaves fell down from the tree... not bcos the leaves din want to hang on.. it's bcos they were too weak to do so.. very sad.
"Ye zi de li qu shi feng de zhui qiu, hai shi shu de bu wan liu ne?" -
at 1st, i tot this is a thread where we can say out how we feel.......