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theres something wrong w my forums page -
1) the search function box is always openmore »2) under the logout button theres a box tt says 'auto login disabled * premier membership'3) my reply box the one tt we type replies is always open no matter what thread i go into..4) n my reply quote edit box is always open under the gear looking thing
weird. isit jus me?Edited by skeujin 08 Oct `08, 6:38PM
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only cayenne powder >.<
not any other types of chili powders >.<plus, those red flakes make the food look so erm...pretty >.<
hahaha.but really, i like it better when i see the red flakes on the food i eat.
the only problem is that, i'll add a bit. but it'll not be enough. so i'll add a bit more. but it STILL isnt enough. so i keep on adding a bit by a bit until i get impatient. and dump a whole lot in the dish. and then it'll be too hot. DAMNIT!
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am so cheesed off.....
Called mom after I've been researching about studio apartments for above 55.
sis did say she does not mind contributing some of her cpf for mom, and I figured I could also throw in some CPF and cash afterr the sale of the flat.
Then I called her, tells her what I know and her response: Its better to join name with me to rent a flat because BECAUSE my brother told her to do so.
1. Mom is not eligible to rent a flat alone.
2. Borthers income is above the HDB limit so not eligible. (At first I tot he reached 8k salary already???!!!! but its not.)
3. Borther has a g/f , so she dont want him to ruin his chance of securing a gal. (No gals will want to live with a inlaw thingy.)
4. My brother told her to persuade me to join name together to get a rental flat.
My brother has money to buy and drive a car, but no intentions or money to support my mother which he boasted he will.
I was really upset after that call. I know mom underlying reservations about that elderly studio apartment....its very simple.
A) she cant house another person in that flat.
B) the flat cannot be passed down to any child. (the HDb says they will buy back the flat and return the buyers some CPF monies, which I think she knew that the monies goes back to me and sis instead of passing down to her only son. But she didnt know maybe is that the $$$ wont have to come back to me and sis.)
Its tiring. and there on the phone, she was grumbling about how her rental now is expiring and how she dont like renting places. i told her off that if she had any sense, its what she deserve.
I know Mom, she is very read-able. She felt insecure most times and so she sponges off her daughters, making the daughthers lives difficult to seek superiority to satisfy her ego.
She cannot live with othes, and she cannot afford her own place because her son has sucked her dry.
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morning..
i had a weird dream of the club30s people.
We were in a club/resort like place.. I remember Bear was swimming around in the pool, AV was don't know doing what in the background.. then I was about to go somewhere to take my car when it suddenly rained. LF appeared from duno where carrying a yellow umbrella, shelter me. We were walking up a small slope when we saw water rushing towards us. She asked me to jump to avoid the water, but the water was too big, and our feet got wet anyway.. Then I jumped into my car, drove off. I was heading towards the airport. Need to fetch someone from there.
I distinctly remembered I saw Elindra somewhere in my dream but I can't remember where I saw her now ...
I woke up at 4.30 am and couldn't sleep after that ...
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Originally posted by viciouskitty74:
Guess what!
She called again to tell me that Brother just came out of surgery, something to do with his lungs, so she wont be speaking to him about renting a flat with him or my refusal to rent a flat with her AFTER HE RECOVERED!
WTF.....
your family macam soap opera liddat...
thought you wanted to walk away?
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Originally posted by av98m:
You know, people talk about how elderly folks who are dumped into homes and never visited by their children etc are so poor thing etc, I'm sure there's a percentage that simply made life hell for their children.
what's that gag again? the one that goes:
your parents ruin the first half of your life and your children ruin the second half..
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Well, I already did my part and offered whatever I can give.
But to join name with her to rent a place, no way am I going to bind myself to her that way. She has her son to do that.
If he dont, well, its safer to be out of Singapore, out of her reach for at least 2 years at least.
The CPF will still be sitting in the a/cs, so we see when she comes to her senses then decide again what need to be done.
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