Read from a book [ title cannot remember ..]
dating is like flying a kite ..
i.e. the guy is like the kite, whereas the gal is the one flying the kite
1. the gal pulls the strings
2. the guy is like the kite, need encouragement and "support"
3. the gal need to pull-n-release at the right moments to keep the kite flying high
4. if the gal cuts the string, then the kite falls ..
5. the kites could get entangles with other kites (i.e. when strings get entangled)
that is all, folks