seriously speaking, does this kind of girls still exists in singapore?

Still have a lot.

The question is are they valued?

i understand that some girls would prefer their bf to have a stable career n income but it seems like many sg girls go to the extent of many unreasonable demands and 5Cs etc etc.

Originally posted by ah-soh:

seriously speaking, does this kind of girls still exists in singapore?

There are. They are either married or sg guys don't take a 2nd look at them

Originally posted by elindra:

There are. They are either married or sg guys don't take a 2nd look at them

Elindra would say she is, and falls into the already married category.

it’s hard to find non-materialistic girls nowadays. even harder to find non-materialistic girls who keeps a saving of her own for rainy days.

Aiya, anywhere will have materialistic girls la..

Don't take a small sample of bad eggs and assume all girls are materialistic.

If they really are materialistic, you don't care about them anyway.

How about it's time for guys to be materialistic for once?

doko

Originally posted by pwnz0r:

Elindra would say she is, and falls into the already married category.

I'm thick-skinned, not materialistic

Originally posted by ah-soh:

seriously speaking, does this kind of girls still exists in singapore?

seems like no... maybe when in sch... once out of sch, no.

i know quite a few nice gals who r not materialistic, sweet, nice and single. the problem is singaporean men dun wanna to date them becos they have an independent mind or becos they r not slim n pretty

if you are looking for non-materialistic sg gals, dun just look in your own social circle. open up your mind and heart and who knows maybe your gal is walking in right now

If girls are not being materialists, they are lazy, become plain Janes, getting big in the wrong proposition of their bodies and do not wish to upgrade themselves. Or they are so hard a worker for everbody else except for themselves. Thus are hardly noticed nor valued.

Let's be practical. In singapore, love cannot take of your needs and wants, money can. Let's take for example, your dream home. Sure you can love it all you want, without $$$, you can carry on loving it all you want.

Seriously speaking...

Materialistic,
There are always a bunch who are.
They don regret much,
its who they are.

So what can you say ?
They are bad ?
Or they just want to have a better survival in singapore's own finacial war ?
Or they just want some smooth journey in live ?
Or they need some things you just can't see.

Don't judge a girl too fast but saying she's materialistic.
She might be attracted to that kind of people.

When a girl have relationship with a flithy rich, ugly but smart guy,
What do u say ?

With a poor but good looking guy ?
With a good looking filthy rich and smart guy ?

What can we really do if they do ?
Jealousy or envy from either genders ?

Originally posted by the_don:

i know quite a few nice gals who r not materialistic, sweet, nice and single. the problem is singaporean men dun wanna to date them becos they have an independent mind or becos they r not slim n pretty

if you are looking for non-materialistic sg gals, dun just look in your own social circle. open up your mind and heart and who knows maybe your gal is walking in right now

are u saying pretty girls are materialistic?

No money don't pat tor lah.

Excuses for no money in wallet.

Originally posted by mayday80:

are u saying pretty girls are materialistic?

*faint* dun put words in my mouth.

i happen to have pretty frens who r not materialistic but shy. they are the ones that would need a guy to OPEN their eyes to see them.

being materialistic crosses gender, race and sexual preferences. but since the topic is about gals, lets stick to it

Originally posted by missqi:

No money don't pat tor lah.

Excuses for no money in wallet.

that is materialistic.... but really... no money how to pator??

See, it's always about guys asking if girls are being materialistic.

Im looking for a day when there will be same question asked by the opposite sex.

doko

Originally posted by ditzy:

Let's be practical. In singapore, love cannot take of your needs and wants, money can. Let's take for example, your dream home. Sure you can love it all you want, without $$$, you can carry on loving it all you want.

Don't talk about dream home, even public housing (HDB flats) cost a bomb in singapore.

Originally posted by dokono:

See, it's always about guys asking if girls are being materialistic.

Im looking for a day when there will be same question asked by the opposite sex.

doko

When a guy says, "career is more important, money is more important... etc etc", he is called career minded.

Nothing is fair.

Originally posted by blu_sky:

Don't talk about dream home, even public housing (HDB flats) cost a bomb in singapore.

Exactly! If you can't even provide a roof for your future wife, do you think you can take care of her for life? Oh wait, love will take care of that.

Originally posted by ditzy:

Exactly! If you can't even provide a roof for your future wife, do you think you can take care of her for life? Oh wait, love will take care of that.

Ya, love conquers all. May love conquers hunger and thirst too.
May love make us stronger, so we can withstand the rain, wind and sun. Then we dun need a roof over our head too.

Originally posted by pwnz0r:

Still have a lot.

don't think so. i think left ¼ nia.

Originally posted by blu_sky:

When a guy says, "career is more important, money is more important... etc etc", he is called career minded.

Nothing is fair.

Will there be a day the girl will say: "All he cares about is what kind of house I live in or whether I have a Ferrari at home or whether I have 5Cs. Does he like me for my money or me?" ?

This is the same as guys saying the above.

Ya nothing is fair. If everything is fair, no one will work hard to achieve what they want or anything. Perhaps materialistic girls are needed to push guys to work hard to and achieve something in life.

But then again, isn't getting a career is for yourself and not for the sake of impressing the opposite sex?

doko